# Do you stay in touch with the person you lost your virginity to? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 6, 2003, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771 "2003-11-06T20:49:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![Mini-Thud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@Mini-Thud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mini-Thud)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/101 "2003-11-09T19:20:40Z")
Sure dude, although it’s probably different because I’m only 18 and I lost it less than 6 months ago. Course, it might also have something to do with the fact that I didn’t really want to break up. DAMN YOU COLLEGE! But yeah, we still talk… every few days actually. Been a few months since I’ve seen her IRL though. ---
**Author:** ![zephyrine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/35a633/32.png) [@zephyrine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zephyrine)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/102 "2003-11-09T19:53:54Z")
No, never saw him again after that five minutes, never knew his name. I was 17 and had been waiting a long time for the love of my life to sober up enough to take my virginity, so in the end I just got bored and decided to accept the next firm offer. ---
**Author:** ![Amberlei](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e56c9b/32.png) [@Amberlei](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Amberlei)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2003, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/103 "2003-11-09T23:25:50Z")
No way! The guy turned out to be insane. He actually killed somebody a year or so after we broke up. Last I heard, he was in prison in Walla Walla, but I don’t think I’ll go look him up. ---
**Author:** ![TelcontarStorm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3ab097/32.png) [@TelcontarStorm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TelcontarStorm)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2003, 3:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/104 "2003-11-10T15:14:16Z")
Many moons ago, when he was visiting my home, I passed on the info that he was the one to LittleTel, She looked at me and said “EWWWWWW…I thought you had better taste in men than that!” Now, tired of the Ex’s crap, he moved himself and 3 children into our home. I share my room with his 10 yr old daughter. But my poor Nephew now has 2 roommates. I’m a great a part time wife. I cook, I clean, I take phone messages, I tend children. I don’t require pay, or a lay. Now, I’ve got two pretty good Hubbies! Believe it or not, Life is good 😃 ---
**Author:** ![cherry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/da6949/32.png) [@cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cherry)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/105 "2003-11-20T00:32:37Z")
No, not anymore, he is not allowed to talk to me, by orders from his current girlfriend. ---
**Author:** ![Elza\_B](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Elza\_B](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elza_B)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 1:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/106 "2003-11-20T01:31:42Z")
Yep. I’m marrying him next September:D . Ava ---
**Author:** ![John\_Carter\_of\_Mars](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2bfe46/32.png) [@John\_Carter\_of\_Mars](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Carter_of_Mars)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/107 "2003-11-20T02:50:38Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by zephyrine \* > \*\*\so in the end I just got bored and decided to accept the next firm offer. \*\* _Snort!_ ---
**Author:** ![monster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@monster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/monster)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/108 "2003-11-20T17:50:19Z")
I don’t keep in touch with him, but I just ran into him about three months ago at a high school football game. Our high schools were rivals, so I went to this year’s game and so did he. We had a nice chat to catch up since I haven’t seen him in about 8 years. He’s still pretty much a hottie. ---
**Author:** ![mipiace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@mipiace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mipiace)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/109 "2003-11-20T20:40:01Z")
No - I did for about 5 years but we drifted apart. I would talk to him if I ran into him though. As a matter of fact, I’d love to see him. You know…first crush and all… ---
**Author:** ![Cowgirl\_Jules](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@Cowgirl\_Jules](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cowgirl_Jules)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2003, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/110 "2003-11-20T21:36:46Z")
I didn’t keep in touch with him at all, but inspired by this thread, I just googled him. And there he is, doing what he always wanted to do, and not too far away. Not going to contact him, and as it’s conceivable that my boyfriend could avail himself of his proffessional services, I shall gently steer him elsewhere. That would be too weird. ---
**Author:** ![SanguineSpider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SanguineSpider](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanguineSpider)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2003, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/111 "2003-11-21T04:20:47Z")
My first SO… we dated for 7 years and then I, the heartless bitch, cheated on him. It was messy and bad, he came face to face with me and the guy I was cheating with so… to answer the question: No, I don’t still talk to him. And to his credit, he wanted to patch things up. See? Heartless bitch here, told ya. _sigh_ ---
**Author:** ![MinniePurl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cab0a1/32.png) [@MinniePurl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MinniePurl)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2003, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/112 "2003-11-21T06:39:33Z")
Oh, hell no. No idea where he is, and don’t want to know. He was kind of a jerk, and a great big bore. ---
**Author:** ![Daftbugger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@Daftbugger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daftbugger)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2003, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/113 "2003-11-21T13:43:52Z")
No. But oddly, 6 months months ago, when I was house hunting, I was looking in a newsagents window and suddenly realised he was standing right next to me! I hadn’t seen him in about 4 years. ---
**Author:** ![shannablu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8baadc/32.png) [@shannablu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shannablu)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2003, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/114 "2003-11-21T22:39:35Z")
If I ever see that man again I am likely to either bust out in tears or hurt him, so I guess the answer would be…No. ---
**Author:** ![Pammipoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/87869e/32.png) [@Pammipoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pammipoo)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2003, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/115 "2003-11-22T03:25:31Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Sir Doris \* > \*\*No. > > Last I heard he’d been jailed for having sex with a 13 year old girl.:eek: \*\* If you live in Florida, I think we share an ex… ---
**Author:** ![blasphmer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6de8d8/32.png) [@blasphmer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blasphmer)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2003, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/116 "2003-11-22T19:10:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Sir Doris \* > \*\*No. > > Last I heard he’d been jailed for having sex with a 13 year old girl.:eek: \*\* That wouldn’t happento be **Giraffe** from teh hot toast thread, woudl it? 😃 As for me, Blasphmer, meet right hand. Rihgt hand, meet Blasphmer. :dubious: ---
**Author:** ![blasphmer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6de8d8/32.png) [@blasphmer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blasphmer)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2003, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771/117 "2003-11-22T19:11:28Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by blasphmer \* > \*\*That wouldn’t happento be **Giraffe** from teh hot toast thread, woudl it? 😃 > > As for me, Blasphmer, meet right hand. Rihgt hand, meet Blasphmer. :dubious: \*\* Wow, evidently _right hand_ and I must have had a fight judging by all the typos. :rolleyes: [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/do-you-stay-in-touch-with-the-person-you-lost-your-virginity-to/211771.md?page=5)