# do straight guys like their ass played with, and/or licked? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 20, 2002, 6:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713 "2002-08-20T06:21:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![davidhanson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/59ef9b/32.png) [@davidhanson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/davidhanson)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 6:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/1 "2002-08-20T06:21:25Z")
yes, i believe they do…😛 ---
**Author:** ![Genseric](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Genseric](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Genseric)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 7:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/2 "2002-08-20T07:01:36Z")
This one doesn’t. ---
**Author:** ![Babar714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/779978/32.png) [@Babar714](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babar714)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 7:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/3 "2002-08-20T07:06:10Z")
You just don’t know where that has been. ---
**Author:** ![Babar714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/779978/32.png) [@Babar714](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babar714)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 7:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/4 "2002-08-20T07:07:47Z")
(meant to say ‘…that tongue’. dammit) ---
**Author:** ![zen101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c68b51/32.png) [@zen101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zen101)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 7:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/5 "2002-08-20T07:47:35Z")
hmmm, it’s a mood thing. Not so much with the fingering biz, but if I’m in the right mood then a rimmer is O.K. Also if I’m with two women and they are in a “69” and I am coming at the “6” from behind then often the “9”'s nose is in a really interesting place, either bumping my testicles, or massaging my “taint”/anus. Thats nice, but can leat to exacerbating the prexisting overstimulus of being with two women. ---
**Author:** ![Booker57](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Booker57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Booker57)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 7:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/6 "2002-08-20T07:53:35Z")
This one does. It is not what you do, rather who you do what with, that defines your sexuality. I like women. YMMV ---
**Author:** ![Gozu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gozu/32/6615_2.png) [@Gozu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gozu)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 1:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/7 "2002-08-20T13:48:55Z")
When being fellated, a very slight pressure on the anus (no deep fingering) can make me come faster. I read somewhere that in some old culture, women used to insert a piece of tissue in their lover’s anus and pull it out when they came. That usually had the effect of making their partner come. From a biological standpoint, anal stimulation does normally have a positive effect on men engaged in sexual activities. But psychological inhibitions can provoke the opposite effect. ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 2:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/8 "2002-08-20T14:03:03Z")
Sure…how else are you gonna find your male G-spot? ---
**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/9 "2002-08-20T14:04:35Z")
This one does not. I’m sure it feels good and all, but no matter how much I, ahem, clean myself I never think it’s clean enough. The thought of it makes me cringe. I do know that there are zones in that area that are supposed to make a world of difference, but the thought of my girl pulling up a dirty hand and unconsciously wiping it on me-YUCK, I can’t complete that thought without provoking a case of the supremely nasty willies… ---
**Author:** ![Atreyu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5e9695/32.png) [@Atreyu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atreyu)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/10 "2002-08-20T15:18:24Z")
:eek: ---
**Author:** ![Soul\_Brother\_Number\_Two](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/soul_brother_number_two/32/3515_2.png) [@Soul\_Brother\_Number\_Two](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Soul_Brother_Number_Two)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/11 "2002-08-20T16:23:05Z")
Yep. ---
**Author:** ![DMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@DMark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DMark)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/12 "2002-08-20T16:24:45Z")
This GAY guy doesn’t. ---
**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/13 "2002-08-20T21:59:39Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by zen101 \* > \*\*hmmm, it’s a mood thing. Not so much with the fingering biz, but if I’m in the right mood then a rimmer is O.K. > > Also if I’m with two women and they are in a “69” and I am coming at the “6” from behind then often the “9”'s nose is in a really interesting place, either bumping my testicles, or massaging my “taint”/anus. Thats nice, but can leat to exacerbating the prexisting overstimulus of being with two women. \*\* Dude! I didn’t recognize you at first. Ladies and gents, we have **Ron Jeremy** as a poster! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![zen101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c68b51/32.png) [@zen101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zen101)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/14 "2002-08-20T22:23:06Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Coldfire \* > \*\*Dude! I didn’t recognize you at first. Ladies and gents, we have **Ron Jeremy** as a poster! 😃 \*\* I don’t know if you mean that to be an insult or not, but have you seen Ron Jeremy lately? Not attractive at all. Besides as I mentioned overstimulus is a concern for me, and judging from his need to maintain a “grip” on himself at all times in his films, I’d say maintaining minimal stimulus is more a concern of his. ---
**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/15 "2002-08-20T22:42:40Z")
Nah, not an insult. But you gotta admit, your scenario sounds like it’s straight out of a por flick. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![zen101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c68b51/32.png) [@zen101](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zen101)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/16 "2002-08-20T22:54:23Z")
Heh, nah in a porno I’d have a bigger wang and the women would both be satiated by my attentions alone. Typically this is not the case. But the scenario is an occupational hazard that isn’t too terrible, you see I DJ at the only “swinger” club in my state so I’m rapidly becoming even more jaded than trudging through South American jungles avoiding 7.62 rounds made me. The only real drawback is that I may just become so inured with the lifestyle that I’m no longer interested in a “normal” relationship. ---
**Author:** ![World\_Eater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@World\_Eater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/World_Eater)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 10:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/17 "2002-08-20T22:55:25Z")
A porn flick by NASA perhaps. WTF is he talking about? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![\_Deep\_F\_ied](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/7cd45c/32.png) [@\_Deep\_F\_ied](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/_Deep_F_ied)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2002, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/18 "2002-08-20T23:37:19Z")
I certainly enjoy anal stimulation. however, the societal stigma associated with a straight man enjoying fingers and dildos in his ass is so severe that the topic doesn’t lend itself toward casual beer drinking conversation with the buddies… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![\_LX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/67e7ee/32.png) [@\_LX](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/_LX)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2002, 2:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/19 "2002-08-21T02:22:43Z")
Maybe I would but that area is so darn hairy… I have the same feelings as **Meatros** on this subject. ---
**Author:** ![Genseric](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Genseric](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Genseric)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2002, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713/20 "2002-08-21T05:51:00Z")
I’m going to agree with **Meatros** , it’s not a societal conditioning or homophobic thing with me. It’s a feces cleanliness thing. A little tickle is fine, I keep the outside of my anus pretty clean, but penetration is _right out_. I’ve experienced it, and it doesn’t feel good to me. Also I would never ask, expect or even want a woman to put her tongue on my anus. Especially if I planned on kissing her anytime in the next week or so. My sexual philosophy is “If it feels good, do it.” So more power to anyone who enjoys it, but rest assured that not every man is a major league anal monster. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-straight-guys-like-their-ass-played-with-and-or-licked/124713.md?page=2)