# Facebook

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 22, 2011, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104 "2011-12-22T19:15:15Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 11\
**Page:** 5

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 10:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/81 "2011-12-23T22:34:24Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Had one, but cancelled it. It bored me, to be frank, and while i see the entertainment value, it just never did it for me.

Same for me. My departure was compounded by a couple of obnoxious ultra-right-wing jerks who posted crap that just made me sick. For my sanity, I just dumped the whole thing, and I don’t miss it at all.

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**Author:** ![jabiru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bbce88/32.png) [@jabiru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jabiru)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/82 "2011-12-23T23:31:35Z")

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I have a FB account and use it a lot, which is pretty rare I think, for women of my age (58). At least, none of the friends I used to work with or go to school with have accounts or they are difficult to find because of name changes etc.

I like it. I can keep up with friends I don’t see often because of time constraints or geography. I can see photos of my friend’s newest niece born in New Zealand and pics of her latest hairstyle. (The friend, not the neonate.) I like hearing that my friend in regional Victoria’s son has finally had a haircut and posted a photo to prove it. Way too trivial to bother sending an email with a photo attachment but the sort of thing we’d laugh over if we lived close enough to each other to get together for coffee.

I don’t have three thousand friends - only people I actually know and like - but I do wish my cousins were a bit more findable. I think I must be getting more nostalgic as I age.

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**Author:** ![vix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vix)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2011, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/83 "2011-12-24T02:18:19Z")

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I love facebook and am on many times a day. Besides my personal use, I also use it quite a bit for work; part of my job is to update my organization’s fb page.

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**Author:** ![jz78817](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jz78817/32/1028_2.png) [@jz78817](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jz78817)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2011, 2:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/84 "2011-12-24T02:47:45Z")

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I don’t have one and never will. nothing in my life is interesting enough to warrant posting anything about it. The few people I care about I see on a regular basis anyway, and there’s no way in hell I want to “re-connect” with anyone I went to school with.

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**Author:** ![Kaio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/c68b51/32.png) [@Kaio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kaio)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2011, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/85 "2011-12-24T03:09:39Z")

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I just went to school for social media marketing. I damn well better have a Facebook account. 🙂

I also have Twitter and G+ which I use regularly, and LinkedIn which I use intermittently (and then only because I’m looking for work).

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2011, 3:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/86 "2011-12-24T03:38:00Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> Had one, but cancelled it. It bored me, to be frank, and while i see the entertainment value, it just never did it for me.

So that’s where you disappeared to. Well, that’s a relief! I thought you’d unfriended me. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Crawlspace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Crawlspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crawlspace)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2011, 4:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/87 "2011-12-24T04:07:51Z")

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I got sucked into Facebook while I was living on the west coast as a way to keep in touch with the many cousins I had back on the east coast. I keep my friend list pretty small, always less than 100, usually around 60-80, mostly family (about 3/5). I log in a few times a day to keep up on whatever movie quote status, who can provide the funniest/most inappropriate caption, etc we have going on.

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/88 "2011-12-25T01:34:48Z")

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> [@interface2x](#):
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> Mine does that - it just did it yesterday, in fact.

So how do you have your settings? When I go to “Notification settings” I get fine-grained control over notifications for pretty much everything that happens on Facebook _apart_ from messages, which is the only thing I actually want (I missed a couple of really important messages recently - and even though I have told said friends to email me to ensure delivery some persist in using FB instead).

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/89 "2011-12-25T01:40:08Z")

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Ah, found it - it’s under “All notifications” \> “Facebook”. Jeez it’s absurdly complex.

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**Author:** ![Moonlitherial](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/4bbf92/32.png) [@Moonlitherial](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moonlitherial)\
**Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 1:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/90 "2011-12-25T01:50:59Z")

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I created one when my kids wanted pages. They could have theirs but the requirement was that they must friend me. I think I’ve posted to it about 5 times over the last 5 years and I posted pictures once when I renovated my office and wanted to share with some coworkers and friends. Now the kids are all grown up and do not need monitoring.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 1:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/facebook/607104/91 "2011-12-25T01:54:36Z")

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Have never been interested in Facebook. This site already takes up too much of my time. The wife has one though.

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