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I think he means that feminists are very aggressive in pushing that scenario as “rape,” not that they’re hyping the idea that it’s a fatuous ploy.
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Yes, that is what I meant.
I’m talking about the stereotypical scenario that college students are told is “rape”:
You meet a girl at a bar. You both have had a few too many. You dance, drink more and make suggestive looks at each other. You go back to your place (or her place) doesn’t matter. You have a couple of more drinks, more flirting, kissing, heaving petting, and then have sex like weasels.
When you wake up the next morning, the girl doesn’t deny anything that happened. She says that she wanted sex then, but still feels it is rape because she was too drunk to give true consent.
I’m not talking about a scenario where she lies and says that she told you no, and you did it anyways. I’m not talking about her passing out and you having your way.
If you could just provide one link to a man who was even arrested or charged with rape based on the above scenario, I would love to hear it..