# Fetish... **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 3, 2005, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233 "2005-05-03T15:02:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Atheist\_Princess](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a88e57/32.png) [@Atheist\_Princess](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atheist_Princess)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2005, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/61 "2005-05-08T12:04:44Z")
> [@Enola Straight](#): > > How about an abortion fetish? > > [http://groups-beta.google.com/group/alt.tasteless/msg/4348ffdf941867b2](http://groups-beta.google.com/group/alt.tasteless/msg/4348ffdf941867b2) > > (please tell me this is just a fictional story and not real! :eek: ) I’ve had a termination. It was horrific. I’m glad I was asleep. F\*\*K THAT! ---
**Author:** ![Terminus\_Est](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/terminus_est/32/3087_2.png) [@Terminus\_Est](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Terminus_Est)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/62 "2005-05-09T19:22:07Z")
There was a conference in San Francisco about, ahem, [unpopular sex acts](http://story.news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20050509/od_nm/life_sexology_dc): > [@](#): > > “Let me tell you, it was not easy finding these pictures,” Hunter College professor Jose E. Nanin told his audience in a seminar about “specialized” sexual behavior among gay men. Sounds like the good professor’s Google skills aren’t up to par. ---
**Author:** ![Stark\_Raven\_Mad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Stark\_Raven\_Mad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stark_Raven_Mad)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/63 "2005-05-09T19:37:10Z")
> [@Enola Straight](#): > > How about an abortion fetish? > > [http://groups-beta.google.com/group/alt.tasteless/msg/4348ffdf941867b2](http://groups-beta.google.com/group/alt.tasteless/msg/4348ffdf941867b2) > > (please tell me this is just a fictional story and not real! :eek: ) That was the only thing I’ve ever regretted reading in my life. Excuse me while I go beat this out of my head. ---
**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/64 "2005-05-09T20:20:46Z")
> [@Terminus Est](#): > > There was a conference in San Francisco about, ahem, [unpopular sex acts](http://story.news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20050509/od_nm/life_sexology_dc): I disagree with one of the definitions given in the article > [@](#): > > autoerotic asphyxiation, or “breath play” As I understand it, breath play requires at least two people- a sub who gets denied oxygen and a dom to deny the sub oxygen. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/65 "2005-05-09T20:25:14Z")
> [@Stark Raven Mad](#): > > That was the only thing I’ve ever regretted reading in my life. Excuse me while I go beat this out of my head. brain bleach…need the bleach… ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/66 "2005-05-09T21:50:18Z")
> [@DocCathode](#): > > I disagree with one of the definitions given in the article As I understand it, breath play requires at least two people- a sub who gets denied oxygen and a dom to deny the sub oxygen. But wouldn’t autoerotic mean doing it to yourself? ---
**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 10:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/67 "2005-05-09T22:10:24Z")
**Harimad Sol** That’s my point. I’ve never heard the term breathplay used to refer to autoerotic asphyxiation. Unless I’m mistaking, using the term breathplay to refer to solitary activities is about as accurate as using the term handjob to refer to a man masturbating. ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/68 "2005-05-09T22:12:57Z")
> [@DocCathode](#): > > **Harimad Sol** That’s my point. I’ve never heard the term breathplay used to refer to autoerotic asphyxiation. Unless I’m mistaking, using the term breathplay to refer to solitary activities is about as accurate as using the term handjob to refer to a man masturbating. Ah. I see what you mean. It’s been kind of a bad brain day for me, so I’m a little slow on the uptake. ---
**Author:** ![River\_Hippie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/river_hippie/32/26_2.png) [@River\_Hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/River_Hippie)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2005, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/69 "2005-05-10T02:13:31Z")
I have a fetish for attractive, feminine women with really short hair. Extra points if they are wearing large hoop earrings. ---
**Author:** ![Sleel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/73ab20/32.png) [@Sleel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sleel)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2005, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/70 "2005-05-10T08:18:57Z")
I have two separate categories of porn on my computer: 1) Stuff that gets me off, 2) Stuff that I keep around to show buddies how #^¢%ing weird people can be. I’m not that vanilla in my tastes, but I’m really at a loss as to how people can find some of these things fun, or in some cases, how they can find them to be even remotely sexual. Highlights of the weird stuff: [ul][li]Cock and ball torture, performed by a woman in spike heels.[/li][li]Double fisting, one self-fist, one with a partner, one with a combination of the two.[/li][li]Various object insertions, including a football insertion, an anal baseball-bat insertion, and one woman getting pronged by two guys with condom-tipped broom handles.[/li][li]Various scatological vignettes. I was surprised how far it’s possible to expel feces.[/li][li]\*Barfing. I swear I am not making this up. The girl made herself puke into the tub–that her friend was sitting in–scooped up some floaty bits, and ate them again to the accolades of her companion. The girl could practically stick her arm down her throat. Reminded me of a Discovery Channel program where a frog ate something that didn’t agree with it.[/li][li]\*Newt inserted in the front, other end corked with a burning candle, while in suspension bondage. Close-up of the newt struggling to freedom.[/li][li]\*Baby eels put in the anus of a girl in bondage. They’re later expelled, a la the feces expulsion listed above. The other girl, who inserted them with the help of a funnel, comments on the expulsion process.[/li][li]\*Two guys, one small and skinny, one that reminded me of Odd Job from the Bond films, tear off a girl’s clothes and throw a bag of really liquid shit at her. Then Odd Job repeatedly knocks the besmeared (and hysterically crying) girl down with his belly.[/ul][/li] \*Bonus points if you guessed that these were Japanese porn. ---
