# First Lesbian Experience... **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 28, 2003, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094 "2003-05-28T19:52:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Hermione\_Granger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Hermione\_Granger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hermione_Granger)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/1 "2003-05-28T19:52:37Z")
I had my first lesbian experience on Memorial Day. All I have to say is… Why did I wait so long ?!? ---
**Author:** ![Troy\_McClure\_SF](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/troy_mcclure_sf/32/4150_2.png) [@Troy\_McClure\_SF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troy_McClure_SF)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/2 "2003-05-28T19:55:44Z")
You are about to become the most popular poster on the boards. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![UnwrittenNocturne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/6de8d8/32.png) [@UnwrittenNocturne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UnwrittenNocturne)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/3 "2003-05-28T19:57:32Z")
Only if there were details methinks 😃 Congratulations on your new self-discovery ---
**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/4 "2003-05-28T20:17:16Z")
Oh darn—I thought we were supposed to post about our first lesbian experience here… ---
**Author:** ![zev\_steinhardt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/97f17d/32.png) [@zev\_steinhardt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zev_steinhardt)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/5 "2003-05-28T20:18:35Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Hermione Granger \* > \*\*I had my first lesbian experience on Memorial Day. > \*\* So, who was it with? Cho? 🙂 Zev Steinhardt ---
**Author:** ![Captain\_Lance\_Murdoch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Captain\_Lance\_Murdoch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Captain_Lance_Murdoch)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/6 "2003-05-28T20:23:01Z")
Come on, I’m only on the second Harry Potter book! Now you spoiled it for me. ---
**Author:** ![Tomcat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Tomcat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tomcat)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/7 "2003-05-28T20:25:16Z")
I don’t know, maybe we should discuss this at length… How many hetero partners have you had? Can you describe those experiences in detail? Extreme detail? What was your first Homo experience like? Can you describe that experience in detail? **Extreme detail?** Nah, just jokin’. Glad it was good for you. Wifecat and I had a good weekend ourselves. Good sex is good no matter what, eh? -Tcat ---
**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/8 "2003-05-28T20:28:44Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Dolores Claiborne \* > \*\*Oh darn—I thought we were supposed to post about our first lesbian experience here… \*\* Feel free! Don’t mind us! Really! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ace22](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f05b48/32.png) [@ace22](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ace22)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/9 "2003-05-28T20:35:53Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by rogzilla \* > \*\*Come on, I’m only on the second Harry Potter book! Now you spoiled it for me. \*\* Come on, you _had_ to be expecting it would happen eventually… :rolleyes: I wish my first post had been that attention grabbing… ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/10 "2003-05-28T20:44:12Z")
I had my first lesbian experience in college. I was in the cereal aisle, trying to decide between Just Right and Corn Flakes, and a young woman approached me, asking if I knew where the Wheatabix were. “Right over there,” I said, pointing in the direction of the Wheatabix. “Thanks,” she said, and put a box in her cart. Later, when I was in line, I noticed her in another line, holding hands with another young woman. “Cute couple,” I thought to myself. Then I went home and ate some cereal. ---
**Author:** ![Tiram](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/c37758/32.png) [@Tiram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tiram)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/11 "2003-05-28T21:18:37Z")
Whey! Congrats, Hermione! Hope it won’t be your last;) ---
**Author:** ![superstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@superstar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/superstar)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/12 "2003-05-28T21:28:54Z")
Yep, this should prove to be a popular thread! Mine was about 7 years ago, then I waited 6 years before I did it again, and now I’m a fully fledged Lesbian! I needed some time to develop some courage. Mine was with my boss! We did it 2 or 3 times over 3 months and then she freaked out and went cold. I was quite confused. I thought about her for years before I met my true love. The first experience was scary, because although people say women know women … I didn’t know what to do. But basically it was great! Sorry no details!!! ---
**Author:** ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/13 "2003-05-28T21:34:27Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Ethilrist \* > \*\*Feel free! Don’t mind us! Really! 🙂 \*\* I’ve e-mailed Coldfire to get permission…it’s pretty hot! ---
**Author:** ![Doomtrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/0ea827/32.png) [@Doomtrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doomtrain)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 10:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/14 "2003-05-28T22:25:29Z")
_carries a couch into the thread, Undercover-Brother style_ ---
**Author:** ![angelabaca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f05b48/32.png) [@angelabaca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/angelabaca)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/15 "2003-05-28T22:54:33Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Giraffe \* > **a young woman approached me, asking if I knew where the Wheatabix were.** I prefer Crispix. ---
**Author:** ![angelabaca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f05b48/32.png) [@angelabaca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/angelabaca)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/16 "2003-05-28T22:56:27Z")
Honsetly, the thing preventing me from persuing my “First Lesbian Experience” is that I won’t know what to do. ---
**Author:** ![dave316](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/76d3ee/32.png) [@dave316](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dave316)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2003, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/17 "2003-05-28T23:10:16Z")
for a tiny country lesbos sure gets a lot a visitors ---
**Author:** ![Raygun99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Raygun99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Raygun99)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/18 "2003-05-29T00:02:27Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by angelabaca \* > \*\*Honsetly, the thing preventing me from persuing my “First Lesbian Experience” is that I won’t know what to do. \*\* This sounds like a cry for help if ever I heard one. Surely there must be one helpful lesbian out there willing to show her the ropes? There are ropes, aren’t there? ---
**Author:** ![voguevixen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5ac83/32.png) [@voguevixen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/voguevixen)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 1:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/19 "2003-05-29T01:12:13Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by superstar \* > \*\* > The first experience was scary, because although people say women know women … I didn’t know what to do. > \*\* That was my experience. My first lesbian encounter taught me 1) that I’m really bad at it and 2) much sympathy for straight guys. On the bright side it was with someone really, really hot. Way hotter than I could do guy-wise. ---
**Author:** ![Ben\_Hicks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbce88/32.png) [@Ben\_Hicks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ben_Hicks)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/20 "2003-05-29T01:23:44Z")
I think I’ll be bookmarking this one [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094.md?page=2)