I agree with you. We downsized a few years ago, but still have more house than we really NEED. We probably will not do so again until we have to move into something very small - likely an apartment. As my wife and I age, I can imagine we’ll be spending more to have people do what we currently do ourselves - yard care/snow removal, housecleaning/maintenance, grocery deliveries, Ubers…
But even if you downsize, you aren’t going to move to a dumpy shoebox in podunk Kansas. Nice smaller homes - or apartments - aren’t cheap. Have you checked what condos/apartments go for in your area? My house has appreciated considerably. I got a lot of comfort by checking rents at nice places in my area, and seeing that the sale proceeds would easily cover my rent for my expected lifetime.
And - like you - I’d just as soon spend money on my kids and grandkids when I’m alive and can see them enjoy it, and when they are in their 30s-40s and really need it. Yeah - we’ll likely travel some, but not crazy. I’m just not seeing that I’m going to spend a heck of a lot less.
You are going through very much the same calculation we recently went through. I’m not going to go into detail b/c I HATE money matters, and having reached some conclusions we are going to go with, I’m not putting much thought into them day-to-day. But you are at a point where I believe you would derive comfort from really setting up a plan. Maybe even see if you can set something up with a fee-for-service advisor. And, if you haven’t already, set up your will, trust (if you wish), etc.
My personal position is that although I do not want to stupidly piss away tons of $ in taxes, I’m not interested in making it a major job to try to spend as little taxes as usual. In short, I value governmental services and do not begrudge paying taxes.) The big thing is that at this point I’ve won at life, and will be able to retire comfortably, while still leaving a decent chunk of change to our 3 kids.
I think I’m pretty similarly situated as you. Wife and I are 64/63. Decent - not crazy - income, saved consistently, but not what I would call stupid rich. I could retire at any time, but for whatever reason, I’ve decided 3 years at 67. I think I chose that because I’d be at full SS retirement, but it really doesn’t matter, b/c I’m going to put off SS until 70.
We looked at our assets and intended income, and even if we continued spending as we currently are, our eventual income from pensions, SS, and RMDs is going to greatly exceed our current spending. So the question is simply which pots we draw money from when.
Looking at our savings and RMDs, the biggest issue is going to be taxes on the income we receive in retirement from tax-deferred (401k) investments. So right now we are planning on maximizing our Roth contributions and conversions, converting to Roth up until the next tax rate threshhold. That was a key factor for us - figuring out what we expect to earn in the next few years, and what income we could take on Roth conversions which would keep us in our same tax bracket. (I’m pretty sure you and I are in the same bracket. Of course, that will change if the taxe rates//brackets change.)
For the 3 years between 67 and 70, we are going to withdraw funds which will reduce our eventual RMDs. So, again - we’ll be paying taxes now to reduce our taxes later.
A couple of issues - depending on the earnings history and pensions of you and your spouse, make sure you consider the different effects if one of you dies before the other. For example, I’ve historically earned more than my wife. If I drop dead much earlier than her, she gets only 1/2 of my pension. And while she can get my higher SS bens, she loses hers. Just a wrinkle we hadn’t paid attention to previously.
Also, I am not planning on needing any longterm, end of life care. So I’m not needing to plan for any pricey extended stays in nursing homes. Just my personal opinion. We’ll see if I stick with it.
Good luck. The things you bring up are the good sorts of problems to have!
And however well-intentioned, I’m not terribly interested in folk explaining how my thoughts are stupid. Like I said, I hate this sort of thing and we’ve come up with a plan that seems to work for us, so we’ll stick with it for a while, while monitoring for any major changes.