# Donald Trump accused of marital rape

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**Category:** Politics & Elections\
**Created:** [July 28, 2015, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371 "2015-07-28T03:00:09Z")\
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**Author:** ![Rick\_Kitchen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rick_kitchen/32/522_2.png) [@Rick\_Kitchen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick_Kitchen)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/1 "2015-07-28T03:00:09Z")

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_[The Daily Beast](http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/07/27/ex-wife-donald-trump-made-feel-violated-during-sex.html)_ and Gawkerhave accused Donald Trump of maritally raping Ivana in an incident that occurred in 1989. The accusation actually was first brought up in the book _[Lost Tycoon: The Many Lives of Donald J. Trump](http://www.amazon.com/Lost-Tycoon-Lives-Donald-Trump/dp/0393030296/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1438052373&sr=1-1&keywords=the+lost+tycoon+harry+hurt)_ by Harry Hurt III, published in 1993.

When Daily Beast approached Trump for comment, Trump’s lawyer Michael Cohen not only threatened to sue Daily Beast and their reporter (despite the fact that they are only reporting what was already written in the book), but Cohen claimed that it is legally impossible to rape one’s spouse.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/2 "2015-07-28T03:05:56Z")

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Both the Daily Beast and Gawker quite clearly state that he was not accused of rape.

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**Author:** ![DerekMichaels00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f14d63/32.png) [@DerekMichaels00](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DerekMichaels00)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/3 "2015-07-28T03:09:17Z")

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clearly the GOP establishment will stop at nothing to destroy The Donald.

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**Author:** ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/4 "2015-07-28T03:11:27Z")

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> [@DerekMichaels00](#):
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> why is nothing besides Trump in an ISIS beheading video gonna surprise me anymore?

Not sure how surprised I would be at that. Depends which end of the knife he was on.

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**Author:** ![Claverhouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/13edae/32.png) [@Claverhouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Claverhouse)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/5 "2015-07-28T03:16:25Z")

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It was a different time. You can’t judge the past by the standards of today. We were only obeying orders.

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/6 "2015-07-28T03:21:53Z")

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[Reince Priebus and the Lost Crusade]Rape. Why did it have to be rape?[/Reince]

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**Author:** ![Rick\_Kitchen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rick_kitchen/32/522_2.png) [@Rick\_Kitchen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick_Kitchen)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/7 "2015-07-28T03:32:51Z")

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> [@TriPolar](#):
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> Both the Daily Beast and Gawker quite clearly state that he was not accused of rape.

Where are you seeing that?

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**Author:** ![BlankSlate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/blankslate/32/80_2.png) [@BlankSlate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlankSlate)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/8 "2015-07-28T03:37:05Z")

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Trump looks like Ted Cruz in that pic with the Gawker article.

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**Author:** ![DerekMichaels00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f14d63/32.png) [@DerekMichaels00](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DerekMichaels00)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/9 "2015-07-28T03:40:24Z")

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this is the perfect media trap against Trump’s enemies. Some are gonna call him a rapist and it’s not gonna stick because frankly, calling him one as if he is Bill Cosby is false and dishonest. People will see thru it.

This is the GOP’s fault. They coulda annointed Christie or Kasich (people who could actually have won) a while ago but they let the race become a clown car.

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**Author:** ![Merneith](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/57b2e6/32.png) [@Merneith](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Merneith)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/10 "2015-07-28T03:42:40Z")

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Quotes from the Daily Beast article’s quoting from the book -

