# Dying Girl Bullied Online by 33 Year Old Neighbor

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 14, 2010, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125 "2010-10-14T13:43:43Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Mollie\_Magill](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mollie_magill/32/20882_2.png) [@Mollie\_Magill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mollie_Magill)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/21 "2010-10-14T17:43:48Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> He’s quite the aficionado of euphemism, as evidenced in [this article](http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1319276/Scott-Jennifer-Petkovs-cruel-taunts-dying-Kathleen-Edwards-7.html).
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> > [@www.dailymail.co.uk](#):
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> > Mrs Petkov’s husband, Scott, 30, told the Detroit News that his wife’s ‘brutal honesty’ has caused his family to ‘not get along with a lot of people.’

There’s a difference between being “brutally honest” and being an asshole. It’s amazing how many brutally honest people don’t understand that.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/22 "2010-10-14T17:46:51Z")

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> [@RandMcnally](#):
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> This Jennifer bitch said it was a “mistake.” How is that a mistake? She didn’t accidentally make those pictures. There isn’t a “make photoshop mocking little kid” button on the computer that she could have accidentally pressed.

There’s a difference between mistakes and accidents. I’ve made mistakes in my life that I’ve jumped into with both feet and a smile on my face.

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**Author:** ![Dante](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dante/32/9673_2.png) [@Dante](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dante)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/23 "2010-10-14T17:51:29Z")

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Sounds like she’s contrite on the advice of counsel. People like that don’t just suddenly come to the realization that they’re giant flaming assholes. I bet good money she’s not sorry in the least.

4chan’s response seems a bit underwhelming, unfortunately. The little girl should dress up like a cat. That’ll get them up in arms.

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**Author:** ![Ferret\_Herder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@Ferret\_Herder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ferret_Herder)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/24 "2010-10-14T17:54:11Z")

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> [@Mollie\_Magill](#):
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> There’s a difference between being “brutally honest” and being an asshole. It’s amazing how many brutally honest people don’t understand that.

In other words, there’s a reason the word “brutal” is involved in that phrase.

I don’t support the death threats and harassment that have gone on now that this is public, but I can’t muster up a ton of sympathy in return.

And frankly, I kind of hope some degree of sociopathy is involved, because I’d hate to think that this kind of taunting could come from an adult with even a bit of a conscience.

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**Author:** ![Peremensoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ce7236/32.png) [@Peremensoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peremensoe)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/25 "2010-10-14T18:02:37Z")

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I haven’t had much use or regard for Facebook.

But [this](http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=123801807673623) is nice.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/26 "2010-10-14T18:08:20Z")

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> [@Dante](#):
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> > [@Ogre](#):
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> > Didn’t she say something about getting revenge on the family? Revenge for what, I wonder?
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> The story goes that she’s pissed that her kids were not invited to a birthday party that was happening at the Edward’s home.
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> Given that the kids were raised by these two gems, I’m pretty sure I can figure out why they weren’t invited.

According to the 2nd linked article, that’s not quite the case. The grandmother was having a birthday party (it doesn’t say for whom), and the bitch asked if her kids could go over and play. The grandmother didn’t respond to the text quick enough.

She said “That’s where it all started”, so I’m assuming that there was gradual escalation. And all of this was not to upset the little girl, it was to upset the grandmother.

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/27 "2010-10-14T18:36:59Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> And all of this was not to upset the little girl, it was to upset the grandmother.

Yes. She was getting back at the grandmother by terrorizing the kid.

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**Author:** ![Minnie\_Luna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4bbf92/32.png) [@Minnie\_Luna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Minnie_Luna)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/28 "2010-10-14T19:01:30Z")

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IIRC, 4chan (or someone) published this woman’s address, her employer, her husband’s employer and all such relevant information. I think they are definitely getting their due.

This guy on reddit has collected $17,500 for the family. [Toy Store Owner](http://www.reddit.com/r/reddit.com/comments/doni3/reddit_i_own_a_toy_store_near_the_7year_old_being/)

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**Author:** ![anya\_marie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ebca7d/32.png) [@anya\_marie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anya_marie)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/29 "2010-10-14T19:03:48Z")

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Bulllshit! She’s only sorry she got caught. Anyone with any decency would never even consider such a thing.

It’s fair that she get doses of her medicine in return. I’m a bitch with a big mouth too but it’s really lame to pick on someone so defenceless.

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**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/30 "2010-10-14T20:22:33Z")

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> [@anya\_marie](#):
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> Bulllshit! She’s only sorry she got caught. Anyone with any decency would never even consider such a thing.
> 
> It’s fair that she get doses of her medicine in return. I’m a bitch with a big mouth too but it’s really lame to pick on someone so defenceless.

