# First Lesbian Experience... **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 28, 2003, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094 "2003-05-28T19:52:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Reeder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Reeder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reeder)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/21 "2003-05-29T01:58:15Z")
One good thing…It doubles your chance for a date on saturday night…🙂 ---
**Author:** ![typhoon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ed8c4c/32.png) [@typhoon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/typhoon)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/22 "2003-05-29T02:00:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by angelabaca \* > \*\*Honsetly, the thing preventing me from persuing my “First Lesbian Experience” is that I won’t know what to do. \*\* First, invite some guys to watch. ---
**Author:** ![Rabid\_Squirrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Rabid\_Squirrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rabid_Squirrel)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/23 "2003-05-29T02:17:09Z")
Personally, I blame spam. The first thing that happend when I saw “Lesbian” and “first time” together in th ethread title I immediately hit delete. ---
**Author:** ![moi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@moi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moi)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/24 "2003-05-29T02:25:03Z")
_First, invite some guys to watch._ Whatever. Because you would so give that advice to any other “virgin” asking for advice. (Sorry, this is truly a pet peeve of mine. Lesbians don’t do each other for the pleasure of straight guys. Way to make someone else’s intimacy all about you, fellah.) Anyway…! **Angelabaca** , half the fun–really–is the exploration and learning someone else’s body. Yes, there’s the general vibe that “women know what women want,” but really, it’s not about knowing what any particular group of people want…it’s about knowing what your partner wants. Which you discover through some communication and some more trial and error. Just make sure you’re with someone you’re comfy with. 🙂 And, **Hermione** , congrats. 🙂 I’m glad you and your someone special had a good time. Welcome to the club. ---
**Author:** ![moi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@moi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/moi)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/25 "2003-05-29T02:32:59Z")
_First, invite some guys to watch._ Whatever. Because you would so give that advice to any other “virgin” asking for advice. (Sorry, this is truly a pet peeve of mine. Lesbians don’t do each other for the pleasure of straight guys. Way to make someone else’s intimacy all about you, fellah.) Anyway…! **Angelabaca** , half the fun–really–is the exploration and learning someone else’s body. Yes, there’s the general vibe that “women know what women want,” but really, it’s not about knowing what any particular group of people want…it’s about knowing what your partner wants. Which you discover through some communication and some more trial and error. Just make sure you’re with someone you’re comfy with. 🙂 And, **Hermione** , congrats. 🙂 I’m glad you and your someone special had a good time. Welcome to the club. ---
**Author:** ![t-keela](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a3d4f5/32.png) [@t-keela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/t-keela)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/26 "2003-05-29T02:51:47Z")
Damn, I wish now that I could have a lesbian relationship…there’s just one problem, and I’m afraid it’s too big to be overlooked…😃 ---
**Author:** ![furt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/439d5e/32.png) [@furt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/furt)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/27 "2003-05-29T04:34:42Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by moi \* > \*\* Lesbians don’t do each other for the pleasure of straight guys. Nice try, but I’ve seen way too many porn movies to believe that. ---
**Author:** ![furt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/439d5e/32.png) [@furt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/furt)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/28 "2003-05-29T04:41:00Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by moi \* > \*\* Lesbians don’t do each other for the pleasure of straight guys. Nice try, but I’ve seen way too many porn movies to believe that. ---
**Author:** ![Lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@Lizard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lizard)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/29 "2003-05-29T05:32:00Z")
Was it a little salty? ---
**Author:** ![Lizard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@Lizard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lizard)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/30 "2003-05-29T05:34:26Z")
**Giraffe** , you’re a riot. 😃 I’ve wanted to try lesbianism for a long time, but my penis has always got in the way. ---
**Author:** ![Pixiesnix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/898d66/32.png) [@Pixiesnix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixiesnix)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/31 "2003-05-29T05:38:11Z")
So, **Hermione** , how _you_ doin’? 😉 Note: I am not a lesbian, but heck, I was never one to turn down an untried experience. 🙂 > [@](#): > > Was it a little salty? I hate to ask this, but…don’t you know? ---
**Author:** ![occ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8c91f0/32.png) [@occ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/occ)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/32 "2003-05-29T05:59:16Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by moi \* > Lesbians don’t do each other for the pleasure of straight guys. Way to make someone else’s intimacy all about you, fellah.) Though, ironically, you were the one who hijacked a goodnatured quip into a soapbox. ---
**Author:** ![occ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8c91f0/32.png) [@occ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/occ)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/33 "2003-05-29T06:01:18Z")
Oh, and I just noticed my somewhat cold post may have detracted from the air of this thread. Beg pardon. Keep the stories coming! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SlickRoenick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e68b1a/32.png) [@SlickRoenick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SlickRoenick)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 7:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/34 "2003-05-29T07:54:47Z")
Was it with Prof. McGonagall? ---
**Author:** ![welby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d78d45/32.png) [@welby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/welby)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 11:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/35 "2003-05-29T11:51:11Z")
Oh man. Prof. McGonagall/Granger visuals. Too…Much…must…gettobathroomnow! ---
**Author:** ![LolaCocaCola](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7cd45c/32.png) [@LolaCocaCola](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LolaCocaCola)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 11:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/36 "2003-05-29T11:56:34Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by t-keela \* > \*\*and I’m afraid it’s too big to be overlooked…😃 \*\* How _YOU_ doin’, **T-keela**?! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![t-keela](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a3d4f5/32.png) [@t-keela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/t-keela)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/37 "2003-05-29T17:22:42Z")
Hey sexy 😉 …yum [http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=3439528#post3439528](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&postid=3439528#post3439528) ---
**Author:** ![Frank\_2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/8c91f0/32.png) [@Frank\_2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank_2)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/38 "2003-05-29T17:34:39Z")
I would have a very confusing first lesbian/gay experience. My engineer inner voice says that 2 male connectors will not work. You need a female in the middle. ---
**Author:** ![angelabaca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f05b48/32.png) [@angelabaca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/angelabaca)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 6:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/39 "2003-05-29T18:13:39Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Frank #2 \* > \*\*My engineer inner voice says that 2 male connectors will not work. You need a female in the middle. \*\* I sent that one to the engineering department. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Hermione\_Granger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Hermione\_Granger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hermione_Granger)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2003, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094/40 "2003-05-29T18:21:04Z")
Well I have to say that this experience was not totally unexpected. I was at a small get together with a bunch of friends and yes, alcohol was there too. As the night progressed alot of the girls were flirty and goofy off in the pool. There was one girl that I have known gor a long time, I also knew she went both ways. It seemed intentional, but we kept hooking up throughout the night. Finally about 12:30 she caught me on the front porch of the house, grabbed my hand, we jumped in her beamer, went to her condo, and I let her have her way with me. mmm… nothing like pressing the flesh… if you know what I mean… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-lesbian-experience/178094.md?page=3)