# Ever been involved in a threesome or group sex situation? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 29, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731 "2010-10-29T02:48:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/21 "2010-10-29T18:06:58Z")
> [@The\_Weird\_One](#): > > Then I went to art school and got a lesbian orgy for my 21st birthday. 😃 I can’t remember what I got for my 21st birthday, but I’m sure it wasn’t anything near as fun! ---
**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/22 "2010-10-29T18:11:26Z")
> [@Fried\_Dough\_Ho](#): > > Yes. > > Threesomes and then-somes. For the record, they are so not what they look like in porn whatsoever. > > That many bodies secreting that much bodily fluid is not really that pleasant. Then again, I have very sensitive olfactory capabilities and, as a professional food and wine writer, highly-tuned taste buds. I’ll leave it at that. I don’t have an olfactory problem, but a threesome has, on average, 50% more elbows and knees than traditional sex, and there’s some confusion as to where all of them should go… ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/23 "2010-10-29T18:26:51Z")
I think the way the question is posed the “no’s” think you only want the “yeses”. Um, I never have, though I have wanted to - FFM if that is the only way, but I’d vastly prefer MMF with me being the only female in the room. But it’s not likely to happen now, I suppose, unless something changes radically. ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/24 "2010-10-29T19:10:48Z")
> [@The\_Weird\_One](#): > > Then I went to art school and got a lesbian orgy for my 21st birthday. 😃 Lesbians have orgies other than in front of cameras for the purposes of being paid? Who knew? Gay male - ton of threesomes plus other numbers all the way up to however many people attend the various sex clubs I sometimes go to. Tis good. ---
**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/25 "2010-10-29T19:32:18Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > I think the way the question is posed the “no’s” think you only want the “yeses”. Yes, I was afraid of that…sigh. And to think I even discussed self-selection bias in this survey in the conversation. (Says something about me, I think, that I went right from talking about threesomes to talking about survey analysis.) Not that there’s nothing to learn from here. Threesomes: sex, but now with 50% more knees and elbows! Super-tasters need not apply! ---
**Author:** ![The\_Weird\_One](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@The\_Weird\_One](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Weird_One)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/26 "2010-10-29T19:36:34Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > I think the way the question is posed the “no’s” think you only want the “yeses”. Um, I never have, though I have wanted to - FFM if that is the only way, but I’d vastly prefer MMF with me being the only female in the room. But it’s not likely to happen now, I suppose, unless something changes radically. Plus, in any voluntary survey of this subject matter, you’re going to get a disproportionally high number of “yeses” just because people who _have_ had a threesome/group sex are more likely to respond because they want to brag about it. Not that I would ever be guilty of something like that, of course. ---
**Author:** ![Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Attack_from_the_3rd_dimension)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/27 "2010-10-29T19:54:35Z")
> [@Rafe\_Hollister](#): > > That sentence makes me hard. Art school always give me wood. ---
**Author:** ![Rafe\_Hollister](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/fbc32d/32.png) [@Rafe\_Hollister](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rafe_Hollister)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/28 "2010-10-29T21:43:57Z")
> [@Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](#): > > Art school always give me wood. Fo’ shizzle. ---
**Author:** ![Ibanez](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a4c791/32.png) [@Ibanez](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ibanez)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2010, 9:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/29 "2010-10-29T21:45:17Z")
Dating bi-sexual women is the way to live. ---
**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/30 "2010-10-31T04:19:40Z")
What for us who have been in both a threesome and group sex? I figured, I’d vote for the most extreme, which is group sex… but I’ve done both. Liberal arts education and too much booze/pot… yeah, group sex happened. That, and I was a very experimental bisexual woman. Still bisexual, but not as experimental now that I’m married. ---
**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/31 "2010-10-31T05:54:20Z")
Another gay man chiming in - we generally end up having at least a threesome somewhere in the area of two or three times a year, but I have been involved in larger numbers. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 10:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/32 "2010-10-31T10:52:17Z")
I did it with the two posters below me… ---
**Author:** ![Snickers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@Snickers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snickers)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/33 "2010-11-01T16:59:40Z")
Lies! All lies! ---
**Author:** ![Fried\_Dough\_Ho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/a88e57/32.png) [@Fried\_Dough\_Ho](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fried_Dough_Ho)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/34 "2010-11-01T17:02:06Z")
Yeah but, Shakes, I wore you out before I finished. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Hypno-Toad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b2d939/32.png) [@Hypno-Toad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hypno-Toad)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/35 "2010-11-01T17:32:18Z")
My experience was very unpleasant due to the other people involved. They skeeved me out big time. BIG time. ---
**Author:** ![Peeta\_Mellark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@Peeta\_Mellark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peeta_Mellark)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731/36 "2010-11-01T17:32:56Z")
I accidentally hit “No. But I would be interested in it” instead of “Yes, I have been involved in a threesome.” I lost my virginity in a threesome, in fact. I think it was all a calculated plot on the part of the one guy who had alcohol and porn, but I don’t think any of us minded. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-been-involved-in-a-threesome-or-group-sex-situation/558731.md?page=1)