# Does anyone here know anyone personally who has been diagnosed, or has been yourself?

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**Category:** The Quarantine Zone\
**Tags:** covid-quarantine\
**Created:** [March 21, 2020, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/does-anyone-here-know-anyone-personally-who-has-been-diagnosed-or-has-been-yourself/849941 "2020-03-21T06:01:49Z")\
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The tenant who lives in the unit directly opposite mine recently tested positive on a rapid test and is quarantining. That’s pretty much all she revealed in her email to the other tenants, so I don’t know if she is symptomatic or vaccinated, and I practically never see nor talk to her because she spends so much time studying at her college.

Nonetheless, for the next 2 - 3 weeks, I’ll be wearing an N95 mask when walking through the communal space leading to the apartment’s exit door.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
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My mom died of covid last night.

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So Sorry puzzlegal. You and you family will be in our thoughts.

As you said “FUCK COVID”

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I’m so sorry. Be well.

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i’m so sorry. may her memory be eternal.

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@puzzlegal, I am so sorry! That’s terrible news.

Remember her love is still with you.

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How terrible @puzzlegal. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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I’m very sorry, **puzzlegal**. My condolences to you and your family.

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{{{ **puzzlegal** }}}

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> [@puzzlegal](#):
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> My mom died of covid last night.

Damn. I’m so sorry @puzzlegal.

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That made me tear up. I am so sorry. May her memory be a blessing.

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Oh, crap, puzzlegal, I’m so very sorry.

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Oh no! I’m so sorry.

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I’m so, so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family. {{{hugs}}}

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I’m so sorry, puzzlegal.

My dad, who has been ruining every get-together for the past two years with rantings about how it’s all a liberal hoax and easily treatable with ivermectin, is now fighting covid. He sounds pretty bad, but he would definitely rather die than go to the hospital, so I guess we’ll see.

I’m angry at him. He’s been such a dick, turning every conversation into an opportunity to talk at me and my sister (who is an ER nurse!) about all his crazy conspiracy theories. I hope he gets better, but I’m still annoyed.

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That’s terrible, puzzlegal. I’m so sorry.

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I’m so sorry for your loss, that’s so awful. I’m dreading that phone call myself, my mom refuses to vax or mask and I fear she thinks this is an easy way out–she’s lonely and has had enough loss in her life I think. I’ve tried to tell her this is not the way but she’s stubborn. Sigh.

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Like six or more people in my extended family have had it, they claim. I don’t know if this was verified with tests or if they just assume what they had was COVID. All were mild cases.  
Most of them are anti-vax idiots.

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> [@SmartAleq](#):
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> my mom refuses to vax or mask and I fear she thinks this is an easy way out–she’s lonely and has had enough loss in her life I think. I’ve tried to tell her this is not the way but she’s stubborn. Sigh.

That was approximately my mom. We bullied her into getting vaccinated, and she wore a mask when it was required. But she hated masks, and she thought covid would be an easy way out.

It wasn’t. Aim for some other end.

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Yeah, this is why I’m dreading the call. She lives up in the mountains a ways in California and gets snowed in/loses power a lot in winter. My sister went and dug her out a week or so back and took her down to Placerville to stay with her and her husband but I’m afraid that maybe my sister’s a vaxhole too and there’s more exposure with mom staying with them. I try not to worry but mom’s also a smoker and I’ve been fretting over the situation for like a year now. Can’t do anything about it–I even took a trip down to see her and try to get her to protect herself more but no luck. I really hate this fucking disease.

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