# First Orgasm **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [October 10, 2012, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361 "2012-10-10T21:48:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![LabRat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/898d66/32.png) [@LabRat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LabRat)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/81 "2012-10-16T00:40:09Z")
> [@Bricker](#): > > The thing is… while there’s no shortage of sharing and oversharing here, neither is it complete anonymity; some of us have been here more than a decade and may feel constrained about sharing too prurient a revelation here, for fear of damaging (or at least changing) our image here. > > Lord knows I am, because otherwise I’d tell the story of looking at Honey West and gettin’ that feelin’… You know what? You’re right. I have the benefit of relative anonymity and am wrong to judge. I’ve lurked here on and off since the '80s and don’t share the same risks. I’m sorry to have overstepped. When I got the “whacking pervert” challenge earlier, it hurt. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/82 "2012-10-16T02:27:10Z")
> [@LabRat](#): > > laughed. my. ass. OFF! srsly, doesn’t work for anyone at 10. What doesn’t? 10 year olds can certainly have orgasms. ---
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/83 "2012-10-16T12:35:57Z")
> [@LabRat](#): > > _snerk_ okay, full disclosure. I’ve seen the movies and TV shows but have never gotten the mechanics of this. What’s the point and how does that work? I was once horny enough to try to screw the spot between my mattress and box spring (the beaded edge of the mattress HURTS). What the hell can a sock do? You’re asking the wrong party. I don’t use socks, except on formal occasions. ---
**Author:** ![Drain\_Bead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47774/32.png) [@Drain\_Bead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drain_Bead)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/84 "2012-10-16T17:53:56Z")
> [@AHunter3](#): > > What doesn’t? > > 10 year olds can certainly have orgasms. Especially 10-year-old girls. ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/85 "2012-10-16T18:48:37Z")
> [@Drain\_Bead](#): > > Especially 10-year-old girls. Yeah, I was 10. Maybe six months after I started my period. This is going to sound very odd, but the very first time I ever had any kind of sexual feeling, I was just sitting at my desk dropping a paperclip onto the desk top. And for some reason, don’t ask me why, that metallic sound turned me on. Never happened before or since. But most of what I learned was through books. I had some V.C. Andrews books with very sleazy scenes, and I read my mother’s copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves while she was out of the house (for those men who may not be familiar, Our Bodies, Ourselves was a feminist hippie women’s sexuality book published I believe in the 1970s. They have diagrams of vaginas and anecdotes from women and all kinds of informative stuff. They keep updating it and I hope when my future female child is at that age, I’ll be able to point her in that direction, because it’s an excellent introduction to sexuality and women’s issues in general.) I wrote stories myself and so the books and my own writing drove my fantasies. Still do, I guess. About a year later I became a born-again fundamentalist Christian and continued to do all these things, of course. Just with a tremendous amount of guilt. This was 1993. ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/86 "2012-10-16T19:23:22Z")
> [@LabRat](#): > > _snerk_ okay, full disclosure. I’ve seen the movies and TV shows but have never gotten the mechanics of this. What’s the point and how does that work? I was once horny enough to try to screw the spot between my mattress and box spring (the beaded edge of the mattress HURTS). What the hell can a sock do? 1. Get sock and put wanker in it. Wank. 2. ? 3. profit!\* \*If you’re going to the sperm bank. ---
**Author:** ![KRC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/45deac/32.png) [@KRC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KRC)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/87 "2012-10-16T20:25:06Z")
First orgasm? What is this board coming too? My boyfriend was a vacuum cleaner salesman and was very disappointed in my lack of responsiveness. But that whirring sound of the vacuum cleaner… ---
**Author:** ![perfectparanoia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a5b964/32.png) [@perfectparanoia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/perfectparanoia)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361/88 "2012-10-16T21:27:51Z")
I had my first orgasm when I was 20. I had been having sex for 6 years. One of my best friends at the time and I were both single and bummed out and somehow ended up in bed together. What that boy could do with his tongue! Never knew I was doing it wrong until that day. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/first-orgasm/637361.md?page=4)