# Do you often "resist" posting?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 20, 2008, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731 "2008-11-20T22:30:40Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![WormTheRed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/bbe5ce/32.png) [@WormTheRed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WormTheRed)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/1 "2008-11-20T22:30:40Z")

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And a more proper explanation of the title would be:

Do you often press “reply” or “quote”, type something and then realise that “nah, that wouldn’t make sense/be proper/isn’t as fantastic as it sounded in my head” and then just press “back” or whatever instead of posting?

I do. Quite a lot actually. I get these impulse urges to make a snark or comeback, which then don’t make that much sense at all when I see them in writing.

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/2 "2008-11-20T22:36:09Z")

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Yeah, nine times out of ten.

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**Author:** ![nikonikosuru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5f8ce5/32.png) [@nikonikosuru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nikonikosuru)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/3 "2008-11-20T22:36:52Z")

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I do a lot, too. For every one post I make there’s around three where I get 3/4 done with typing only to say “Eh, what’s the point?” and delete it.

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**Author:** ![Captain\_Carrot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f0a364/32.png) [@Captain\_Carrot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Captain_Carrot)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/4 "2008-11-20T22:38:49Z")

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Sometimes, especially in GD and GQ, I type something out, then say “Eh, it’s not worth the argument…”

I predict this thread will have very few responses. 😃

And yes, I did have to struggle not to just hit the Back button on my browser.

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**Author:** ![bordelond](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bordelond/32/150_2.png) [@bordelond](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bordelond)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/5 "2008-11-20T22:39:32Z")

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Maybe one out of every three or four posts. I get to rambling, and then just like the OP writes, it “isn’t as fantastic as it sounded in my head.”

Of the posts I do end up making, a strong majority are recast after originally being ridiculously wordy.

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**Author:** ![Don\_t\_fight\_the\_hypothetical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/59ef9b/32.png) [@Don\_t\_fight\_the\_hypothetical](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_fight_the_hypothetical)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/6 "2008-11-20T22:40:36Z")

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Given some of my posts you’d think I don’t, but I actually delete about 9 out of 10 before posting.

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**Author:** ![beowulff](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beowulff/32/542_2.png) [@beowulff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beowulff)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/7 "2008-11-20T22:41:18Z")

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I did it in this thread.

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**Author:** ![Knorf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/58956e/32.png) [@Knorf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knorf)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/8 "2008-11-20T22:42:00Z")

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Yup. My cost count and year of joining make this pretty clear. I don’t post quite often.

Most times it’s just, “nah, not worth it,” or else it’s “meh, someone else just said what I was gong to say.”

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**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/9 "2008-11-20T22:42:14Z")

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Yes, I do that at times.

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**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/10 "2008-11-20T22:43:36Z")

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> [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](#):
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> Yes, I do that at times.

But, apparently not that time.

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**Author:** ![Fear\_the\_Turtle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_the_turtle/32/2926_2.png) [@Fear\_the\_Turtle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_the_Turtle)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/11 "2008-11-20T22:44:43Z")

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If I start typing, generally I’m going to hit “Post” (see). However, I often compose brilliant responses in my head, but are too lazy to type them out. Or someone will post a similar, but more eloquent response before I get to the end of the thread.

This may be one of my longest posts 😃

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**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/12 "2008-11-20T22:44:57Z")

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> [@pepperlandgirl](#):
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> Yeah, nine times out of ten.

Great, you used up your one in ten on this thread. Now you have to go agonize nine more times before you can do a real post. 🙂

And yeah, I do that a lot, too.

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**Author:** ![whiterabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cab0a1/32.png) [@whiterabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whiterabbit)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/13 "2008-11-20T22:45:37Z")

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Quite often. Especially if it’s some TMI thing since my mom posts here too.

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**Author:** ![Wakinyan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wakinyan/32/352_2.png) [@Wakinyan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wakinyan)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/14 "2008-11-20T22:47:26Z")

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Yes, happens a lot.

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/15 "2008-11-20T22:50:07Z")

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Yes. I should resist more often.

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**Author:** ![WormTheRed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/bbe5ce/32.png) [@WormTheRed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WormTheRed)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/16 "2008-11-20T22:50:22Z")

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I’m glad I’m not alone in this then 🙂

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**Author:** ![Santo\_Rugger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@Santo\_Rugger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Santo_Rugger)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/17 "2008-11-20T22:54:41Z")

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**Author:** ![Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/13edae/32.png) [@Interconnected\_Series\_of\_Tubes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Interconnected_Series_of_Tubes)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/18 "2008-11-20T23:02:59Z")

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All the time. Usually it’s a conscious decision to battle back my bad habit of questioning somebody’s belief merely to see how they respond. Part curiosity, part snark, part devil’s advocate.

Frequently, as well, I find that the reply I’ve typed up doesn’t pass my internal SDMB filter. Sometimes it can be fairly intimidating to post in threads, particularly debates in which conversations often devolve into a page-long point by point refutation.

That being said, there seems to be a divide in posters between a formal style of writing and a more conversational style.

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/19 "2008-11-20T23:03:59Z")

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Probably not nearly often enough, I’m sure.

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**Author:** ![Roland\_Orzabal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c2a13f/32.png) [@Roland\_Orzabal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roland_Orzabal)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-often-resist-posting/473731/20 "2008-11-20T23:05:58Z")

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Joining the chorus of “I do this all the time”. I have a Repository of Lost OPs on my hard drive, just waiting for the day that I feel strongly enough about one of them again to reword and post it.

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