# Finding out a friend from high school now has her own Porn Site

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 28, 2002, 5:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204 "2002-05-28T17:19:22Z")\
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**Author:** ![SweetLilKitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@SweetLilKitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SweetLilKitty)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/1 "2002-05-28T17:19:22Z")

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We learned about it yesterday, but didn’t really believe it. The girl, whose site it was supposed to be, in high school was a Christian who had very strong beliefs and morals. She made it clear to people who were known to have sex that she was disappointed in them. Hell, at one point she had asked me to go to church with her and to work with her at a bible camp. But, that was three years ago, and well, a lot can happen in three years.

After we got the news we went to the nearest computer to check it out, if I wasn’t sitting I would have fell, because it was her. She had her own lesbian porn site, where she was the main “model”. We started to laugh hysterically. How the hell could this have happened? Of all the people I graduated with, she wasn’t the one anyone would have expected to see naked in the shower with two other chicks. It just floored us. To double check we grabbed the nearest yearbook and compared pictures. Now we had proof there is no way that it wasn’t her.

I just find it amazing what can happen to people, three years doesn’t seem like a long time, but it sure can change a person. Needless to say, she is now the butt of our jokes and we still laugh at the mere thought of it… I mean… wow, I’m speechless.

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**Author:** ![pezpunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@pezpunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pezpunk)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/2 "2002-05-28T17:27:25Z")

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That is pretty crazy! I always wonder if anyone I knew now works in porn. You should email her and say hello.

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**Author:** ![Estilicon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/848f3c/32.png) [@Estilicon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Estilicon)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/3 "2002-05-28T17:38:09Z")

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Aren’t you forgetting something pal… LINK!!!

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**Author:** ![Spritle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@Spritle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spritle)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/4 "2002-05-28T17:40:23Z")

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Of course, to be sure, you should e-mail a .jpg or her high school pic and the url of her porn site to me. 🙂

I will act as an **impartial** judge to determine if it is, in fact, the same person. You’re too close.

Spritle, who is always willing to be of service.

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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/5 "2002-05-28T17:40:51Z")

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Yeah, yeah, yeah. Blah blah blah… you left out the most important part. Is she **hot** and that about the other grrlz!? Are they **hot**! What’s the link? Inquiring minds want to know!

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**Author:** ![Kricket](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f14d63/32.png) [@Kricket](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kricket)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/6 "2002-05-28T17:42:39Z")

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Damn for a minute I thought I was busted!

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**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/7 "2002-05-28T17:44:45Z")

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I know what you mean!

Well, sorta.

This total and complete bitch who I went to high school with was really the least popular person in our school. A few months ago, we discovered that she is apparently working in the online porn industry. We’re not sure doing what, and we haven’t seen her site, but the gossip spread like wildfire!

A few weeks ago, she showed up in the bar where my friends hang out. She has a casual acquainttance with some of my friends, so she hung out for a bit to make small talk. My boyfriend noticed her, and pulled aside a female friend of ours, M.

“M,” he said, “are you feeling bitchy today?”  
“Hmm… yep!” she replied.  
“That girl over there is a total bitch, and she works in internet porn. Go have fun!”

So M walked over, and said: “Hey, you look familiar. OH! That’s where I know you from! My ex-boyfriend used to love your site! You could use a little work on your moaning technique, though.”

Priceless.

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**Author:** ![Neptune](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@Neptune](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Neptune)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/8 "2002-05-28T17:48:46Z")

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She invited you to Bible camp? And you didn’t go?  
Bible camp is wild.  
I know more than one girl who came back from B-camp pregnant.

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**Author:** ![Daoloth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/82dd89/32.png) [@Daoloth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daoloth)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/9 "2002-05-28T19:08:04Z")

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Neptune- …You’re not serious, are you? 🙂

And SweetLilKitty- e-mail a link to me, please? Curious minds must know.

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**Author:** ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/10 "2002-05-28T19:18:02Z")

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“My blood runs cold  
My memory has just been sold . . .”

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**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/11 "2002-05-28T19:26:04Z")

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About four years ago, I met this younger guy online. Anyway, we’d chat all the time. He had plans to come to Montreal with some friends. He did, and stayed with me one night (yadda yadda yadda).

A couple of years later, I saw him doing live sex on the web.

Somehow I wasn’t surprised.

- s.e.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/12 "2002-05-28T20:22:26Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Estilicon \*  
> \*\*Aren’t you forgetting something pal… LINK!!! \*\*

The SDMB doesn’t allow links to porn, remember.

