This is simple a matter of skewed perspective. The only reason that such low friendly fire casualties (and they are extremely low, historically speaking) are even noticable at all is that we’ve conducted wars in a way so remarkable that the number of casualties inflicted by the enemy has been astoundingly low.
Because of the astoundingly low number of enemy casualties taken, because of the competance of our armies (I’m including both the US and British armies in that), it has created a historical oddity: friendly fire casualties exceeding those received from the enemy. That doesn’t mean that there’s more friendly fire than usual, or even that it’s significant, relatively. And it’s not - historically speaking, we probably received more friendly casualties from any single day’s artillery bombardments in WW2 than during this entire war.
However, without the proper perspective, one might assume that because the allied armies inflict more casualties on themselves and each other than the enemy inflicts on them, it must be because the bumbling, incompetant, trigger happy idiots. That seems to be the sentiment expressed here.
The flaw in this logic is that the actual number of friendly casualties is historically low, not a devastating menace as some seem to perceive, and it’s only because of astoundingly low enemy inflicted casualties.
To demonstrate the flaw in this logic, one could point out, as I’ve done, that the friendly fire casualties would seem less significant, and therefore the allied armies more competant, if they received more casualties from the enemy. Anyone who thinks it through should see that the fact that there are more friendly fire casualties than enemy inflicted casualties in itself means nothing, since one huge factor, the casualties received from the enemy, is totally unaffected by friendly fire. That can go up and down and hugely distort the ratio, without there actually being any difference whatsoever in the friendly fire department.
The OP expressed disdain, or however you want to put it, that friendly fire caused more casualties than enemy ones. That, in effect, sets up an analysis of ratio. I didn’t start the ratio analysis, I just showed the flawed logic inherent in it by plugging in arbitrary numbers.
Most likely, if we were receiving thousands of casualties from enemy fire, this OP wouldn’t exist - friendly fire casualties would seem irrelevant. And that’s my point - with no change in actual friendly fire deaths, they can go from seeming like a menace to being insignificant - it’s all in the skewed perspective. Anyone who thinks this through, using the logic I’ve discussed above, should be able to see that evaluating ratios is meaningless.
The number of friendly fire casualties may strike you as incompetant, and that’s fine. I don’t think so, because they’re extremely low, historically. And you can have valid logic and reasoning behind your opinion. But the OP’s logic of evaluating the ratio of friendly and enemy inflicted casualties to determine competance is invalid. That’s all I tried to say - I made no value judgements on the competance or incompetance of the armies involved, just the flaws in the logic of evaluating ratios.
I don’t think I can be much more clear than that… I think most of our argument stems from misconceptions that I’m trying to say stuff that I’m not - I’m merely criticizing the logic used in the OP, and making no greater comment on friendly fire - except to say that it’s always shitty.