# Doper women:  Do twins excite you?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 29, 2008, 6:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895 "2008-11-29T06:15:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![Thalion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f475e1/32.png) [@Thalion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thalion)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 6:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/1 "2008-11-29T06:15:56Z")

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In this month’s _Playboy_, the playmates are identical twin sisters. Playboy has done this several times over the years (and twice they have featured identical triplets, but that’s another story).

We all know that many (if not most) men fantasize about having sex with two women at once. For many, sisters would be better and identical twins the ultimate fantasy (whether or not the sisters fool around with each other may be an added bonus, while others might find that disturbing).

So, do women have similar fantasies about sex with identical twin men? I’m wondering if the novelty and kinky aspect is exciting to you, as well.

On the flip side, do lesbians fantasize about twin sisters, or gay men about twin brothers?

Or, is this just another twisted aspect of the typical hetero male mind?

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**Author:** ![Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sleeps_With_Butterflies)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/2 "2008-11-29T06:31:42Z")

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> [@Thalion](#):
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> Or, is this just another twisted aspect of the typical hetero male mind?

Ding! Ding! Ding!

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**Author:** ![lavenderviolet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/cdc98d/32.png) [@lavenderviolet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lavenderviolet)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 6:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/3 "2008-11-29T06:43:24Z")

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Nope, I don’t have any interest in guy twins. I think threesomes are much more commonly a male fantasy.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/4 "2008-11-29T06:51:17Z")

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They certainly can if they want to. 😛

And yeah, although I’ve never specifically set out to have a fantasy about twins, I don’t see why it wouldn’t be double your pleasure, double your fun. If they marketed they kind of porn to women (in my particular niche), I’d watch when the mood struck.

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**Author:** ![Heffalump\_and\_Roo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/heffalump_and_roo/32/7691_2.png) [@Heffalump\_and\_Roo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Heffalump_and_Roo)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 7:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/5 "2008-11-29T07:46:44Z")

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> [@Sleeps\_With\_Butterflies](#):
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> Ding! Ding! Ding!

And we have a winner. . . !

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/6 "2008-11-29T14:23:41Z")

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I think I would rather have two different looking, hot guys, then two hot guys who look exactly the same. But in general I am a one-on-one sort of girl.

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**Author:** ![Audrey\_Levins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Audrey\_Levins](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Audrey_Levins)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/7 "2008-11-29T14:38:02Z")

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I’m very much a hetero girl, so my opinion doesn’t mean much, but I’ve always been a bit baffled by the idea of twins being a guy’s “wet dream.”

You’re basically embracing incest. I mean, two sisters, in bed? Even if they aren’t actively involved with each other–which from what I gather is the goal–you’ve still got two siblings sexually involved, at least visually.

Ew. Ew. Ew.

Imagine that the other twin is male, not female, and all of a sudden it’s probably gross to ANYONE.

But for some reason two identical females means it’s hot, in spite of the incest.

I think it’s a stupid teenage fantasy and pretty immature and ill-thought-out.

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**Author:** ![DianaG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@DianaG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DianaG)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/8 "2008-11-29T14:39:14Z")

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Agreed with **olives**. If I’m going to have two, why would I want two of the _same_? Seems to me like it sort of defeats the purpose.

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**Author:** ![Audrey\_Levins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Audrey\_Levins](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Audrey_Levins)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/9 "2008-11-29T14:39:50Z")

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Oh, and FTR, no, I do not have any fantasies about twin brothers.

I don’t want to have sexual contact with 2 people who share any kind of DNA. Particularly at the same time.

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**Author:** ![Electric\_Warrior](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@Electric\_Warrior](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Electric_Warrior)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/10 "2008-11-29T14:51:26Z")

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Personally, no, but my past forays into Harry Potter fandom have shown me that there are many, many women who are excited by the prospect of Fred and George Weasley getting it on, so evidently my opinion isn’t the only one out there.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/11 "2008-11-29T15:23:14Z")

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This is where I pop in to point out you can sometimes find sisters working in some of Thailand’s bars, with identical twins on the rare occasion. I’ve never had the, er, pleasure myself, but I hear it’s quite a trip.

