Well, here’s the thing.
From what I understand, your problem with the church is not one of doctrine, but of the moral authority possessed by the church. In your view, from what I read, the RCC no longer can, in your view, speak to you regarding moral matters.
That puts you in quite a pickle. Fear not, for there is a (semi)answer! Though the Roman rite of the church is overwhelmingly dominant, there are quite a few different Eastern Catholic Churches, which, though owing allegiance to Rome and doctrinally equal, have a very different tradition to them, a seperate Patriarch, and a overall different feel to them than to the RCC. Check to see if any are in your area. That being said, there are some other Western Rites too, but I doubt that you will find any at all in the US.
If the main issue is the Child molestation issue, you will have some problems. Unfortunately, molestation is a serious problem in every aspect of modern life. It is pervasive, and not unique to Priests. Doctors, teachers, lawyers, all have within their ranks those most evil of criminals, the abusers. Very unfortunately, Protestants are no different. There were, just a while ago, a couple of cases of molestations by Protestant pastors in my general area. I would gather (though I have no study to confirm this, and in fact, I doubt one exists) that the percentages of child molestations by Protestant reverends, Catholic priests, doctors, laywers, teachers, are all more or less the same. Now, what seperates Protestants and catholics in most cases is a monolithic central entity, a binding force. If a Priest commits an act, it is, rightly so, a problem of the larger church. If a reverend commits an act of molestation, it is much more (and again rightly so) to be seen as the problem of that particular church, and not all Protestants at large. Combine the place of catholicism as somewhat on the fringe of American society, and you get a great deal of (deserved) media attention. This attention, though in the short term harmful to the curches reputation, is in fact instrumental in the increased awareess of the public and the halting of continued abuses. We have all seen those dozens of priests being suspended and charged and placed under scrutiny. All of this would not have happened had the media not raised an (albeit rather exaggerated) awareness concerning the situation.
Unfortunately, in most, if not all, Protestant churches, this just won’t happen. Because of their decentralized nature and independence (as well as, to a much smaller degree, their higher pace in American society), a suitable media wave and public outcry could never build up to wash away the molesters from the pulpits. While a case or two will surface in isolated instances often enough, the (awful) fact of the matter is that a Protestant preacher who molests has a much higher (if the recent actons brought on by the church are any indication) liklihood of never being caught than a Catholic Priest. This does not change the fact that abuse is still happening, and it leaves you (as well as us all) in between a rock and a hard place. Because in the end, if anyone is morally below another, how can they speak to them about morals?
Now, a more in-depth analysis of your problem (if I am off base, I am sorry): Now, it seems to me, that though you may not know it, you deeply love the church, and its teachings. It was, at some point, your standard. Your justification. And now, in your eyes, it has betrayed you. You have found a taint in what you believed perfection, and that has deeply shocked you. This is hurting you more than most Catholics, and you wonder how they can stand it, how they can worship in a church. Perhaps they have, in their faith, tossed the corruption to the wayside. Perhaps they just don’t care, they go to Mass out of habit, or whatnot. Yet you cannot bring youself to do this. That is why, to give yourself any happiness, you must fight. I realize you rejected this proposition, but reconsider it. You NEED this. Make it a part of your life to save that which you love, for it is worth saving. Your love makes it worth saving. The alternative is to go through life with a missing piece of yourself, that cannot be fullfilled. I am sorry to say this, but if you go to any other church, chances are you will never be truly happy again. Of course, I might be wrong about all this, and you are welcome to try another church if you wish. But from what I see in you, you are a Catholic at heart, and that cannot be changed.
I have spoken with spouses of molestation victims and the victims themselves, and they have confirmed the phenomena. It is something so tortured that I can barely comprehend it, which is why I salute your faith, and mourn your soul. May you somehow, some way, find peace and happiness.
PS. If I in any way was offensive, factually incorrect, or misrepresnting I apologize and will alter my statements to better reflect my thoughts, and more importantly, the truth.