# Do Females Play With Their Hair When They Are Attracted to a Male? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 4, 2008, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-females-play-with-their-hair-when-they-are-attracted-to-a-male/458833 "2008-08-04T19:03:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![TokyoBayer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tokyobayer/32/13989_2.png) [@TokyoBayer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TokyoBayer)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2008, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-females-play-with-their-hair-when-they-are-attracted-to-a-male/458833/41 "2008-08-07T02:39:57Z")
[QUOTE=Pushkin] I watched one or two of those types of shows in the UK, seemed strange to approach love with such a technical point of view. One fellow showed up on a related show who basically had a shag every night, he had trouble figuring out if that was good or bad. [/QUOTE] For the most part, pickup artists are not looking for love, but shags. If you are in a large city with a good number of bars, itโ€™s not that difficult to find a fair number of people who will have sex (and bonus points if they have sex with you. ๐Ÿ˜‰ ) The quality is a different story, though. ---
**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2008, 4:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-females-play-with-their-hair-when-they-are-attracted-to-a-male/458833/42 "2008-08-07T04:28:22Z")
I play with my hair all the time no matter what the situation so that would be a poor indicator of interest from me. If I am interested in a guy I give him a sideways glance or two. If I give him a sideways glance _and_ bite my lower lip it is because I am more than a little interested (IOW I want to bang him.) [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-females-play-with-their-hair-when-they-are-attracted-to-a-male/458833.md?page=2)