As per my signature I’m actually a Bitch Queen but I sure as hell don’t go after 7 year old terminally ill children. That would make me a moron, not a bitch.

I really hope this woman’s life becomes very, very unpleasant for the next while, and that Kathleen gets some nice things with the money raised for her.

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**Author:** ![Markxxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/5daacb/32.png) [@Markxxx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Markxxx)\
**Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/31 "2010-10-14T20:31:49Z")

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As usual _[the Family Circus](http://img842.imageshack.us/img842/5493/251qd.jpg)_ has already covered this

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**Author:** ![dhkendall](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a9adbd/32.png) [@dhkendall](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dhkendall)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/32 "2010-10-15T02:26:57Z")

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> [@Dante](#):
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> Something tells me 4chan is going to make this bitch’s life miserable…

Prisoners who are there for sexually molesting children have their lives made miserable by every other prisoner in the jail.

For everyone else, there’s 4chan.

> [@Minnie\_Luna](#):
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> IIRC, 4chan (or someone) published this woman’s address, her employer, her husband’s employer and all such relevant information. I think they are definitely getting their due.
> 
> This guy on reddit has collected $17,500 for the family. [Toy Store Owner](http://www.reddit.com/r/reddit.com/comments/doni3/reddit_i_own_a_toy_store_near_the_7year_old_being/)

Call me when 4chan (or someone) posts her credit card number. They’ll have $17,500 more collected for the family in an instant. 🙂

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**Author:** ![statsman1982](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e79b87/32.png) [@statsman1982](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/statsman1982)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/33 "2010-10-15T02:37:54Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> Wow. Too bad that terminal assholishness isn’t fatal.

I think it’s almost a certainty that this woman will live a very long time. Pricks tend to live a long time.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/34 "2010-10-15T02:43:27Z")

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> [@statsman1982](#):
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> > [@tdn](#):
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> > Wow. Too bad that terminal assholishness isn’t fatal.
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> I think it’s almost a certainty that this woman will live a very long time. Pricks tend to live a long time.

Since she has to live with herself, may she live forever. I can’t think of a worse punishment.

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**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/35 "2010-10-15T03:19:15Z")

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> [@Minnie\_Luna](#):
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> IIRC, 4chan (or someone) published this woman’s address, her employer, her husband’s employer and all such relevant information. I think they are definitely getting their due.

The dregs of American society are about to turn this bitch’s asshole inside out in the figurative sense.

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**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/36 "2010-10-15T03:20:19Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> > [@statsman1982](#):
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> > I think it’s almost a certainty that this woman will live a very long time. Pricks tend to live a long time.
> 
> Since she has to live with herself, may she live forever. I can’t think of a worse punishment.

Considering she sounds like a sociopath I doubt “living with herself” will be hard. Living with everyone knowing her phone number, address, etc, might be just a tad more difficult.

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**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/37 "2010-10-15T03:26:38Z")

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Where are the torches and pitchforks when you need them.

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**Author:** ![Hippy\_Hollow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hippy_hollow/32/4841_2.png) [@Hippy\_Hollow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hippy_Hollow)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/38 "2010-10-15T03:27:53Z")

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Seriously? What the fuck is wrong with people?

Stupid bitch deserves the public hectoring she’s about to experience.

[Nelson Muntz voice]Haw-haw![/nmv]

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 5:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/39 "2010-10-15T05:46:25Z")

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I read that over at Giraffe’s. I cannot even fathom why someone would do this without some severe mental illness. She’s obviously severely fucked up.

How fucking sick can you get – there are no words.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2010, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dying-girl-bullied-online-by-33-year-old-neighbor/557125/40 "2010-10-15T05:54:34Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> > [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> > He’s quite the aficionado of euphemism, as evidenced in [this article](http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1319276/Scott-Jennifer-Petkovs-cruel-taunts-dying-Kathleen-Edwards-7.html).
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> She now seems contrite about it, but her actions were so extreme that they can’t really be undone. This isn’t going to end anytime soon.

> [@Dante](#):
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> Sounds like she’s contrite on the advice of counsel. People like that don’t just suddenly come to the realization that they’re giant flaming assholes. I bet good money she’s not sorry in the least.

Yeah, contrite she’s been caught and is catching heat for it, not contrite she hurt someone. Sounds like the kind of person who _knows_ that you’re supposed to say “sorry” but doesn’t _understand_ why.

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