# Do you stay in touch with the person you lost your virginity to? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 6, 2003, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771 "2003-11-06T20:49:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![LeeJam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ee7513/32.png) [@LeeJam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LeeJam)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2003, 8:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/81 "2003-11-08T08:36:56Z")
Yup, Married her šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2003, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/82 "2003-11-08T18:33:09Z")
Yep, still dating him. Heā€™s a keeper. ---
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/83 "2003-11-09T00:09:53Z")
Yup ā€“ still consider him one of my best friends, though we live on opposite coasts. We swap emails at least once a week. ---
**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/84 "2003-11-09T00:43:17Z")
Yes. Married her. ---
**Author:** ![fizgig](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f04885/32.png) [@fizgig](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fizgig)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/85 "2003-11-09T01:03:06Z")
No. Wait, I mean HELL NO. ---
**Author:** ![whistlepig](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/73ab20/32.png) [@whistlepig](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whistlepig)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/86 "2003-11-09T01:10:19Z")
Itā€™s been over 25 years, so no. I havenā€™t seen her in 20 years. But what I find funny is, and Iā€™m being really circumspect since I come from a small state: Her name was (turdis migratoris). She married (the part of a jacket you can put over your head to keep warm). So her name is now (turdis migratoris) (that part of your jacket you put over your head) Whistlepig ---
**Author:** ![snac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/90db22/32.png) [@snac](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snac)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/87 "2003-11-09T01:35:06Z")
Like many othersā€“yes. Married her; itā€™s been 23 years now. Sheā€™s upstairs right now as I type. ---
**Author:** ![t-keela](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a3d4f5/32.png) [@t-keela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/t-keela)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/88 "2003-11-09T02:17:24Z")
Damnā€¦yā€™all are good. I was a teenager in the seventies. I loved sex, drugs and R&R. Stay in touch with her? Maybe if I knew who she was. Patricia somethingā€¦who cares, she was in college and I was fifteen. Things have changed a little since then (at least I have) I still love R&R and sex. Same woman (Mrs. T) for the past several years now. Never betterā€¦ šŸ˜ƒ Drugs just arenā€™t what they used to be. I never was very good at remembering names. It can be damned embarrassing at times. ---
**Author:** ![torie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/77aa72/32.png) [@torie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/torie)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/89 "2003-11-09T02:18:27Z")
Nope, it was in December of '99 and he moved back to Los Angeles a few days later. He called me once but Ihavenā€™t spoken to him since. He was supposed to be a millionaire who owned a computer co. called Halcyon Dreams. I Googled both his name and the company but found nothing. Oh well, everyone warned me he was a con. To be honest, this is the first time Iā€™ve thought about him in forever. :dubious: ---
**Author:** ![clairobscur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/839c29/32.png) [@clairobscur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/clairobscur)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/90 "2003-11-09T04:02:26Z")
Yes. It was 19 years ago. We stayed together for 5 years. Sheā€™s still one of my closest friends. Sheā€™s currently vacationning in China. ---
**Author:** ![Nvme77](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Nvme77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nvme77)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/91 "2003-11-09T04:48:33Z")
No, thank god, he was my first husband. I held out on my virginity through out high school (what was I thinking?) and met him at my job my senior year. We dated and after several months (4) I did it with him. It hurt. We were married the following year and divorced 3 years later. If I saw him now, Iā€™d puke. ---
**Author:** ![lollipop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lollipop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lollipop)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/92 "2003-11-09T05:55:22Z")
He was my first, my third and my fifth, and I married that boy. The first time was awful, but boy heā€™s improved. Any other lousy firsts? ---
**Author:** ![smersh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/54ee81/32.png) [@smersh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/smersh)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 6:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/93 "2003-11-09T06:45:41Z")
Not as much as I would like. She was really hot. She now lives far away but I do see her about once a year, usually by accident. Bad thing is, she is married with 3 kids. Donā€™t see much rekindling there but I would give it a shot. ---
**Author:** ![gyt\_fx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/74df32/32.png) [@gyt\_fx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gyt_fx)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 6:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/94 "2003-11-09T06:54:40Z")
Prostitutes dont have phonesā€¦ šŸ˜‘ ---
**Author:** ![Zap\_Rowsdower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/3da27b/32.png) [@Zap\_Rowsdower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zap_Rowsdower)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 7:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/95 "2003-11-09T07:16:12Z")
Nope, and if I had my way, I would take it back and give it to someone else! ---
**Author:** ![Shrinking\_Violet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@Shrinking\_Violet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shrinking_Violet)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 12:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/96 "2003-11-09T12:31:23Z")
**whistlepig** ā€¦ with a little help from Google ā€¦ šŸ˜ƒ šŸ˜ƒ šŸ˜ƒ As for me, NOPE. He was The Wrong One. I was in love with The Right One who was in love with Someone Else. Got The Right One eventually but always regretted not waiting ā€¦ Donā€™t care about TWO, but would love to get in touch with TRO just to see what became of him. Julie ---
**Author:** ![TeaElle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@TeaElle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TeaElle)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 1:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/97 "2003-11-09T13:11:32Z")
Count me as another ā€œmarried him.ā€ 22 years and still going strong. šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![SJSB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@SJSB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SJSB)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 3:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/98 "2003-11-09T15:03:50Z")
Iā€™m in the ā€œNo, he turned out to be a jerkā€ section. ---
**Author:** ![AngelicGemma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@AngelicGemma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AngelicGemma)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/99 "2003-11-09T15:11:57Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by SJSB \* > \*\*Iā€™m in the ā€œNo, he turned out to be a jerkā€ section. \*\* We should form a club. šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 6:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/100 "2003-11-09T18:07:00Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Faruiza \* > \*\* > Found out years later that he tried to bed my mother. > > \*\* Damned over-achiever! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771.md?page=6)