# dude   you haven't even met me

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 12, 2012, 6:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531 "2012-03-12T06:08:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![Cinnamon\_Imp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Cinnamon\_Imp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cinnamon_Imp)\
**Post date:** [March 13, 2012, 7:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531/41 "2012-03-13T07:44:18Z")

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> [@Dangerosa](#):
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> Don’t blame the victim.

You’re right.

Sorry **sahirnee** , I shouldn’t have seconded that. I’m glad you cut him off when you did (and even gladder you never met the psycho!).

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**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\
**Post date:** [March 13, 2012, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531/42 "2012-03-13T15:58:44Z")

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I feel extremely sorry for the woman with low self worth, that succumbs to that ass-hat’s advances.

Good on the OP for recognizing his BS and cutting it off when she did.

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**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\
**Post date:** [March 13, 2012, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531/43 "2012-03-13T16:59:47Z")

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> [@Little\_Nemo](#):
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> The problem is that while they’re attracted to western women, as soon as they become interested in a particular woman they become possessive and traditional. They don’t want her doing all of the things that attracted their attention in the first place.

That’s dumb! \>:[

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**Author:** ![Angua](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8baadc/32.png) [@Angua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Angua)\
**Post date:** [March 13, 2012, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dude-you-havent-even-met-me/615531/44 "2012-03-13T17:13:53Z")

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> [@rachelellogram](#):
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> I don’t understand why guys like this (with outdated/inaccurate notions of what is generally acceptable in the dating world in America) don’t date within their own community/religion.

Because the women within their own community/religion think they’re asshole creeps too?  
😉

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