# do you like super-bad words?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [August 27, 2010, 7:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642 "2010-08-27T07:22:08Z")
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### Author: ![Ladymarmalade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f05b48/32.png) [@Ladymarmalade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ladymarmalade)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/1 "2010-08-27T07:22:08Z")

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Do ever get giddy just at the thought of saying, like, the “R” word or the “N” word?

What do you really think of bad words and super-bad words?

Which are your favorites?

Any other thoughts on bad words?

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### Author: ![pkbites](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pkbites/32/204_2.png) [@pkbites](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pkbites)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/2 "2010-08-27T07:32:35Z")

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The “R” word? 😕

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### Author: ![Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Attack_from_the_3rd_dimension)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/3 "2010-08-27T07:34:02Z")

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The “R” word?

Who are you, Scooby-Doo?

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### Author: ![Shawn\_K\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c67d28/32.png) [@Shawn\_K\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shawn_K_1)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/4 "2010-08-27T07:34:07Z")

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What’s the “R” word?

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### Author: ![multimediac17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/839c29/32.png) [@multimediac17](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/multimediac17)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/5 "2010-08-27T07:36:19Z")

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I think the R-word is retard.

OOH LOOK AT ME I SAID A BAD WORD! The RUSH! The RUSH of excitement!

_goes running away screaming “YIPPEE”_

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### Author: ![Ladymarmalade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f05b48/32.png) [@Ladymarmalade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ladymarmalade)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 7:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/6 "2010-08-27T07:41:12Z")

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> [@multimediac17](#):
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> I think the R-word is retard.
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> OOH LOOK AT ME I SAID A BAD WORD! The RUSH! The RUSH of excitement!
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> _goes running away screaming “YIPPEE”_

ROFL!

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### Author: ![marshmallow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df705f/32.png) [@marshmallow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/marshmallow)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/7 "2010-08-27T08:27:54Z")

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I’m a fan of cunt because it seems to be one of the few taboo words anymore that really has an impact, but only in certain situations. I’ve met some people who overuse it from time to time trying to be super edgy, but that threatens to cheapen it. I’d rather it not become a casual word like retard, pussy, or dick. Retard is fun to say, so you can sprinkle it around, but cunt should be saved to pack more of a punch whether it’s being used as an insult or in an amorous setting for dirty talk.

The dude who messed your order up isn’t a cunt, OK? If you’re gonna use it as an insult you need to work up a good scowl and make it cut your teeth. Similarly, in bed, I’d rather not be told to fuck your cunt over and over. I’m not gonna file a formal complaint or anything, but you should save that for when things get really intense and are reaching a boiling point, or as emphasis at the end of a string of commands. Pussy is fun, feminine, and flirty whereas cunt is dirty, salty and has no shame. At least, that’s what seems right, but I could be crazy since I just wrote two paragraphs about proper cunt usage, so pay me no mind.

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### Author: ![marshmallow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df705f/32.png) [@marshmallow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/marshmallow)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 8:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/8 "2010-08-27T08:37:40Z")

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I’m a fan of cunt because it seems to be one of the few taboo words anymore that really has an impact, but only in certain situations. I’ve met some people who overuse it from time to time trying to be super edgy, but that threatens to cheapen it. I’d rather it not become a casual word like retard, pussy, or dick. Retard is fun to say, so you can sprinkle it around, but cunt should be saved to pack more of a punch whether it’s being used as an insult or in an amorous setting for dirty talk.

The dude who messed your order up isn’t a cunt, OK? If you’re gonna use it as an insult you need to work up a good scowl and make it cut your teeth. Similarly, in bed, I’d rather not be told to fuck your cunt over and over. I’m not gonna file a formal complaint or anything, but you should save that for when things get really intense and are reaching a boiling point, or as emphasis at the end of a string of commands. Pussy is fun, feminine, and flirty whereas cunt is dirty, salty and has no shame. At least, that’s what seems right to me, but I could be crazy since I just wrote two paragraphs about proper cunt usage so pay me no heed.

