# Feel Good Friday:  WHERE Was Your First Time?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 14, 2010, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419 "2010-05-14T13:22:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![melodyharmonius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/melodyharmonius/32/21310_2.png) [@melodyharmonius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/melodyharmonius)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/1 "2010-05-14T13:22:10Z")

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Hey Everyone!

I’ve participated in several threads that asked how old you were when you lost your virginity - but today I’d just like to hear about where. It could be the town or the room - and you don’t have to give us all the details, if you don’t feel like it. In fact, I think it could be funny if it was just the “where” and nothing else - we could always beg for more details if necessary!  
Here’s mine:

The scratchy red rug in my mom’s den/family room. So add rug burn to all the other next day soreness. . . .

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**Author:** ![Zeriel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/58956e/32.png) [@Zeriel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeriel)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/2 "2010-05-14T13:24:11Z")

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Dorm room of a karate buddy of mine who just happened to proposition me to be a FWB after an impromptu sparring match.

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**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/3 "2010-05-14T13:24:16Z")

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A hotel room on Clearwater Beach.

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**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/4 "2010-05-14T13:28:04Z")

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In the upstairs bathroom of some guy’s house I didn’t know, after I’d gone to a party which I hadn’t been invited to, after I’d had too many gin and tonics I shouldn’t have had, with a Norwegian _au pair_ I shouldn’t have met in the first place.

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**Author:** ![Gagundathar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a183cd/32.png) [@Gagundathar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gagundathar)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/5 "2010-05-14T13:32:15Z")

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In the bedroom I grew up in.  
I wasn’t living there by then.  
It is a long story…

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**Author:** ![melodyharmonius](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/melodyharmonius/32/21310_2.png) [@melodyharmonius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/melodyharmonius)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/6 "2010-05-14T13:43:55Z")

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These are awesome!

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/7 "2010-05-14T13:50:17Z")

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At his friend’s empty house. Which friend? I don’t know. Thanks dude!

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/8 "2010-05-14T13:53:00Z")

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On a couch in a friend’s attic during a party.

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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/9 "2010-05-14T13:56:42Z")

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Dorm room right before leaving for Thanksgiving break my freshman year.

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**Author:** ![StusBlues](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@StusBlues](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StusBlues)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/10 "2010-05-14T13:58:25Z")

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Dorm room. Seems to be a popular choice.

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**Author:** ![EvilTOJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee59a6/32.png) [@EvilTOJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EvilTOJ)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/11 "2010-05-14T14:04:23Z")

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Bedroom at home, parents were home too.

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**Author:** ![kopek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kopek/32/337_2.png) [@kopek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kopek)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/12 "2010-05-14T14:07:38Z")

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Kitchen floor and living room; her parents house.

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/13 "2010-05-14T14:08:13Z")

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In the upstairs attic/loft of his sister’s house, where extra living-room furniture was (conveniently) stored.

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**Author:** ![mack](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@mack](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mack)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/14 "2010-05-14T14:10:29Z")

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My room in a Colorado farmhouse we were renting…wait for it…during college. It was after a Grateful Dead concert at Red Rocks. She was a friend of my roommate at the school I transferred from and we hit it off. Briefly.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/15 "2010-05-14T14:11:58Z")

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Assuming by ‘‘virginity’’ we mean PiV sex…

A luxury suite hotel room.

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**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/16 "2010-05-14T14:12:00Z")

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Bedroom at home – parents were out, D&D buddies were upstairs amazed that there was actually action going on.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/17 "2010-05-14T14:13:30Z")

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The North Carolina bedroom of a guy I’d met online, who I had met in person just hours before. I had come down from Ohio to hang out with some of my friends in NC and, oh yeah, hook up with dude. I was eager to get back to his house because it was hot outside and he had A/C. I’m a cool air slut.

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**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/18 "2010-05-14T14:14:14Z")

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In the little rented room I had when going to art school.

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/19 "2010-05-14T14:17:57Z")

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> [@Ellen\_Cherry](#):
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> In the upstairs attic/loft of his sister’s house, where extra living-room furniture was (conveniently) stored.

Mel?!

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**Author:** ![Ellen\_Cherry](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ellen_cherry/32/3600_2.png) [@Ellen\_Cherry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ellen_Cherry)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2010, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/feel-good-friday-where-was-your-first-time/539419/20 "2010-05-14T14:19:10Z")

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Ha! No. Wrong side of the pond.

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