jjimm, I too would happily join in a protest of treatment by the Slovakian government.
jarbabyj: What would be better: a broken heart, or a broken spirit?
As a disenfranchised Cherokee married to a Roma gent, my eyes have been opened in ways I never expected. Not only am I exposed to a culture I didn’t know existed outside of children’s books, but get to see how historical abuse long forgotten and dismissed actually do continue to exist.
I have read many a news story about the Roma, their treatment in various countries around the world and have come to a conclusion. These people are survivors without a voice, without a home, and without much hope.
Thier existance is heart-wrenching.
They are condemned to a life of struggle and misfortune by society. They are expected to embrace a proper lifestyle - settlement, cleanliness, education, success… Yet, at every turn they are denied the opportunity, even the very basic of needs (shelter, education, food), and shoved into the gutters like mangey dogs.
Reading about the treatment of my husbands people fills me with anger, frustration and overwhleming sadness. What is worse, however, is seeing the impact his heritage has on him, how he is condemned to live a life of solitude, fearful of claiming his identity, torn to pieces because he is unable to do a damned thing to help.
It angers me that in the age we are, having freed slaves, broken apartheid, and strive to rectify and save the remotest of cultures, that the Roma continue to be hunted, ostracised, forcifully sterilised, denied even the most basic of human rights.
It angers me that my husband cannot do a damned thing to help his people. He can attempt to educate others, battling the ignorance and centuries of stereotypical prejudices. But his voice is only one.
It frustrates me to read these reports and news articles knowing that there is not much that can be done to help these people. It frustrates me not knowing how to deal with the emotions raised by the treatment of the Roma. It frustrates me that there is little I can say or do for my husband, other than just be there, to help relieve his pain, frustration, anger and hatred towards the Gorgio.
It saddens me to no end knowing that the treatment of the Roma will continue to be degrading, destructive, and prejudicial. That these people are forced to fight for their existance daily against every attempt to erase their existance from the face of this Earth. It saddens me that there are so few voices willing and able to speak for the Roma. It saddens me that even the few voices they do have speaking out for them are not strong and full of hope. Even they know the life of the Roma hangs precariously in these ever troubled times.
What can be done for this struggling nation on the brink of extinction?
When will people see these people do not deserve the vilification they receive?
Where can these people go for safety, acceptance, hope?
Who will speak for the Roma?
Who is left to care?
I don’t know.
My heart aches…