# Do what?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 24, 2006, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985 "2006-06-24T15:22:00Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![HelloKitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ecccb3/32.png) [@HelloKitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HelloKitty)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2006, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/21 "2006-06-24T17:59:13Z")

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I always say “What was that…?” or “Say what…?”

I’m trying to stop though because I think it’s kinda rude. I think it would be better for me to say the more dignified “Sorry, what did you say?” Seems more polite. But habits are hard to break!!

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**Author:** ![Hostile\_Dialect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e495f1/32.png) [@Hostile\_Dialect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hostile_Dialect)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/22 "2006-06-25T02:35:34Z")

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> [@Kythereia](#):
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> 1. Come again, please?

Easier said than done, buddy.

Seriously though, I say “Sorry?” Happens a lot on the phone, I don’t know why.

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**Author:** ![cuauhtemoc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecb155/32.png) [@cuauhtemoc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cuauhtemoc)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 2:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/23 "2006-06-25T02:47:22Z")

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A couple of years ago, all the kids were saying “Wha’ happened?” I think that’s pretty much over now. Good thing, because it was stupid.

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**Author:** ![Roland\_Orzabal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c2a13f/32.png) [@Roland\_Orzabal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roland_Orzabal)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 6:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/24 "2006-06-25T06:58:55Z")

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The title of the thread is the answer to the question. Now that I think about it, though, if I’m incredulous about what the person said – as opposed to having trouble understanding the words themselves – I’ll append a “now” to the phrase. Thus:

“Do what?” 😕

“Do what now?” :dubious:

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**Author:** ![AngelicGemma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@AngelicGemma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AngelicGemma)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 9:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/25 "2006-06-25T09:41:30Z")

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I just say -

pardon?

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**Author:** ![Ice\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/dfb087/32.png) [@Ice\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ice_Wolf)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 10:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/26 "2006-06-25T10:37:22Z")

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> [@AngelicGemma](#):
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> I just say -
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> pardon?

Me too. If I’m not wretchedly tired. If I am, it’s “WHAT??”

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**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 11:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/27 "2006-06-25T11:08:23Z")

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To my patients: “I’m sorry, I didn’t quite catch that, would you mind saying it again, please?”

To my friends-" Sorry, I missed that, what were you saying?"

To my husband-“Say it again Sam!”  
It’s a “bit” we do because I space out so often.

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**Author:** ![blinkingblinking](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ea5d25/32.png) [@blinkingblinking](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blinkingblinking)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 11:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/28 "2006-06-25T11:41:58Z")

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People who say "Beg yours’.

I think this is an ‘Australianism’.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 11:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/29 "2006-06-25T11:46:59Z")

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1.

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**Author:** ![Stillwell\_Angel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@Stillwell\_Angel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stillwell_Angel)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/30 "2006-06-25T11:50:50Z")

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You did what to who’s cat?

(must give credit for that to my co-worker, had never heard it until I met her)

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**Author:** ![Campion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4491bb/32.png) [@Campion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Campion)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/31 "2006-06-25T16:17:14Z")

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The informal is, “do what?”

The formal is, “pardon me (or excuse me), I didn’t catch that.”

To my secretary, it’s “what was that again? I CAN’T HEAR YOU!!!” Bellowed, because for some reason we both refuse to use the intercom on our desks and prefer instead simply to yell at each other. I am told that my coworkers _love_ that about us. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/32 "2006-06-25T16:25:20Z")

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8a) Howzat?  
8a.1) Howzat again?  
8b) Run that by me again? (usually pron. “Runnatbymegin?”)

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2006, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/33 "2006-06-25T16:27:22Z")

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Oh yeah…Cincinnatians say, “Please?”

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**Author:** ![Lionne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Lionne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lionne)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/34 "2006-06-26T02:15:51Z")

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1. Excuse me? **If I think they’re being jerks**
2. Say **that \*\* again?** when I truly didn’t hear them\*\*
3. I’m sorry? **I use this the most.**

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**Author:** ![Rhiannon8404](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rhiannon8404/32/17929_2.png) [@Rhiannon8404](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhiannon8404)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/35 "2006-06-26T03:40:14Z")

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Sorry? or Excuse me?

Occasionally, if I’m annoyed, it’s…Could you please repeat yourself, you were mumbling

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**Author:** ![Ensign\_Edison](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ab992/32.png) [@Ensign\_Edison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ensign_Edison)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/36 "2006-06-26T03:45:02Z")

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I can’t abide “huh?” and cringe to hear myself ever saying it.

“I’m sorry, what was that?” (Or either half of this)  
“Could you repeat that, please?”

Sometimes I won’t say anything, just indicate by expression and gesturing at my ear.

If I know damn well what you said and I’m not happy about it, it’s “What did you just say?”

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**Author:** ![MizGrand](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cdc98d/32.png) [@MizGrand](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MizGrand)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/37 "2006-06-26T13:26:13Z")

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If I’m not understanding when people talk I usually point out that I’m a bit hard-of-hearing. This usually helps vastly.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/38 "2006-06-26T13:42:33Z")

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If I’m with the family, “¿Mandeloqué?” which would be something like the country-bumpkin, run-together version of “sorry, what did you say?”

With English-speaking friends, “mindsa’in’atagain?”

And in polite company, either “sorry, I didn’t understand that, could you repeat please?” or its Spanish equivalent. If they were talking too fast I’ll specify “… repeat more slowly…”

I’ve been told I can “pass” as American so long as I’m not overtired. I didn’t quite believe it until that run-in with a server at my company’s cafeteria, who wouldn’t believe I didn’t know what “Okrah” was and needed her to point it for me. Sometimes I do understand the sounds, I just have no idea what they _mean_.

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**Author:** ![UncleRojelio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/unclerojelio/32/3160_2.png) [@UncleRojelio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UncleRojelio)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2006, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/39 "2006-06-26T13:43:02Z")

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Do what? At work.

Shot who? At home.

Que? Everywhere else.

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**Author:** ![theunfounddoor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b19c9b/32.png) [@theunfounddoor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/theunfounddoor)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2006, 1:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-what/361985/40 "2006-06-27T13:04:12Z")

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“Your what hurts?” or simply “What?” with friends

“I’m sorry?” or “Could you repeat that?” when at work.

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