Paladin is a sequel to Curse of Chalion, and flows from the events of that book, just so you know. But it’s sufficiently explanatory to be read as a standalone, I think.
Some of the first novels, yes. But then you get comedies of manners like A Civil Campaign, Captain Vorpatril’s Alliance, and Gentleman Jole and the Red Queen, which are really about relationships and the intersection of technology and culture.
Indeed, what separates Bujold from space opera like, say, David Weber, is the way she’s able to weave human relationships into rhe fabric of her space stories. For instance, look at Komarr. The “A” plot is a purely sci-fi mystery, set around a plot to use a powerful secret weapon. But the “B” plot, which gets just as much focus as the sci-fi story, is centers on the dissolution of Ekaterin’s emotionally abusive marriage. And the resolution of that story plays directly into the climax of the “A” plot.
Sure, but would you describe the Witches series as a traditional swords-and-sorcery story? I wouldn’t; I’d call it a subversion and parody of that genre.
I get a weird vibe from Jim Butcher. Seems like in just about every Dresden Files novel, Harry encounters some supernaturally hot woman (literally, in some cases), usually nude, who offers him amazing sex which he nobly turns down. Mab, Maeve, Lara Raith, Jenny Greenteeth, Molly Carpenter, Madeleine Raith, the Maenad who seduced Murphy - he’s fought off advances from any number of deadly femmes fatales. It just feels a little…fetishy.
That, and Butcher seems to be allergic to the word “nipple”.