free basing [Why do humans use base 10]

We need to distinguish between the concepts of “base of a number system” in general and the more specific “base of a positional number system”.

Yes, most Indo-European languages including classical Latin use a base-ten verbal number system, even though most of them for most of their history didn’t have the concept of place-value numbers. That is, they verbally represented numbers using multiples of powers of ten, but they had a unique and specific name for each power.

The form of a number like “one thousand one hundred and eleven” is base-ten but doesn’t imply place-value. Representing that number by saying or writing “one-one-one-one”, on the other hand, does imply place-value.

No, our positional number system is a consequence of one way we said numbers. And yes, that’s how the Romans said numbers.