# Do mods or admins ever read private messages between members?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398>\
**Category:** About This Message Board\
**Created:** [October 11, 2007, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398 "2007-10-11T22:59:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![tomndebb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b9e5f3/32.png) [@tomndebb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tomndebb)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2007, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/21 "2007-10-14T03:07:25Z")

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[QUOTE=samclem]  
Stranger and stranger. I get PMs all the time. From dopers.

But, I’ve never noticed a “notice” in the corner of any screen. I just get an email in my normal personal email box at [sclements@neo.rr.com](mailto:sclements@neo.rr.com) and then I reply.

Am I missing something?  
[/QUOTE]  
Perhaps.  
Click the **User CP** link on the top bar.

On the left, below the heading “ **Control Panel** ” are further links.  
Click **Edit Options**  
On the right (taking up most of the screen) are several options and their descriptions below a bar labeled “ **Edit Options** ” divided by activity.  
In the second boxed activity, labeled **Messaging and Notification** , the third section says

> [@](#):
>
> **Private Messaging**  
> This forum features a private messaging system, which allows members to send messages to one another privately.
> 
> If you do not want to send or receive private messages, you may disable the private messaging system.  
> |\_| Enable Private Messaging
> 
> The forum can send a message to your email address to inform you when someone sends you a private message.  
> |\_| Receive Email Notification of New Private Messages
> 
> If you are browsing the forums when you receive a new private message, the system can pop-up a notification box informing you of the new message.  
> |\_| Show New Private Message Notification Pop-up

Each of the Check Boxes provide a different function.

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 2:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/22 "2007-10-21T02:28:21Z")

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[QUOTE=Q.E.D.]  
Yep. It took about 6.7 seconds of Googling to find one.  
[/QUOTE]

To a Googlebot, 6.7 seconds is almost an eternity.

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**Author:** ![Contrapuntal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e274bd/32.png) [@Contrapuntal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Contrapuntal)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/23 "2007-10-21T13:27:53Z")

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[QUOTE=Q.E.D.]  
Top left corner of the screen:

**Welcome, Q.E.D..**  
You last visited: Today at 09:05 PM  
Private Messages: Unread **1** , Total 17.  
[/QUOTE]  
Mine’s in the top right, FWIW.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/24 "2007-10-21T13:55:14Z")

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[QUOTE=Contrapuntal]  
Mine’s in the top right, FWIW.  
[/QUOTE]

Thank you for confirming our suspicions that this is the **Q.E.D.** from the Mirror Universe.\*

\*actually, the goatee _should_ have clued us in.

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**Author:** ![Q.E.D](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/51bf81/32.png) [@Q.E.D](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.E.D)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/25 "2007-10-21T13:59:58Z")

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:smack:

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**Author:** ![picunurse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 3:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/26 "2007-10-21T15:03:27Z")

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[QUOTE=Q.E.D.]  
:smack:  
[/QUOTE]

If it makes you feel any better, when I was in the Air Force, they made me carry a rock in my right hand when I marched. 😃

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**Author:** ![Q.E.D](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/51bf81/32.png) [@Q.E.D](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.E.D)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/27 "2007-10-21T15:15:57Z")

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Left, rock, left, rock!

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 6:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/28 "2007-10-21T18:03:34Z")

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[QUOTE=samclem]  
Stranger and stranger. I get PMs all the time. From dopers.

But, I’ve never noticed a “notice” in the corner of any screen. I just get an email in my normal personal email box at [sclements@neo.rr.com](mailto:sclements@neo.rr.com) and then I reply.

Am I missing something?  
[/QUOTE]

I feel less guilty about not checking mine so often now. 🙂

When I was a member I didn’t have PMs turned on. When I became a Moderator it seems to have been turned on automatically. It took me a while to realize the notification thingie was there.

Is it possible yours has never been turned on?

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**Author:** ![DSYoungEsq](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c6cbf5/32.png) [@DSYoungEsq](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DSYoungEsq)\
**Post date:** [October 21, 2007, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/29 "2007-10-21T19:39:13Z")

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[QUOTE=Colibri]  
I feel less guilty about not checking mine so often now. 🙂

When I was a member I didn’t have PMs turned on. When I became a Moderator it seems to have been turned on automatically. It took me a while to realize the notification thingie was there.

Is it possible yours has never been turned on?  
[/QUOTE]

I had to look at that last statement VERY carefully!!! :eek: :eek: :eek:

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-mods-or-admins-ever-read-private-messages-between-members/422398/30 "2007-10-25T21:59:26Z")

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[QUOTE=Chronos]  
Or it could just be idiots on the Internet making baseless accusations about supposedly Nazi moderators. That happens, too.  
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😕

😉

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