# Do you like loud music?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 26, 2008, 7:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710 "2008-12-26T07:46:17Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/21 "2008-12-27T03:37:44Z")

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No.

Too loud, for too long, and I will have to leave before I start to cry. I just can’t take the noise.

When I’m the only one in the house sometimes (very occasionally) I will turn up the volume, but that usually gets it to about the same level the rest of the family uses normally.

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**Author:** ![freekalette](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/50afbb/32.png) [@freekalette](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/freekalette)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/22 "2008-12-27T04:38:13Z")

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> [@SeaDragonTattoo](#):
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> Loud! I like it loud! Rattle the windows, shake the floor, \<\<vibrate\>\> through my body!
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> I’m not fond of having to shout to have conversations, though. I prefer quieter bars if I’m with a group that’s doing sit-down drinking and talking rather than dancing.
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> Bass that’s so deep I can feel it rather than hear it makes me horny.

You’re my kind of (guy? gal?) Doper. 🆒

My hearing is pretty bad, so I turn my music up pretty loud anymore so I can hear it. On the flip side, I like to hear what folks say to me, so if I’m going to have a conversation I don’t like extraneous noise.

And the bass absolutely _must_ rumble, but it can’t be distorted. Everything has to be mixed well, or it all sounds like shit. (FTR, this applies to rock, classical, everything, not just rap.)

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**Author:** ![Gwyen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/858c86/32.png) [@Gwyen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gwyen)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/23 "2008-12-27T05:32:20Z")

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Yes. Loud. Bass is wonderful, with no distortion like said above. I don’t like it if the highs are up too high though, that hurts my ears.

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**Author:** ![Snarky\_Kong](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Snarky\_Kong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snarky_Kong)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 6:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/24 "2008-12-27T06:26:14Z")

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It depends on the music. Slayer-yes, The Flaming Lips-no.

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**Author:** ![freekalette](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/50afbb/32.png) [@freekalette](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/freekalette)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 6:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/25 "2008-12-27T06:36:55Z")

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> [@Snarky\_Kong](#):
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> The Flaming Lips-no.

I find your ideas appalling and wish to UNsubscribe from your newsletter. :mad:  
(I still like ya. Just think you are nuts.)

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**Author:** ![Lust4Life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecc23a/32.png) [@Lust4Life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lust4Life)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/26 "2008-12-27T14:24:44Z")

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If I’m listening to classical music at home I like it at a reasonable level,if I’m listening to music at a rave I like it incredibly loud.

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/27 "2008-12-27T14:28:15Z")

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I have permanently diminished hearing due to parking my ass next to a huge speaker at a concert when I was a kid. No, I’m not crazy about loud music.

My brother’s guitar player used to wear a t-shirt that said, “Rock’s Gotta Be Loud”, but if it’s so loud you can’t hear the nuances, it’s rather pointless, in my opinion.

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**Author:** ![Clothahump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@Clothahump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Clothahump)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/28 "2008-12-27T16:17:52Z")

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> [@Vox\_Imperatoris](#):
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> Now, I realize that some types of music are considered inherently “louder” than others, but what I’m mainly asking in this thread is whether you like music that is turned up loud, such as you might find in a dance club or similar location. So, how loud is too loud for you?
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> Personally, I find it extremely annoying and uncomfortable, and I can think of few environments less appealing to me for social interaction.

Me, too. I hate going into restaurants where the “background” music is so loud, we have to raise our voices to be heard in conversation at the table.

And don’t get me started on assholes who have their car stereos turned up so loud you can hear them coming for blocks away.

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**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/29 "2008-12-27T16:25:23Z")

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To me, there’s a difference between loud and painful. Some things need the volume turned up - you can’t listen to the 1812 Overture on 2. But it doesn’t need to rattle the windows either. And in public places, if you have to yell to be heard, it’s too loud.

I hate live performances where it’s so loud you can’t hear yourself think. I was part of an arts and craft show and a band was performing at the proverbial dial position of 11. I wasn’t even sitting that close to them, and it annoyed me.

Of course, I’m an old grouch, so there’s that to consider. But even when I was a teen, I hated towering speakers and bass that I felt in my bones.

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**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/30 "2008-12-27T16:28:07Z")

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Tonight I went out to see _Public Enemy_. When I was down front about 20 feet from Chuck D (Flavor Flav missed the show due to United) I was impressed how the sound waves from the PA tugged at my clothes and rattled my interior.

So tonight yeah.

But a few weeks ago a group of us went to a Greek restaurant. The music was so loud we couldn’t talk. I suggested to the waiter that he disable the speaker near our table or we would have to go without ordering. He politely complied.

So that lunchtime no.

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**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/31 "2008-12-27T20:52:25Z")

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I can’t stand loud music, mostly because I’m very deaf in my left ear—the deafness isn’t music related. But the deafness causes me to miss much of what is being played and a combination of music and conversation is all but impossible.

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**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-loud-music/478710/32 "2008-12-27T21:13:42Z")

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I like to crank it up around the house when I’m listening to something I really like. Moreso if I’ve been drinking. In the truck too (no drinking there)

I hate movie theaters when it’s too loud. Part of the reason I never go to them.

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