But **Kitty** , add me to the list of those who’d like the URL in their email. 🙂

And **Chuck** , you beat me to it, durnitall!

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**Author:** ![Sengkelat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@Sengkelat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sengkelat)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/13 "2002-05-28T21:15:42Z")

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Perhaps she was so anti-sex because the thought of doing a guy seemed disgusting. Once she realized that her disgust was just for het sex, and not sex itself, it was lesbian shower scenes forevermore.

One of my wife’s friends, who I’d never met, was someone who did web porn for a living. When Mrs. Seng mentioned the site, it turned out to be one I’d been perusing that week, so there was no way of choosing not to look at her pictures. It was a little awkward finally meeting her and trying to make polite small talk, especially when she apologized for being late because she had to work overtime.

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**Author:** ![SweetLilKitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@SweetLilKitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SweetLilKitty)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/14 "2002-05-28T22:52:46Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by RTFirefly \*  
> \*\*The SDMB doesn’t allow links to porn, remember.
> 
> But **Kitty** , add me to the list of those who’d like the URL in their email. 🙂
> 
> And **Chuck** , you beat me to it, durnitall! \*\*

Guys, if you would really like the link, my email is in my profile. Feel free to drop me a line. 😃

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**Author:** ![TeaElle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@TeaElle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TeaElle)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/15 "2002-05-28T23:02:23Z")

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The little video store that Mr. tlw and I used to frequent in our old neighborhood had adult videos in a corner, not really separated from the rest of the store except by virtue of the shelves being pulled around on themselves to form a square. If you were looking at the foreign films, however, you could see one rack of the adult vids pretty easily.

One night, while searching for _Raise the Red Lantern_ I noticed something in the adult section, out of the corner of my eye, that I just had to investigate. It was a video of a woman being, uh, used by fifty guys – she had been in my class in law school, and had sat next to me in Professional Responsibility. There was no question that it was her; she actually uses her real name in her “adult film” work. Her parents must be so proud!

The most memorable thing about her was the way that she dressed – at first glance, all was normal, but on second glance, it became clear that she was rather skanky. Pants slightly too tight, blouses open one button too low, bras rarely in evidence. Mr. tlw once remarked that she was probably in law school so that she could represent herself if she got busted on a street corner – when I showed him the video, he immediately remembered that comment, and said “A ha, she wasn’t worried about a bust, she wanted to know how to negotiate the best contract possible for ----ing 50 guys!”

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**Author:** ![sidle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ee59a6/32.png) [@sidle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sidle)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/16 "2002-05-28T23:37:44Z")

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_I was shakin in my shoes  
whenever she flashed those baby blues_

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**Author:** ![Daoloth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/82dd89/32.png) [@Daoloth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daoloth)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/17 "2002-05-28T23:43:18Z")

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I think the girl in question is cute (was given link). It’s easier to imagine her as a devout Christian than a porno webmistress, though.

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**Author:** ![The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/74df32/32.png) [@The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Devil_s_Grandmother)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2002, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/18 "2002-05-28T23:58:35Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Daoloth \*  
> \*\*Neptune- …You’re not serious, are you? 🙂  
> \*\*

He might be serious, I know when I was in high school the rule of thumb was: the more conservative the church, the wilder the camp. I don’t know anybody who came home pregnant, but I know several people who claimed to have bought drugs at church camp. From my own experience, there was certainly a lot of necking in the woods.

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**Author:** ![Dragonblink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b9bd4f/32.png) [@Dragonblink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragonblink)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2002, 12:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/19 "2002-05-29T00:27:06Z")

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A girl I knew in high school now has a porn site with her real name as the domain name. I’m not terribly surprised – she was one of the few high-school age girls I’ve ever seen who already had fake tits and a nose job. From what I’ve heard, the site is extremely popular in some parts of the world.

That, and it’s one of the best-designed websites I’ve ever visited. The colors mesh, the transitions work, the design is harmonious … brings a tear to the eye.

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**Author:** ![Tranquilis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tranquilis/32/3639_2.png) [@Tranquilis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tranquilis)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2002, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/finding-out-a-friend-from-high-school-now-has-her-own-porn-site/111204/20 "2002-05-29T00:31:31Z")

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Yeah, I know the “huh…?” feeling: A friend of an old girlfriend showed-up as a Playboy Playmate. Ran accross her in town, and it was a little awkward to talk to her for a bit, until I remembered that she was just another girl, albeit a damn cute one.

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