# Don't you people have any problems?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 27, 2002, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113 "2002-10-27T15:41:07Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![Diane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/2acd7d/32.png) [@Diane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diane)\
**Post date:** [October 28, 2002, 8:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/21 "2002-10-28T20:14:44Z")

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> Many people won’t put their most private problems online, because even if they did some idiot would come along and post.

First of all, if I am reading things correctly, the Q&A would be online for all to see.

Secondly, this is the only part that concerns me. What happens when someone _does_ ask for a solution to a private or personal problem? What are Manda’s credentials to answer them responsibly?

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [October 28, 2002, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/22 "2002-10-28T20:22:48Z")

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How about I send a review of my _Titanic_ dinner? Would that be appropriate for _Teemings_?

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**Author:** ![Mtgman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@Mtgman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mtgman)\
**Post date:** [October 28, 2002, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/23 "2002-10-28T22:59:04Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Manda JO \*  
> \*\*Bildo, I am really not ignoring you. I’ve been desperatly trying to come up with a witty response to your post, and I am having the most terrible writer’s block. I’m terribly sorry. \*\*

[Allow me to try my hand at aiding a damsel in distress.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?postid=2549040#postid=259040) My poor effort is no substitute for a true **Manda JO** original, but it may be of some amusement.

Enjoy,  
Steven

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**Author:** ![Arnold\_Winkelried](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Arnold\_Winkelried](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arnold_Winkelried)\
**Post date:** [October 29, 2002, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/24 "2002-10-29T00:24:52Z")

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> \*Originally posted by yojimboguy \*  
> Why, if someone needs advice, would they post their question to you alone rather than the whole SDMB membership on the regualr board?

Because presumably you would be able to ask the question “anonymously”, which you can’t really do at the SDMB if you have shared your name / address with some of the other members.

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**Author:** ![Arnold\_Winkelried](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Arnold\_Winkelried](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arnold_Winkelried)\
**Post date:** [October 29, 2002, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/25 "2002-10-29T00:28:38Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Diane \*  
> What are Manda’s credentials to answer them responsibly?

I forget, what credentials does Abigail van Buren have?

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**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\
**Post date:** [October 29, 2002, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/26 "2002-10-29T00:28:44Z")

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What credentials do/did Ann Landers, Dear Abby, Jackie Stallone, Miss Manners, Dr. Laura, Dr. Phil, Dr. Demento, and Judge Judy have/had?

Okay, so I’m being slightly facetious. My point is that - as far as I know - one doesn’t have to have credentials in order to offer advice unless one is presenting oneself as a professional (a la Mumford).

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**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\
**Post date:** [October 29, 2002, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/27 "2002-10-29T00:31:38Z")

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Jeepers Cripes! Never simulposted with an administrator before.

Anyway, I don’t disagree with you in principle, **Diane** ; I’m just thinking it’s a situation that differs from a doctor giving advice, or a lawyer. Then I’d really want to know their creds.

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**Author:** ![Arnold\_Winkelried](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Arnold\_Winkelried](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arnold_Winkelried)\
**Post date:** [October 29, 2002, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dont-you-people-have-any-problems/134113/28 "2002-10-29T00:39:39Z")

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> \*Originally posted by dantheman \*  
> What credentials do/did … Dr. Laura … have

Well, I did read once that she has a black belt in martial arts! Which is why her callers meekly eat up the insults she serves them. (Before the Dr. L defenders swoop in, I will add that she is a licensed marriage and family counsellor or something like that.)

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