# females and the big O (adult) **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 26, 2002, 4:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570 "2002-08-26T04:00:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![t-keela](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a3d4f5/32.png) [@t-keela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/t-keela)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/41 "2002-08-30T03:09:23Z")
[QUOTE] \*Originally posted by Coldfire \* \*\ ***wagnoid** , print out this thread, and put it on the headboard of your bed. It’ll be like 23,000 Dopers cheering you on. Go **wagnoid**! 🙂 Are you gonna show her this thread? I bet she’ll go off then! ---
**Author:** ![White\_Lightning](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f04885/32.png) [@White\_Lightning](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/White_Lightning)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/42 "2002-08-30T03:20:58Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by pulykamell \* > and … I don’t. Weird. That was my first time having sex and it’s happened several times since. Opposite of premature ejaculation, I guess. I get that too. I still really want to know if anyone can answer the anatomy question above. **wagnoid** , I agree with everyone who’s saying it sounds like you’re approaching this situation the right way. Your wife’s attitude in your last post sounds encouraging. I also think **CrazyCatLady** is 100% right. That ‘nice girls don’t like sex’ thing is exactly what I was trying to get at earlier. ---
**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/43 "2002-08-30T03:36:37Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Cervaise \* > \*\*Good luck! > > Oh, and for what it’s worth, I recommend you [disregard this guy’s advice](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45330). Pay special attention to what he suggests [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?postid=881102#post881102), and then **don’t do that.** > > 😃 \*\* EVIL EVIL EVIL! GAAAAAAAAAAH! ::runs to soak eyes and brain in bleach:: [sub]EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVIL!!![/sub] ---
**Author:** ![t-keela](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a3d4f5/32.png) [@t-keela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/t-keela)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/44 "2002-08-30T06:06:43Z")
I once had a girlfriend, many moons ago…snicker…you’ll get it in a minute…Man we worked hard at it for months. Finally we found the secret, only way she could get off was anal sex…:eek: true story ---
**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 9:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/45 "2002-08-30T09:29:05Z")
Maybe you should try [this stuff.](http://www.dreamcream.com/). heard about it on a radio program. The doctor who developed it seemed to know his stuff. But then again, how would I know? But hey, it couldn’t hurt. ---
**Author:** ![Uncle\_Toby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/b3f665/32.png) [@Uncle\_Toby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uncle_Toby)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2002, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570/46 "2002-08-30T16:46:30Z")
White Lightning I was fortunate to have as a lover in my early twenties an older an much more experienced woman. Her theory was that it is a flap near the back of the vaginal wall that only becomes apparent when the vagina is fully engorged. Interestingly neither she nor any of the other women I’ve known could feel me hitting a ‘spot’, it just felt much better when I did it. Perhaps this explains why it’s not better known. The problem with the flap theory is it doesn’t really explain why it’s always in front or why it’s so effective. I’ve never known a woman who could have an orgasm who couldn’t have one from vaginal stimulation alone, though the first one can be very difficult, after that they get easier. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/females-and-the-big-o-adult/125570.md?page=2)