# Do girls experience attraction when do  they see guys?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 4, 2018, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-girls-experience-attraction-when-do-they-see-guys/811803 "2018-04-04T13:46:32Z")\
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**Author:** ![gisaaanr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3d9bf3/32.png) [@gisaaanr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gisaaanr)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2018, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-girls-experience-attraction-when-do-they-see-guys/811803/1 "2018-04-04T13:46:32Z")

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I keep hearing that girls don’t feel attraction when do they see guys. But if a guy ask a girls out, after knowing the guy thoroughly if they like his personality and if he is a good person then girls can feel affection for him as like we feel for our friends. Friendship takes time to, it never happen initially.

As like when do we see our siblings we can acknowledge them but feel no attraction. But we love them because we have emotional relationship with them. It’s more about emotional bond, affection.

They really care about a guy’s looks and that they only like guys emotionally and not physically? Is this true? How about if the guy is good looking do you get attracted to him or it doesn’t matter? Are girls physically attracted to guys at all or is it all emotional? How does a girl know if she’s straight or lesbian then? I’ve never dated before so I don’t know.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [April 4, 2018, 2:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-girls-experience-attraction-when-do-they-see-guys/811803/2 "2018-04-04T14:07:08Z")

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You already have a thread on this subject: [https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=849039](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=849039)

And had one thread closed for being a repeat of that thread.  
[https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=850631](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=850631)

And you have a related thread:  
[https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=850782](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=850782)  
Stop opening new threads on this subject. Stick to the thread you have and if it doesn’t generate discussion, take that as meaningful.