When I first joined the board, one time I replied directly to someone and for some reason, I didn’t notice his name, only the word “guest” under his name. So I addressed him as “Guest” and was sharply reprimanded by a mod who probably thought I was being sarcastic or something. Yikes, I was embarrassed, but couldn’t figure out how to explain myself. It was a trick my eyesight played on me.
sniff I used to be a Charter Member, before my general forgetfulness torpedoed that. Now I’m a lowly Member (because I hate ads that much). My self-esteem has taken a real beating, and I miss the free drinks.
But I’m a snobbish asshole, dammit! Why did I let that Charter Member status expire?
Aside from dismissing the weirdos who join in order to troll or spam the boards, I’m likely to be a little kinder about social gaffes that newer members (or guests) make. We can be a remarkably prickly community to people who aren’t up to speed on all our quirks.
You know, it’s funny… I didn’t notice that the ads went away until someone mentioned it in this thread.
So obviously I didn’t become a member to be free of the ads. I honestly felt it was the least I could do, seeing that I felt I was getting a valuable experience by visiting the board. The price was negligible, so I leapt.
Also, I do actually notice whether someone is a member or not, though it is more a curious observation than anything. While most boards’ charter members tend to be on the pompous side, I don’t really see that here. Y’all don’t really have a clique, either. Yay for that.
Are you sure they don’t? Maybe they’re laughing at our clothes, favorite foods, cats, haircuts, and dogs’ haircuts in a secret room somewhere. And just pretending they think we’re okay.