I recall Tilac Bar in Soi Cowboy had three sisters working once upon a time, available for take-out together, but I don’t _think_ they were triplets.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/12 "2008-11-29T15:41:17Z")

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It honestly never occurred to me until I opened this thread that the “sex with twins” concept could be gender flipped. It’s so off my radar as a fetish that I didn’t conceptualize it \*could \*be a fetish. And my girlfriends and I saw two cute twin guys at a bar last night! Our appreciation was far more “hey, one for you, one for me!” (theoretically; none of us was actually looking to hook up) than “double your pleasure!”

So put me down as a no.

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**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/13 "2008-11-29T15:46:05Z")

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I’m a guy and I don’t get it. If I can get two scoops of ice cream, I don’t want them both to be the same flavor. That would be boring. But I find most of Playboy’s women boring so maybe it’s just me.

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**Author:** ![Small\_Hen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ad7895/32.png) [@Small\_Hen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Small_Hen)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/14 "2008-11-29T15:54:40Z")

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Never got the draw of identical twins. The risk of moaning the wrong name would increase dramatically.

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**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/15 "2008-11-29T16:01:43Z")

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> [@Small\_Hen](#):
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> Never got the draw of identical twins. The risk of moaning the wrong name would increase dramatically.

I wonder if the twin fantasy is a vanilla cousin of the sex-with-a-stranger fantasy. If you don’t know twins well, you do run the risk of confusing them, especially without clothing cues, and being slightly uncertain who’s doing what seems reminiscent of the sex-with-a-stranger thrill.

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**Author:** ![sjc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@sjc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sjc)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/16 "2008-11-29T19:33:57Z")

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Straight guy, mildly titillated by the prospect of sex with twin girls but more for the oddity or exoticness than anything else. Not something I’m interested in as a real life activity.

But to the subject of the OP, I knew at least one girl who dated one twin then fantasized about dating the other one. Her fantasizing increased as her relationship with the one brother started to sour.

So perhaps she wasn’t interested in a threesome, but she did seem to be interested in sleeping with both of them consecutively.

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**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 7:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/17 "2008-11-29T19:42:35Z")

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> [@Small\_Hen](#):
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> Never got the draw of identical twins. The risk of moaning the wrong name would increase dramatically.

I can’t say the idea interests me, but your comment made me think: if both twins are, um…“addressing” you, how could you possibly moan the wrong name? As long as it’s one of the two\* other people in the room, you can’t miss.

\*Not counting the film crew, of course.

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**Author:** ![Kaio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/c68b51/32.png) [@Kaio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kaio)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/18 "2008-11-29T20:22:21Z")

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Bleurgh. Incest is squicky, and twins don’t get a pass on that just cuz they’re twins. (Male or female… I’d be squicked being in the same room with two female twins getting in on, too. ew ew ew!)

I wouldn’t have a threesome with two guys anyway. If I already have a boyfriend I don’t need another. If I also happened to have a girlfriend we might be able to negotiate something. Maybe.

FWIW, I am acquainted with a set of identical male triplets in real life, who are fairly good looking. I’ve heard rumors that they occasionally do this, and it wouldn’t surprise me if they did knowing them, and even knowing I will never be anywhere near them when they do, it seriously breaks my brain to think about. Bleurgh!

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**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/19 "2008-11-29T21:04:19Z")

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From an oddly clinical standpoint, the next time you see video of ‘twins’/‘parent-sibling’, I’ve noticed they typically stay away from each other. I can’t say as I’ve seen a lot of 'em, but with the ones I have it seemed that the genetically related participants really didn’t want to have anything to do with each other.

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**Author:** ![Freejooky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ba8739/32.png) [@Freejooky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freejooky)\
**Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/doper-women-do-twins-excite-you/474895/20 "2008-11-29T21:05:43Z")

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