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> The book, by former Texas Monthly and Newsweek reporter Harry Hurt III, described a harrowing scene. After a painful scalp reduction surgery to remove a bald spot, Donald Trump confronted his then-wife, who had previously used the same plastic surgeon.
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> “Your fucking doctor has ruined me!” Trump cried.
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> What followed was a “violent assault,” according to Lost Tycoon. Donald held back Ivana’s arms and began to pull out fistfuls of hair from her scalp, as if to mirror the pain he felt from his own operation. He tore off her clothes and unzipped his pants.
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> “Then he jams his penis inside her for the first time in more than sixteen months. Ivana is terrified…It is a violent assault,” Hurt writes. “According to versions she repeats to some of her closest confidantes, ‘he raped me.’”
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> Following the incident, Ivana ran upstairs, hid behind a locked door, and remained there “crying for the rest of night.” When she returned to the master bedroom in the morning, he was there.
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> “You’re talking about the front-runner for the GOP, presidential candidate, as well as private individual who never raped anybody. And, of course, understand that by the very definition, you can't rape your spouse.”
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> “As she looks in horror at the ripped-out hair scattered all over the bed, he glares at her and asks with menacing casualness: ‘Does it hurt?’” Hurt writes.

Quotes from Daily Beast article about Trump’s current attorney talking about the assault:

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> “It’s not the word that you’re trying to make it into,” Cohen told The Daily Beast, saying Ivana Trump was talking about how “she felt raped emotionally…She was not referring to it [as] a criminal matter, and not in its literal sense, though there’s many literal senses to the word.”
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> Cohen added that there is no such thing, legally, as a man raping his wife. “You cannot rape your spouse,” he said. There’s very clear case law.”
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> That is not true. In New York, there used to be a so-called marital rape exemption to the law. It was struck down in 1984.

When the book, Last Tycoon was published, it carried a statement from Ivana that was pasted into the front of each copy:

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> When Lost Tycoon was about to be printed, Donald Trump and his lawyers provided a statement from Ivana, which was posted on the first page of the book. In it, Ivana confirms that she had “felt violated” and that she had stated that her husband had raped her during a divorce deposition. But Ivana sought to soften her earlier statement.
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> “During a deposition given by me in connection with my matrimonial case, I stated that my husband had raped me,” the Ivana Trump statement said. “[O]n one occasion during 1989, Mr. Trump and I had marital relations in which he behaved very differently toward me than he had during our marriage. As a woman, I felt violated, as the love and tenderness, which he normally exhibited towards me, was absent. I referred to this as a ‘rape,’ but I do not want my words to be interpreted in a literal or criminal sense.”
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> The statement, according to a “Notice to the Reader” in the book, “does not contradict or invalidate any information contained in this book.”

Quote from the attorney, threatening the Daily Beast writer:

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> Trump’s lawyer then changed tactics, lobbing insults and threatening a lawsuit if a story was published.
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> “I will make sure that you and I meet one day while we’re in the courthouse. And I will take you for every penny you still don’t have. And I will come after your Daily Beast and everybody else that you possibly know,” Cohen said. “So I’m warning you, tread very fucking lightly, because what I’m going to do to you is going to be fucking disgusting. You understand me?”
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> “You write a story that has Mr. Trump’s name in it, with the word ‘rape,’ and I’m going to mess your life up…for as long as you’re on this frickin’ planet…you’re going to have judgments against you, so much money, you’ll never know how to get out from underneath it,” he added.

Me:

This is one bloody hairball. I can’t believe that Trump’s had a tv show all these years and no one’s challenged him about the scene with Ivana. What a god damn psychopath.

I bet it just solidifies his supporters good opinion of him. I bet they blow this off as Trump being threatened by the Lame Stream Media.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 4:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/11 "2015-07-28T04:09:13Z")

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> [@Rick\_Kitchen](#):
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> Cohen claimed that it is legally impossible to rape one’s spouse.

From a political standpoint, that’s a terrible response. If your client is running for office and the issue of rape accusations come up, you have to come up with a better answer than explaining that because of a legal loophole what your client did can’t be legally defined as rape.

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**Author:** ![DerekMichaels00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f14d63/32.png) [@DerekMichaels00](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DerekMichaels00)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/12 "2015-07-28T04:34:38Z")

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Hillary Clinton vs. The Donald [electoral map](http://c1.staticflickr.com/1/273/19886684950_8a11888400_b.jpg): what do you think?

