# Ever just lose the spelling of a word?

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 27, 2010, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703 "2010-08-27T18:18:53Z")\
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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2010, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/21 "2010-08-30T17:04:01Z")

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In the 8th grade, I was the class champion speller. As I’m getting older, my spelling seems to get worser and werserest. Words that never gave me a problem now look funny to me and I have to check. I usually open Word and use it in a sentence for the auto spellcheck.

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**Author:** ![septimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/septimus/32/410_2.png) [@septimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/septimus)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2010, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/22 "2010-08-30T18:34:59Z")

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There are a few words I always want to spell incorrectly: necessary (does it have two c’s?), separate (shouldn’t that 2nd vowel by an e?), and weird (i before e except to be weird? 😕 😕) Even now, I’m not sure I wrote these words correctly.

And lately I substitute homophones. Not just the usual their/they’re or right/write, but much more startling cases, like “value” for “vowel.” (This example just happened to me in previous paragraph.) I have to proofread e-mail carefuly to avoid looking the idiot. (My SDMB posts are usually OK, due to Preview and Edit … I caught vowel-\>value above!)

I _do_ find myself staring at simple words sometimes and thinking the spelling is bizarre – “young” seemed weird just a few hours ago – but I do know they’re spelled right.

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**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 12:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/23 "2010-08-31T00:48:28Z")

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> [@septimus](#):
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> …and weird (i before e except to be weird? 😕 😕 )

One of the most common words in English doesn’t follow the i-before-e “rule” - **their**. It’s why I always thought it was a foolish principle to drum into a child.

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**Author:** ![Fair\_Rarity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fair_rarity/32/153_2.png) [@Fair\_Rarity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fair_Rarity)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 2:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/24 "2010-08-31T02:07:51Z")

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I am having a hard time with “wonder” lately. It wants to be “oneder.” Or similarly, “I one that game… er… won.”

I once had to ask someone to spell Jones for me. All I could think of was Joans.

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**Author:** ![Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sticks_and_scones/32/16951_2.png) [@Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sticks_and_Scones)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/25 "2010-08-31T02:18:17Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> This has been happening to me more and more, lately. And I used to be a really great speller; won spelling bees all the time when I was a kid.

> [@Chefguy](#):
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> In the 8th grade, I was the class champion speller. As I’m getting older, my spelling seems to get worser and werserest. Words that never gave me a problem now look funny to me and I have to check. I usually open Word and use it in a sentence for the auto spellcheck.

Yes! Me too. It’s extremely frustrating to feel that my brain is turning to spelling mush.

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**Author:** ![Leiko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Leiko](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leiko)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 4:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/26 "2010-08-31T04:56:50Z")

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I remember a terrifying morning in second grade when I could not remember how to spell “feel.” I had to walk from the city bus stop to school and spent the whole walk freaking out, because how was I supposed to write my Iditarod faux-diary entry, which was a day late because I’d either been sick or been pulled out for the dentist (don’t remember it now), if I couldn’t write down how I felt?

Remembered how to spell “feel” just as I was about to cross the road. I’m pretty sure I’d have been hit by a car if I hadn’t figured it out, I was so focused on the spelling.

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**Author:** ![dangermom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e274bd/32.png) [@dangermom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dangermom)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/27 "2010-08-31T05:25:47Z")

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I once forgot how to spell ‘maybe.’ I was 16 at the time.

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**Author:** ![limegreen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/82dd89/32.png) [@limegreen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/limegreen)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/28 "2010-08-31T17:16:27Z")

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As an English teacher, I grade mountains of spelling words/test/sentences. After a while, I have to look at the book to see how the stupid word is really spelled, because I’ve seen it spelled wrong in so many different ways…

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**Author:** ![Tethered\_Kite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a5b964/32.png) [@Tethered\_Kite](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tethered_Kite)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2010, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ever-just-lose-the-spelling-of-a-word/551703/29 "2010-08-31T23:24:33Z")

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> [@limegreen](#):
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> As an English teacher, I grade mountains of spelling words/test/sentences. After a while, I have to look at the book to see how the stupid word is really spelled, because I’ve seen it spelled wrong in so many different ways…

Well, that’s the deal, I think. I’m glad to hear people saying they are influenced by the disturbing use of the language online. Always feels like an alibi but I am certain that my use of English has been affected by the time I spend on the computer.

Or is that _effected?_

Something else I think affects it is the realization, rather late in life, that my grandparents were speaking English as a second language and I am noticing that my construction might be veering toward theirs now that I spend less time in the atmosphere of educated people.

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