# For the Doper Men - Blow jobs: good vs. bad

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 7, 2009, 12:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872 "2009-10-07T00:35:56Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872/101 "2009-10-09T14:52:07Z")

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> [@corkboard](#):
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> I’ll second this post, especially the bolded part. Rim play isn’t something we do often but is something we both really enjoy. We’ve been engaging in it for years and have yet to suffer any negative health effects.

Oh yeah.

I’ve had a couple of GFs who considered my anus an erogenous zone\*. I think they got a lot more out of it\*\* than I did (and I got a lot out of it). It’s nice, because it’s something that would never occur to me on my own.

\*Anyone else bothered by the term erogenous zone? “The erogenous zone is for loading and unloading only. There is no stopping in the pink zone.”

\*\*No, that’s not what I meant. But the jokes will write themselves.

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**Author:** ![The\_Tao\_s\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@The\_Tao\_s\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Tao_s_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872/102 "2009-10-09T15:37:26Z")

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> [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](#):
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> Deep throat.

Too bland. BJ’s need texture.

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872/103 "2009-10-09T16:16:20Z")

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> That doesn’t even make sense.😕

Try squinting harder.

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**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\
**Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 6:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/for-the-doper-men-blow-jobs-good-vs-bad/512872/104 "2009-10-09T18:25:11Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> I’ve had a couple of GFs who considered my anus an erogenous zone\*. I think they got a lot more out of it\*\* than I did (and I got a lot out of it). It’s nice, because it’s something that would never occur to me on my own.

Anal play still have the spice of being transgressive. As astounding as it is to this 49 year old, blowjobs have become such a normal and accepted practice that some young people don’t consider them “sex”. “We fooled around, but we didn’t have sex” - meaning that they engaged in oral sex. It’s baffling to me - if genitals are involved, it’s sex.

If blowjobs are no longer “sex”, and fucking is just “hooking up”, you have to ratchet it up a bit to actually do something to feel _naughty_.

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