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### Author: ![Ladymarmalade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f05b48/32.png) [@Ladymarmalade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ladymarmalade)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 8:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/9 "2010-08-27T08:49:33Z")

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I think that you are absolutely right, Marshmallow. Cunt is a very special word and meant to be saved for only very select occasions. Why, it’s a little like getting out the fine china when you think about it, no?

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### Author: ![multimediac17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/839c29/32.png) [@multimediac17](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/multimediac17)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 9:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/10 "2010-08-27T09:00:28Z")

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Oh no, people use cunt as a word for vagina _during sex_?!

I don’t have sex with vaginas, so I’m not really the target audience for such a usage, but that would strike me as an absolute buzzkill. I’d be like “_pause_ cunt, really?” and roll over. Then I’d be the cunt.

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/11 "2010-08-27T13:32:40Z")

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> [@Ladymarmalade](#):
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> I think that you are absolutely right, Marshmallow. Cunt is a very special word and meant to be saved for only very select occasions. Why, it’s a little like getting out the fine china when you think about it, no?

Ooh, baby, lemme show you my _dishes_!

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### Author: ![Sattua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sattua/32/11906_2.png) [@Sattua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sattua)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/12 "2010-08-27T13:50:39Z")

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“Fuck” is such a beautifully versatile word. It’s a noun, it’s a verb, it’s an adjective, hell it’s even an infix. I love it.

When I was dating on eHarmony I used to bring this up on the first date. It weeded out the losers pretty effectively.

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/13 "2010-08-27T14:50:50Z")

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Nigger is the only world I don’t use (well, I sometimes use it ironically when messaging friends online- “My nigger”). Cunt, retard, etc, are all part of my regular vocabulary. My favorite word is, of course, fuck. As **Sattua** pointed out, it’s incredibly versatile. Fuck, retard and bitch are probably the ones I use most often.

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/14 "2010-08-27T15:25:19Z")

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Fuck and bollocks would be the swear words I use very regulary. Probably use both at least 10-20 times a day but we Irish are a very sweary lot. e.g. My department head said to me only today “Did you sort out that cunt in finance and his fucked up computer?”

Cunt is used quite a bit as well. Probably hear it at least twice a day. If I’m in the pub with the lads then it’s usage will go up by a factor or ten at least.

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/15 "2010-08-27T15:26:49Z")

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> [@Sattua](#):
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> “Fuck” is such a beautifully versatile word. It’s a noun, it’s a verb, it’s an adjective, hell it’s even an infix. I love it.

Standing over a broken computer/car: “Fuck! The fucking fucker’s fucked”

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### Author: ![Oregon\_sunshine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/50afbb/32.png) [@Oregon\_sunshine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oregon_sunshine)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/16 "2010-08-27T16:50:32Z")

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Ditto on “fuck” being my favorite word!

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### Author: ![Skyscrapers\_Are\_Gravestones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de053/32.png) [@Skyscrapers\_Are\_Gravestones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skyscrapers_Are_Gravestones)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 5:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/17 "2010-08-27T17:28:04Z")

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I have to agree with the pro-cunt sentiments. I relish both it’s use and the reaction it generates. So I avoid using it as much as possible, for fear of wearing it out.

I say “fuck” so often in casual conversation that it is completely and utterly meaningless. I’d hate for that fate to befall one of the last two truly offensive words in (American) English.

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### Author: ![Sattua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sattua/32/11906_2.png) [@Sattua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sattua)
#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/18 "2010-08-27T17:56:23Z")

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> [@Skyscrapers\_Are\_Gravestones](#):
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> I have to agree with the pro-cunt sentiments. I relish both it’s use and the reaction it generates. So I avoid using it as much as possible, for fear of wearing it out.
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> I say “fuck” so often in casual conversation that it is completely and utterly meaningless. I’d hate for that fate to befall one of the last two truly offensive words in (American) English.

Okay… WHAT’S THE OTHER ONE?

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/19 "2010-08-27T17:58:40Z")

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Wait…‘retard’ is a super-bad word, on the same order as the N-word?

Since when?

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#### Post date: [August 27, 2010, 6:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-like-super-bad-words/551642/20 "2010-08-27T18:04:50Z")

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> [@Shawn\_K\_1](#):
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> What’s the “R” word?

Republican?

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