# Facebook friending question.... (husband issue)

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook-friending-question-husband-issue/580691>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [May 4, 2011, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook-friending-question-husband-issue/580691 "2011-05-04T14:13:15Z")\
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**Author:** ![fjs1fs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9e8a1a/32.png) [@fjs1fs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fjs1fs)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2011, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook-friending-question-husband-issue/580691/56 "2011-05-04T19:12:01Z")

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> [@RedBloom](#):
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> FTR - he has 80 FB friends, and rarely friends anyone. He’s not on FB very much.
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> WhyNot - we are already in counseling for Trust issues… clearly it’s not helping.

Redbloom, I have almost exact same issues with my wife. About six weeks ago I realized that she had been carrying on facebook conversation for over three years (!) with a former lover of hers (from prior to her marriage) whom I specifically told during our first year of our marriage NEVER to contact her again when he called our marital home asking for her.

As you stated in your marriage, I’ve found a lot of other stuff that have caused EXTREME TRUST ISSUES.

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