# Do nurses or doctors ever have to masturbate disabled or paralyzed people?
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572
**Category:** Factual Questions
**Created:** [September 13, 2012, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572 "2012-09-13T03:45:22Z")
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### Author:  [@Reply](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reply)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/1 "2012-09-13T03:45:22Z")
I understand that when people can’t (for whatever reason) take care of themselves, their caretakers have to feed them, bathe them, change them, wipe their butts, etc. In the case of professional caretakers, are they either legally obliged or prevented from taking care of their clients’ sexual needs?
I’m going to guess not, but does that mean that clients who aren’t otherwise intimate with someone would go years… or perhaps the rest of their lives… without any sexual release?
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### Author:  [@picker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picker)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 9:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/2 "2012-09-13T09:26:44Z")
Get to. Not have to. Think positive.
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### Author:  [@benbo1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/benbo1)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 9:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/3 "2012-09-13T09:37:53Z")
What a gr8 question! Sexual activity has proven cardiovascular benefit, as well as a general good feeling, endorphin release, and just plain feels good. Of course it’s more fun with a partner (in my personal experience), but I’ve never ‘serviced’ a disabled woman (closest I came was one with a bad back & another with a sprained ankle 🙂 ). I guess they have limited choice for partners but I’m sure there must be some kind of specialized healthcare worker out there who can provide release. Especially in men, there is real danger in lack of release: Cecil covered this syndrome of ‘priests disease’ here:
> **[Why do one’s loins ache after a session of nonclimactic arousal?](https://www.straightdope.com/21341637/why-do-one-s-loins-ache-after-a-session-of-nonclimactic-arousal)**
Basically, backed-up semen can infect the prostate causing prostatitis. it’s accepted that men who regularly ‘clean the pipes’ suffer lower incidences of prostate issues. Dunno the data on women, but in general, having sexual release is healthier than not having it.
Sorry I can’t provide a definite answer. Based on other life experiences, my instinct tells me that if some1 can think of the question, there are people out there to provide a service (even legally). Every once in a while, some1 asks a question that makes me stop on a dime, & ponder. Damn good question.
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### Author:  [@Horatio\_Hellpop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Horatio_Hellpop)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 11:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/4 "2012-09-13T11:23:11Z")
Every time I’ve been in a hospital and under a nurse’s care (I’m not disabled or paralyzed), I’ve had a catheter jammed up into my penis, so I never got to pursue the whole “sexy nurse” fantasy. (Korea has very beautiful nurses, BTW, and very gnarly catheters.)
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### Author:  [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 11:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/5 "2012-09-13T11:43:23Z")
> [@benbo1](#):
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> Sexual activity has proven cardiovascular benefit…
Isn’t this related to all the moving around that’s a typical part of sex between able-bodied people, as opposed to the relatively minor increase in blood flow related to arousal? if that’s the case, would there be any significant CV benefit for sexual activity in a person who has limited or zero movement?
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### Author:  [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/6 "2012-09-13T12:10:31Z")
I’m pretty sure I could lose my license for that.
But I do wonder if they ever need to assist for sperm collection or testing of seminal fluid or something. My guess is a gloved finger up the rectum to stimulate the prostate would be the more professional technique, not an actual hand job.
There are sex therapists, and some of them do engage in sexual activity with their clients, or they employ sex surrogates, but I’m not sure how legitimately they’re viewed by, say, a nursing home or rehab center. I’m almost certain Medicare won’t pay for it, even if you had a referral.
I also don’t know how they stay on the legal side of prostitution laws.
More on sex therapists from a really weird message board: [Do Sex Therapists Have Sex With You? - Factual Questions - Straight Dope Message Board](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=440807)
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### Author:  [@wedgehed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wedgehed)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 12:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/7 "2012-09-13T12:19:49Z")
I would think that a guy would have enough wet dreams to keep the pipes clean.
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### Author:  [@Snarky\_Kong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snarky_Kong)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/8 "2012-09-13T13:07:39Z")
I’ve seen a video (on youtube!) of a nurse mastrubating a disabled person, but I’m sure not going to search for it right now.
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### Author:  [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/9 "2012-09-13T13:11:28Z")
Truly universal healthcare?
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### Author:  [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/10 "2012-09-13T13:20:35Z")
> [@wedgehed](#):
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> I would think that a guy would have enough wet dreams to keep the pipes clean.
Nope. Last time I had one of those was years ago.
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### Author:  [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/11 "2012-09-13T13:37:30Z")
It’s not masturbation if someone else does it to or “for” you.
I’m pretty sure it would be a crime everywhere in the US except certain place in Nevada.
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### Author:  [@Qwertol](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qwertol)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/12 "2012-09-13T13:41:19Z")
> [@Machine\_Elf](#):
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> Nope. Last time I had one of those was years ago.
But you probably are sexually active or you do masturbate (does masturbation counts as sexually active? I guess not, but it probably might depend on context…).
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### Author:  [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/13 "2012-09-13T13:49:57Z")
This is one of the biggest reasons I think prostitution should be legal (and safe and all that). Not that I’m saying every paralyzed person will be ordering hookers by the truckload, but why shouldn’t they be able to if they want to?
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### Author:  [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 2:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/14 "2012-09-13T14:01:52Z")
> [@picker](#):
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> Get to. Not have to. Think positive.
Sometimes I’m happy to see that someone is in the same handbasket as me.
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### Author:  [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/15 "2012-09-13T14:28:55Z")
> [@Qwertol](#):
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> But you probably are sexually active or you do masturbate (does masturbation counts as sexually active? I guess not, but it probably might depend on context…).
Are wet dreams something that only happen if a man is not sexually active (and here I mean “sexually active” in that the hardware gets a workout once in a while, with or without the help of another person)?
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### Author:  [@Alley\_Dweller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alley_Dweller)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/16 "2012-09-13T14:50:03Z")
> [@Anaamika](#):
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> This is one of the biggest reasons I think prostitution should be legal (and safe and all that). Not that I’m saying every paralyzed person will be ordering hookers by the truckload, but why shouldn’t they be able to if they want to?
Would it be legal if they got unpaid volunteers to do it?
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### Author:  [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/17 "2012-09-13T14:56:51Z")
> [@picker](#):
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> Get to. Not have to. Think positive.
> [@Loach](#):
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> Sometimes I’m happy to see that someone is in the same handbasket as me.
Yes, it would appear that sometimes pickers _can_ be spoojers.
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### Author:  [@Qwertol](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qwertol)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/18 "2012-09-13T15:34:53Z")
> [@Machine\_Elf](#):
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> Are wet dreams something that only happen if a man is not sexually active (and here I mean “sexually active” in that the hardware gets a workout once in a while, with or without the help of another person)?
I guess it’s not proven but I would think that frequent ejaculation through stimulation would reduce occurrences of nocturnal emissions.
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### Author:  [@Slithy\_Tove](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slithy_Tove)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/19 "2012-09-13T16:00:26Z")
We’d just be encouraging lazy people to become paralyzed.
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### Author:  [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2012, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-nurses-or-doctors-ever-have-to-masturbate-disabled-or-paralyzed-people/634572/20 "2012-09-13T16:41:18Z")
Caregivers have gone to jail for such things. In a nursing home it would be considered abuse.
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