# First date question: a poll

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-date-question-a-poll/377674>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 24, 2006, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-date-question-a-poll/377674 "2006-10-24T04:22:58Z")\
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**Author:** ![SlowMindThinking](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dc4da7/32.png) [@SlowMindThinking](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SlowMindThinking)\
**Post date:** [October 24, 2006, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-date-question-a-poll/377674/21 "2006-10-24T19:29:59Z")

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[QUOTE=Nava]  
Either that or he’s a gringo…

Both in Miami and in Philly, I had several series of dates with guys who went from not-even-touching-me to wanting to fuck or asking for a BJ. All of them were as gringo as it gets.

I swear if I’m ever over there again and anybody wants to introduce me to whomever, I’m refusing dates with anybody who can’t show at least a 12.5% non-northern-european ancestry :dubious: And if wanting to be kissed before getting horizontal makes me a racist, so be it!  
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Now don’t give up on us male gringos. It has been a long time since I went out on a first date (geezus, over 24 years!), but I don’t recall any guy, gringo or not, who thought they could go from no contact to horizontal contact.

Of course, maybe times have changed? But if so, I doubt it is just gringos.

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