Language has several pieces: grammar, usage, spelling, and pronunciation. Spoken language is not the same thing as written language. Language in everyday use can be split into high formal writing (academic texts), formal writing (newspapers and books), casual or colloquial writing (used with friends), argot (technical language idiosyncratic to a profession), slang (terms to bound a group and keep outsiders confused), and several others.
All of this should be well known and unnecessary to repeat. Yet the accusation that something other than strict adherence to formal English, confused with Standard English, is wrong, or worse ruining the language, has been around for hundreds of years. This is only possible because English has been changing rapidly for every one of those hundreds of years. Obviously the notion that English could have declining from an earlier Golden Era for hundreds of years is ridiculous. To the contrary, English always gets better - larger, suppler, more inclusive, less subject to arbitrary rules.
That there are arbitrary rules that can be applied to English comes from the class hatreds of Victorian England. As I said in another recent post, the elites in the 1800s resented the fact that mass media made lowbrow works much more popular than “good” literature. The “Penny Dreadfuls” - copied in the U.S. as dime novels and story weeklies - flooded a market of newly literate lower-class readers. The elites struck back by laying down rules of correctness, applying to all four parts of the language mentioned in my first sentence. That’s where not ending a sentence with a preposition comes from, along with hundreds of “rules” about usage, and the adherence to a certain dialect as the only “proper” pronunciation and so on. The OED was massively influential in codifying these new rules, and deliberately left out all of this new usage, along with scientific terms, Americanisms, and other stuff the editors thought beneath them. The “rules” entered textbooks in all-British influenced countries and stuck them like old gum.
Actual grammarians and linguists saw through this nonsense almost immediately. Otto Jerpersen’s Modern English Grammar on Historical Principles (1909) tore them to pieces on one level and even the very conservative Fowler’s Modern English Usage (1926) attacked as unfounded the not ending sentences with a preposition “rules.” (American usage guides appeared with less conservative usage guidance.)
After WWII, Americans started getting hysterical over inadequate schools. Putting this post-Sputnik as people often do is wrong: Why Johnny Can’t Read—And What You Can Do About It came out in 1955. Yes, exactly when people today insist was a Golden Age for public schools. In 1961, Webster’s published a Third edition of their unabridged dictionary, making it descriptive rather than prescriptive. The howling can still be heard down the decades. They were of course right - all dictionaries today are descriptive - but a number of self-appointed amateurs threw their bodies on this grenade, releasing bestselling books about the dangers to the English language and the “rules” that the lazy and unwashed were breaking. Jim Quinn’s American Tongue and Cheek (1980) is a delightful breakdown of their sheer ignorance about language and its actual daily use.
Little has changed since then. Self-anointed “experts” still declaim that English is dying and that the Internet is killing the corpse. None of them ever bother to make thoughtful distinctions about the many ways that language gets sliced or whether their strictures apply to any specifics: the hand-waving cuts the outdoor temperature on a hot day by twenty degrees.
The world of 2022 cannot be compared to any past era. Instead of seeing in some sort of print the words of 1% of adults, we now get to see something close to 100%, fixed in electrons and passed around the world. The average writer will be far less able and far less interested in obeying the arbitrary rules of “Standard English.” This is nothing more than a continuation of a process that is nearly two centuries old.
Nobody knowledgeable ever says “anything goes” for any piece of text. Conventions still exist, levels of formality still exist, grammar still exists, the inclusion of apostrophes in plurals is not approved of in any “good” writing. English is surely changing - just as it always has. Good writing remains enjoyable, and high formal remains unreadable. Adapt yourselves, not the language.