# Dopers whose genders you assumed incorrectly

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 26, 2004, 1:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478 "2004-03-26T01:33:28Z")\
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**Author:** ![MaxTheVool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@MaxTheVool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MaxTheVool)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/1 "2004-03-26T01:33:28Z")

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Have any of you ever incorrectly assumed the gender of a doper for some reason? Or for no reason at all? C’mon, fess up? And who was it?

For me (and there’s a good chance that I’m _still_ wrong about one or more of these folks… if so, please correct me):

**Shodan** , **SnoopyFan** , and **Gaudere** are all female. I assumed they were male

**Mangetout** is male. I assumed he was female. ( **Ilsa Lund** definitely sounds female, but is crafty enough to mention in his sig that he’s male)

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**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/2 "2004-03-26T01:42:12Z")

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Before she made it known, I assumed **EddyTeddyFreddy** was a guy.

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**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/3 "2004-03-26T01:44:25Z")

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I am probably on this list.

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**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/4 "2004-03-26T01:48:05Z")

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Oh yes, I forgot I misjudged your gender **NurseCarmen**.  
Also I was taken a back by **Bambi Hassenpfeffer’s** gender.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/5 "2004-03-26T01:54:55Z")

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> [@MaxTheVool](#):
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> **Shodan** , **SnoopyFan** , and **Gaudere** are all female. I assumed they were male

Shodan is a girl?!?!?

A lot of people express confusion over my user name, or at least a lot of people have referred to me as him/her.

I’m a dude.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/6 "2004-03-26T01:57:55Z")

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I’ve had several people guess wrong on my gender. 😉

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**Author:** ![presidebt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c37758/32.png) [@presidebt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/presidebt)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/7 "2004-03-26T02:00:37Z")

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Same here, twickster. 😃

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**Author:** ![Eats\_Crayons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/278dde/32.png) [@Eats\_Crayons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eats_Crayons)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/8 "2004-03-26T02:01:24Z")

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> [@Really Not All That Bright](#):
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> Shodan is a girl?!?!?

_Shodan is a girl???_

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**Author:** ![Ilsa\_Lund](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a6a055/32.png) [@Ilsa\_Lund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ilsa_Lund)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/9 "2004-03-26T02:13:43Z")

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**Shodan** is _not_ a girl.  
I am, of course, a guy. Intelligent and good looking to boot!😃

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**Author:** ![Eats\_Crayons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/278dde/32.png) [@Eats\_Crayons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eats_Crayons)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/10 "2004-03-26T02:21:44Z")

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> [@Ilsa\_Lund](#):
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> **Shodan** is _not_ a girl.

😕 Oh, okay. Startled me for a second.

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**Author:** ![Lissla\_Lissar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lissla\_Lissar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissla_Lissar)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/11 "2004-03-26T02:21:59Z")

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**Shodan** isn’t a guy? Can we have more confirmation of this? I was fairly sure s/he was male!

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/12 "2004-03-26T02:39:10Z")

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> [@Lissla Lissar](#):
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> **Shodan** isn’t a guy? Can we have more confirmation of this? I was fairly sure s/he was male!

Alright, **Shodan** , time to come clean about that operation… 😉

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**Author:** ![Lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@Lizard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lizard)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/13 "2004-03-26T02:39:59Z")

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Actually, I _did_ think **Gaudere** was a man!

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**Author:** ![jackelope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a6a055/32.png) [@jackelope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackelope)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/14 "2004-03-26T02:40:12Z")

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I have no idea why this is, but the name **Shirley Ujest** always struck me as masculine. I know, I know, it’s got “Shirley” in it, but for some reason I always pictured a man; possibly because of the “Yes, and don’t call me Shirley” jokes from _Airplane!_.

Anyway, I was surprised to find out Shirley was female.

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**Author:** ![VunderBob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/839c29/32.png) [@VunderBob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VunderBob)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/15 "2004-03-26T02:46:40Z")

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> [@jackelope](#):
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> Anyway, I was surprised to find out Shirley was female.

[hijack]  
I’ve always assumed that Shirley was female. However, I also assumed that her name really was Shirley, mostly because I my name really is Bob.

[/hijack]

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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/16 "2004-03-26T02:53:42Z")

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> [@twickster](#):
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> I’ve had several people guess wrong on my gender. 😉

I know! I always thought you were a girl until another Doper set me straight!

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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/17 "2004-03-26T02:55:44Z")

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> [@NurseCarmen](#):
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> I am probably on this list.

Well… you are a _handsome_ woman!

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/18 "2004-03-26T03:09:04Z")

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And it would be easier to tell if you stopped wearing that uniform and cap…but you do have nice legs for it.

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**Author:** ![Gr8Kat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gr8kat/32/18668_2.png) [@Gr8Kat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gr8Kat)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/19 "2004-03-26T03:11:03Z")

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I think I assume most posters are male unless their name is very feminine. I’m wrong a lot.

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**Author:** ![Shirley\_Ujest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@Shirley\_Ujest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shirley_Ujest)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2004, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dopers-whose-genders-you-assumed-incorrectly/236478/20 "2004-03-26T03:17:28Z")

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[Hugh Grant]

Ack- shoo-ly

[/Hg}

Shirley is also a man’s first name. [A man named Shirley](http://www.blackpagescanada.com/services/shirley_book.asp)  
But I am most assuredly a female type.

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