# Everyone should know what an asshole Budget Player Cadet is **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 13, 2014, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027 "2014-04-13T18:22:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 11
**Author:** ![bucketybuck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/898d66/32.png) [@bucketybuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bucketybuck)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 10:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/201 "2014-04-17T10:00:56Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > I know this should be in ATMB, and I can always make a thread there if you like, but I want to know : why aren’t these people **being modded** , for being jerks if not trolling? > > Yes, **BPC** brought it on himself and he’s a big boy now, but IMO that’s the kind of jerkish behaviour we _should_ be modding. Why aren’t you being modded for making stupid weenie posts like that? ---
**Author:** ![Measure\_for\_Measure](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/measure_for_measure/32/557_2.png) [@Measure\_for\_Measure](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Measure_for_Measure)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 10:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/202 "2014-04-17T10:15:54Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > I know this should be in ATMB, and I can always make a thread there if you like, but I want to know : why aren’t these people **being modded** , for being jerks if not trolling? > > Yes, **BPC** brought it on himself and he’s a big boy now, but IMO that’s the kind of jerkish behaviour we _should_ be modding. Short answer: because the mods are two steps ahead of you (and thankfully 2 steps ahead of me). ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 10:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/203 "2014-04-17T10:51:17Z")
Heck, if I was expected to babysit a bunch of schmucks who will routinely complain that I’m either being too heavy-handed or not heavy-handed enough, and not getting _paid_ for it… By now, I’d probably be at the point where I’d be giving out BPC’s contact info and telling y’all that if it’s that important to you, feel free to take the law into your own hands. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 11:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/204 "2014-04-17T11:23:15Z")
> [@bucketybuck](#): > > Why aren’t you being modded for making stupid weenie posts like that? Bite me. It’s a legitimate question. I mean, I’d hate it if, say, my erstwhile, misguided, regrettable and stupid defence of **Cesario** got brought up in unrelated threads years later, repeatedly, just to hassle me. To pick a non-random example. Just for **Fenris**. Who is one of the reasons I don’t bother posting at any other MBs anymore. And is doing the same shit here with **BPC**. > [@Measure\_for\_Measure](#): > > Short answer: because the mods are two steps ahead of you (and thankfully 2 steps ahead of me). If you say so. ---
**Author:** ![Emiliana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f0a364/32.png) [@Emiliana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emiliana)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/205 "2014-04-17T12:39:22Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > I mean, I’d hate it if, say, my erstwhile, misguided, regrettable and stupid defence of **Cesario** got brought up in unrelated threads years later, repeatedly, just to hassle me. > > To pick a non-random example. Just for **Fenris**. Who is one of the reasons I don’t bother posting at any other MBs anymore. And is doing the same shit here with **BPC**. Connection made. I’m sorry to hear that. ---
**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/206 "2014-04-17T14:22:33Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > To pick a non-random example. Just for **Fenris**. Who is one of the reasons I don’t bother posting at any other MBs anymore. **Fenris** is your Lex Luthor? Or am I misunderstanding? (if I am correct, who is your Jimmy Olsen?) \ ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/207 "2014-04-17T14:33:36Z")
Nope, **Fenris** is an annoying asshole, is all. So more like my Bat-Mite. Granted, he’s not the _only_ reason I only read those other MBs and don’t post there anymore. But here, that kind of stalkerish shit isn’t supposed to fly. Hence my question to the mods, earlier. ---
**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/208 "2014-04-17T16:21:28Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > Nope, **Fenris** is an annoying asshole, is all. So more like my Bat-Mite. > > Granted, he’s not the _only_ reason I only read those other MBs and don’t post there anymore. But here, that kind of stalkerish shit isn’t supposed to fly. Hence my question to the mods, earlier. It’s because this is the Pit, not a drum circle where everybody has to hold hands and be nice to each other. I don’t believe the BPC stuff gets brought up very aggressively anywhere else on this board. You sure do like to defend pedophiles though, I’ll give you that much. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/209 "2014-04-17T16:26:26Z")
> [@Bob Ducca](#): > > I don’t believe the BPC stuff gets brought up very aggressively anywhere else on this board. Must not have read the ATMB thread, then. > [@](#): > > You sure do like to defend pedophiles though, I’ll give you that much. What can I say, I’m a pedophilophile. Prick. ---
**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/210 "2014-04-17T16:26:48Z")
> [@Bob Ducca](#): > > It’s because this is the Pit, not a drum circle where everybody has to hold hands and be nice to each other. It’s also not a place where one is _obligated_ to be a dick. ---
**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/211 "2014-04-17T16:28:46Z")
> [@andros](#): > > It’s also not a place where one is _obligated_ to be a dick. I’ve been doing it wrong. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/212 "2014-04-17T16:32:18Z")
You forgot to add in three “fucks” and a “cockgoblin.” . ---
**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/213 "2014-04-17T16:36:33Z")
> [@andros](#): > > It’s also not a place where one is _obligated_ to be a dick. We obviously signed different contracts. Off to fire my agent… ---
**Author:** ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/214 "2014-04-17T16:46:24Z")
A drum circle where everybody is holding hands? What do you do, jump up and down and beat the drum with your pecker? ---
**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 4:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/215 "2014-04-17T16:53:52Z")
Well, I can handle three drums that way. [sub]HA! Dick joke! I slay me![/sub] ---
**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 5:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/216 "2014-04-17T17:08:03Z")
> [@andros](#): > > Well, I can handle three drums that way. Timpani here. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/217 "2014-04-17T17:24:55Z")
> [@elucidator](#): > > A drum circle where everybody is holding hands? What do you do, jump up and down and beat the drum with your pecker? Ooh! Can I do the cymbal? ---
**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/218 "2014-04-17T17:36:39Z")
> [@VinylTurnip](#): > > Ooh! Can I do the cymbal? _hands VT the triangle_ ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/219 "2014-04-17T17:58:12Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > Nope, **Fenris** is an annoying asshole, is all. So more like my Bat-Mite. > > Granted, he’s not the _only_ reason I only read those other MBs and don’t post there anymore. But here, that kind of stalkerish shit isn’t supposed to fly. Hence my question to the mods, earlier. [Moderating] Let’s keep discussions of what posters do on other broads on those other boards, please. [/Moderating] ---
**Author:** ![MOIDALIZE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e274bd/32.png) [@MOIDALIZE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MOIDALIZE)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 6:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027/220 "2014-04-17T18:16:35Z")
Yeah, I don’t want to read about the depraved things **Fenris** does on broads so soon after lunch. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027.md?page=10) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/everyone-should-know-what-an-asshole-budget-player-cadet-is/686027.md?page=12)