# Do you keep dead people on your phone's contact list?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 16, 2012, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242 "2012-11-16T20:55:25Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 11\
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**Author:** ![aruvqan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aruvqan/32/2891_2.png) [@aruvqan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aruvqan)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/21 "2012-11-17T03:25:34Z")

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Yup. And no I wont remove them.

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/22 "2012-11-17T03:27:45Z")

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I just checked and my ex-gf’s Mom is still in my phone. She really meant a lot to me and I am going to keep it there.

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**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/23 "2012-11-17T04:43:46Z")

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I read this thread title and though, “Oh geez, no – why would I do that?” Then I realized that my sister-in-law, who passed away in May, is still in my phone. So I am on the list. And I can’t say I feel particularly compelled to delete her now, either.

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**Author:** ![PandaBear77](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/edb3f5/32.png) [@PandaBear77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PandaBear77)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 4:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/24 "2012-11-17T04:56:12Z")

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Phone list no, because I don’t have a cell phone.

There are 3 deceased people on my Yahoo messenger list, though. They’ll be there 'til it’s time for me to go.

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**Author:** ![Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Springtime_for_Spacers)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/25 "2012-11-17T05:02:57Z")

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I began to read the thread and decided to delete the two dead people on my phone. I won’t miss them any less.

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**Author:** ![Monkey\_Chews](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/65b543/32.png) [@Monkey\_Chews](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monkey_Chews)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/26 "2012-11-17T06:51:13Z")

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I have one deceased friend in my contacts list. I don’t have any pressing reason to delete it, and I enjoy seeing her name pop up from time to time as I’m scrolling through. It’s a nice random little reminder of her. It’s no big thing.

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**Author:** ![AK84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@AK84](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AK84)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 7:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/27 "2012-11-17T07:21:19Z")

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I have kept some and deleted some. Am quite inconsistent in that respect.

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**Author:** ![MostlyClueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba9def/32.png) [@MostlyClueless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MostlyClueless)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 8:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/28 "2012-11-17T08:11:47Z")

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Removed the number of my granddad after he died. Not immediately, maybe a month later.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 10:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/29 "2012-11-17T10:05:33Z")

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… does it count that my grandmother’s phone number says “grandparents”?

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**Author:** ![dba\_Fred](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c37758/32.png) [@dba\_Fred](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dba_Fred)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 11:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/30 "2012-11-17T11:30:52Z")

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Not an issue on my phone contact list. For people in my email or instant messenger contacts list that I’m no longer in contact with (for whatever reason), I munge the address with leading zzzs so it won’t send and also will sort to the bottom of the list.

I do have an unused cell phone that has 2 or 3 messages from my deceased Mom that I’m meaning to but haven’t yet recorded/digitized to my computer.

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**Author:** ![dimmy\_derko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/43a26b/32.png) [@dimmy\_derko](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dimmy_derko)\
**Post date:** [November 17, 2012, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-keep-dead-people-on-your-phones-contact-list/641242/31 "2012-11-17T12:34:20Z")

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I phone dead people… _ALL THE TIME!_

Well, mostly at weekends when I get free calls, and not if they didn’t have a landline number.

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