**Author:** ![Licentious\_Ectomorph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/5e9695/32.png) [@Licentious\_Ectomorph](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Licentious_Ectomorph)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2005, 12:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/71 "2005-05-10T12:41:02Z")
> [@Art Vandelay](#): > > My own fetishes tend to be run of the mill - bondage & discipline, S&M, leather. I have an especial kink for cowboys, the grittier & dirtier the better. I’m usually the bottom ‘slave’. Or at least was in the past, haven’t ‘played’ for some time. (Not that I’m not into it anymore, mind you, just haven’t had found the right new master!) How’re YOU doin’? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2005, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/72 "2005-05-10T13:32:58Z")
> [@Sleel](#): > > [li]\*Barfing. I swear I am not making this up. The girl made herself puke into the tub–that her friend was sitting in–scooped up some floaty bits, and ate them again to the accolades of her companion. The girl could practically stick her arm down her throat. Reminded me of a Discovery Channel program where a frog ate something that didn’t agree with it.[/li] I’ve seen this one, much to my chagrin. It would almost make me barf in response…except that I \*hate \* throwing up. YUCK. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2005, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/73 "2005-05-10T16:40:28Z")
> [@The Weird One](#): > > If you think that’s hard, try finding a straight femme guy! Oo, I hope my BF never finds this thread . . … ::smiles and glances demurely in _The Weird One’s_ direction:: ::remembers the last time he commuted to work in a skirt:: 😉 > [@matt\_mcl (to The Weird One)](#): > > Are you a guy? Please tell me you’re a guy. Heh… I keep thinking, _a la_ **[Tales of the City](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0106148/)**, that we should go bar-hopping together some day…must be some place that has both butch fellows into effeminate guys and butch wimmins into effeminate guys… ---
**Author:** ![glilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/48db29/32.png) [@glilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glilly)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/74 "2005-07-22T03:45:47Z")
> [@The Weird One](#): > > I’m just generally kinky, without any particular fetish. Well . . . a fondness for men in skirts, but that’s just an extension of my preference for effeminate men, which is an extension of my dominant tendancies. > [@The Weird One](#): > > If you think that’s hard, try finding a straight femme guy! Oo, I hope my BF never finds this thread . . … Wow, that sounds like an ex-girlfriend of mine! Ah, good times were had by all. Not enough women appreciate straight femme guys. ---
**Author:** ![glilly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/48db29/32.png) [@glilly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glilly)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/75 "2005-07-22T03:48:40Z")
Oh. I once again brought life back to a dead thread to say something embarrassing. “Why, yes, I do enjoy wearing skirts for my girlfriends!” Never…mix…searches…with…new…threads… ---
**Author:** ![Amazon\_Floozy\_Goddess](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/779978/32.png) [@Amazon\_Floozy\_Goddess](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Amazon_Floozy_Goddess)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/76 "2005-07-22T05:05:52Z")
Guys wearing motorcycle helmets turn me on big time. Like the sleek, black, shiny full-face helmets. It doesn’t matter if he looks like an ogre underneath it. He’s damn hot in that _helmet._ And the thought of shaggin’ a guy who’s wearing a motorcycle helmet at the same time? WhooOOOOooooOOoooOOO Nellie!!! 😃 I don’t know why this is a turn-on for me, but hey…guess it’s tame compared to some. ---
**Author:** ![Tamryne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3e96dc/32.png) [@Tamryne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamryne)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 5:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/77 "2005-07-22T05:47:32Z")
Jeeze, and I thought that my love of japanese rope bondage was strange… Of course, having a hot japanese boy tying the ropes would just be the icing on the cake! ---
**Author:** ![Don\_Draper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b2d939/32.png) [@Don\_Draper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_Draper)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/78 "2005-07-22T17:44:00Z")
> [@Licentious Ectomorph](#): > > How’re YOU doin’? 😉 Not bad, all things considered. Thanks for asking! And _you?_😉 [completely off topic]Funny, but I completely forgot about this thread after it first faded, and thought it was a new thread on the same topic (rather than a ressurected thread) when I opened it. I was a little surprised to see a post with my user name on it, then it finally hit me… [/completely off topic] ---
**Author:** ![JohnBckWLD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d6d6ee/32.png) [@JohnBckWLD](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnBckWLD)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/79 "2005-07-22T17:59:14Z")
> [@kimera](#): > > I actually know a girl who is big into death and probably would enjoy being killed during sex. She always takes pictures of herself in ‘death poses’… You know [Cindy](http://www.cindysherman.com/art.shtml) [Sherman](http://imdb.com/title/tt0119819/)? Tell her David & Ozzy said ‘hi’ ---
**Author:** ![JohnBckWLD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d6d6ee/32.png) [@JohnBckWLD](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnBckWLD)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2005, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233/80 "2005-07-22T18:02:23Z")
Can someone with better search skills or tools provide me with the name of a fetish that entails placing one’s member in a glass jar with stinging wasps or bees, riling them up and and getting stung to the point of nearly attaining a priapism? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fetish/302233.md?page=5)