# Dude gropes the wrong waitress and gets his ass handed to him. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 20, 2018, 12:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266 "2018-07-20T12:34:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/21 "2018-07-20T16:04:27Z")
I’d love to hear both the conversation between the mother and kids, and the one between groper and wife later on. I’m guessing she won’t bail his ass out. “Why are the police taking daddy away?” “Well, honey, daddy is a sexual predator.” ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/22 "2018-07-20T16:06:45Z")
> [@Snowboarder\_Bo](#): > > I’d guess he was returning to his table from the restroom when this occurred, so yeah, his family was prolly like 20 feet away when he got his ass sat down and yelled at. i hope he washed his hands. ---
**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/23 "2018-07-20T16:13:32Z")
> [@Gyrate](#): > > Waitasecond… if he wasn’t local and he was arrested in front of his family, does that imply that he groped a waitress in a restaurant _that his wife and children were also at_? Because that just adds an extra layer of stupid to what he did. I have noticed in life that neither marrying nor breeding stops the stupidity. ---
**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/24 "2018-07-20T16:13:39Z")
What a woman. I am gonna give to the go-fund-me. Wow! Girlfriend has my respect. ---
**Author:** ![Projammer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/projammer/32/559_2.png) [@Projammer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Projammer)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/25 "2018-07-20T16:20:09Z")
That takedown was a thing of beauty. Anyone started a pool as to whether there’s a divorce in his immediate future? ---
**Author:** ![DCnDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dcndc/32/2842_2.png) [@DCnDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DCnDC)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/26 "2018-07-20T16:25:12Z")
> [@Projammer](#): > > Anyone started a pool as to whether there’s a divorce in his immediate future? It was so casual I’d bet anything this isn’t anywhere close to the first time he’s done it. If his wife is not a fool (though we can’t rule that out; she did marry this POS), she knows this is not new behavior. It may even be how they met. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/27 "2018-07-20T17:13:41Z")
You can’t see from the camera angle, but I suspect his grabass was more like a goose, as the waitress said it was a “more intimate touch”. Good thing this didn’t happen in Italy. I understand it is more common and more accepted there. Ah, those Italians! ---
**Author:** ![araminty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5e925/32.png) [@araminty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/araminty)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/28 "2018-07-20T17:21:43Z")
Thread title implies that another waitress would be more amenable to sexual harassment… ---
**Author:** ![CarnalK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnalk/32/486_2.png) [@CarnalK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarnalK)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/29 "2018-07-20T17:30:35Z")
> [@araminty](#): > > Thread title implies that another waitress would be more amenable to sexual harassment… No, it doesn’t. ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/30 "2018-07-20T17:33:27Z")
> [@araminty](#): > > Thread title implies that another waitress would be more amenable to sexual harassment… [Not tossing the culprit into a counter, at least.](https://www.insideedition.com/georgia-waitress-who-took-down-handsy-customer-i-didnt-even-know-i-could-do-45229) (1:31 - 1:33) ---
**Author:** ![Broomstick](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/broomstick/32/246_2.png) [@Broomstick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Broomstick)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/31 "2018-07-20T17:38:37Z")
A lot of businesses would have fired an employee for laying hands on a customer no matter what the customer did. I’m glad that she wasn’t, because no one should have to put up with that sort of shit. ---
**Author:** ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/32 "2018-07-20T17:49:16Z")
> [@Broomstick](#): > > A lot of businesses would have fired an employee for laying hands on a customer no matter what the customer did. No. ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/33 "2018-07-20T17:58:52Z")
> [@DCnDC](#): > > Florida. We really need to build a wall around that place and keep those people contained. Oh yeah? Well, we’re not paying for it! ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/34 "2018-07-20T18:01:15Z")
Her GoFundMe is at 9,022 out of a 20,000 goal. ---
**Author:** ![Two\_Many\_Cats](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8dc957/32.png) [@Two\_Many\_Cats](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Two_Many_Cats)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/35 "2018-07-20T18:40:56Z")
Way cool, but not quite the body slam that some news sources have described. She sort of swings him around by his collar. Some sites said she put him into a headlock and threw him to the floor. ---
**Author:** ![enipla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/54ee81/32.png) [@enipla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enipla)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/36 "2018-07-20T18:56:09Z")
> [@Two\_Many\_Cats](#): > > Way cool, but not quite the body slam that some news sources have described. She sort of swings him around by his collar. Some sites said she put him into a headlock and threw him to the floor. Well, look close. She grabs his collar with her right hand, which slows him down. Then her left hand/arm goes around his neck and she swings him around throwing him towards a wastebin. Can’t really tell if he’s on the floor or perhaps a chair. But he got thrown pretty good. She looks pretty strong, and the guy isn’t exactly small. ---
**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/37 "2018-07-20T19:02:05Z")
> [@enipla](#): > > Well, look close. She grabs his collar with her right hand, which slows him down. Then her left hand/arm goes around his neck and she swings him around throwing him towards a wastebin. Can’t really tell if he’s on the floor or perhaps a chair. But he got thrown pretty good. Into the counter she was working at, hard enough to push the counter into the back of another guy enjoying his meal. ---
**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/38 "2018-07-20T19:12:16Z")
What gets me is that this happens so often at that place they had to put up security cameras. How many other women got groped at work and had to smile to save their tips? ---
**Author:** ![SteveG1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@SteveG1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SteveG1)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/39 "2018-07-20T19:12:17Z")
> [@Two\_Many\_Cats](#): > > Way cool, but not quite the body slam that some news sources have described. She sort of swings him around by his collar. Some sites said she put him into a headlock and threw him to the floor. A piledriver or a powerbomb would have been cooler 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2018, 7:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-gropes-the-wrong-waitress-and-gets-his-ass-handed-to-him/818266/40 "2018-07-20T19:19:36Z")
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