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**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/13 "2015-07-28T04:48:27Z")

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> [@Rick\_Kitchen](#):
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> . . . but Cohen claimed that it is legally impossible to rape one’s spouse.

Time was that was true, but I think most states have changed the law on that point.

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**Author:** ![Kolak\_of\_Twilo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kolak_of_twilo/32/73_2.png) [@Kolak\_of\_Twilo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kolak_of_Twilo)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/14 "2015-07-28T04:51:57Z")

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> [@DerekMichaels00](#):
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> Hillary Clinton vs. The Donald [electoral map](http://c1.staticflickr.com/1/273/19886684950_8a11888400_b.jpg): what do you think?

I think that’s an overestimation of how many Electoral votes Trump would get.

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**Author:** ![DerekMichaels00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f14d63/32.png) [@DerekMichaels00](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DerekMichaels00)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/15 "2015-07-28T05:08:55Z")

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> [@Kolak\_of\_Twilo](#):
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> I think that’s an overestimation of how many Electoral votes Trump would get.

yea Obama did win IN in 2008, razor thin, but the map is basically all of the states either Obama or Bill Clinton ever won at any point in time. I could add that NE congressional district but I feel like that would be pushing it.

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**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/16 "2015-07-28T05:20:11Z")

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> [@DerekMichaels00](#):
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> this is the perfect media trap against Trump’s enemies. Some are gonna call him a rapist and it’s not gonna stick because frankly, calling him one as if he is Bill Cosby is false and dishonest. People will see thru it.

And, far more importantly, 'oo givee rat’s ass, if the victim was Ivana Trump? All good and decent Americans would like to see her raped **to death** on live national television – then again, all good and decent Americans would like to see the exact same thing only worse happen to The Donald himself.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 6:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/17 "2015-07-28T06:53:06Z")

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> [@Rick\_Kitchen](#):
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> Where are you seeing that?

“Ivana Trump once accused the real estate tycoon of ‘rape,’ although she later clarified: not in the ‘criminal sense.’”

It’s right up at the top. If he didn’t rape her in a criminal sense then he didn’t rape her at all and she’s not accusing him of rape. This is the worst kind of muckraking, it doesn’t matter that it’s happening to whack-job like Trump, they’d do it to anybody. These articles do nothing but rehash unproven accusations by an ex-wife after a nasty divorce.

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**Author:** ![bengangmo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/50afbb/32.png) [@bengangmo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bengangmo)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 7:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/18 "2015-07-28T07:24:27Z")

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> [@TriPolar](#):
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> “Ivana Trump once accused the real estate tycoon of ‘rape,’ although she later clarified: not in the ‘criminal sense.’”
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> It’s right up at the top. If he didn’t rape her in a criminal sense then he didn’t rape her at all and she’s not accusing him of rape. This is the worst kind of muckraking, it doesn’t matter that it’s happening to whack-job like Trump, they’d do it to anybody. These articles do nothing but rehash unproven accusations by an ex-wife after a nasty divorce.

Did you even read the quote provided?

Sounds rather graphic to me, and also rather accurate to describe it as rape - even if she was later bullied into putting a disclaimer at the start of the book.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 11:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/19 "2015-07-28T11:11:41Z")

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> [@DerekMichaels00](#):
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> yea Obama did win IN in 2008, razor thin, but the map is basically all of the states either Obama or Bill Clinton ever won at any point in time. I could add that NE congressional district but I feel like that would be pushing it.

No point - Nebraska has been redistricted post-2008 to prevent those Obama-supporters in Omaha from getting their way again.

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**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2015, 11:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/donald-trump-accused-of-marital-rape/726371/20 "2015-07-28T11:23:29Z")

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> [@BrainGlutton](#):
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> All good and decent Americans would like to see her raped **to death** on live national television – …

What is wrong with you? This is despicable.

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