# Friends don't let friends wear short sleeve shirts with a tie

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 18, 2011, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287 "2011-05-18T04:30:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![Foggy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/foggy/32/1082_2.png) [@Foggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Foggy)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/21 "2011-05-18T13:25:08Z")

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I hate ties.  
I hate long sleeve shirts, even more.

You are entitled to you opinion, I’m entitled to think its dumb and a really stupid way to judge people by.

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/22 "2011-05-18T13:37:46Z")

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> [@shiftless](#):
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> Good advice if you are heading for the runways of Paris. For the rest of us, I like to see a computer tech or an engineer in short sleeves and tie. Dressy enough to show he is professional but still able to do actual work. Next someone is going to try to tell us that pocket protectors aren’t cool. Sheesh.
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> And short sleeves UNDER a jacket? No, no, no. I mean, you’re wearing a jacket, what would be the point of wearing short sleeves? That is one of the only times short sleeves and a tie are wrong.

That’s all we need—more stereotypical IT dorks.

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**Author:** ![ChrispyNugget](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/77aa72/32.png) [@ChrispyNugget](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChrispyNugget)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/23 "2011-05-18T14:32:41Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> You can pry my ties from my cold, dead neck. I take pride in my ties.
> 
> Serious question: What about a long-sleeve shirt and a tie, sleeves rolled up?

I’m all about sensible work-fashion. Most ‘grown up’ businesses the corporate culture is slacks, dress shirt (long sleeve), no tie and always roll your sleeves up a notch or two. Sometime a tie is classy at work, I like that. But a big ‘no-no’ is a short sleeve dress shirt… adult men shouldn’t wear these (just like shorts).

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**Author:** ![BetsQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/fbc32d/32.png) [@BetsQ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BetsQ)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/24 "2011-05-18T14:40:13Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> Serious question: What about a long-sleeve shirt and a tie, sleeves rolled up?

Perfectly fine, _if_ the tie is also loosened.

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**Author:** ![kanicbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/5f8ce5/32.png) [@kanicbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kanicbird)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/25 "2011-05-18T14:50:53Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> You can pry my ties from my cold, dead neck. ?

Once your dead it’s OK to wear a tie 😃

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/26 "2011-05-18T14:53:29Z")

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Ties with short sleeves are great. It helps me identify the missionaries and Amway salesmen.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/27 "2011-05-18T14:56:14Z")

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Short sleeves, necktie. Hmmm. Sounds like an English teacher in Bangkok.

On the few occasions I’ve worn a tie here, it’s mostly been with a short-sleeved shirt, because they simply don’t make long-sleeved shirts here with sleeves my length. Or they didn’t; _now_, when I wear a tie maybe once a decade, there are a couple “Big & Tall” options, but even then it’s difficult to find long sleeves. The Thais just don’t believe humans could possibly have arms my length.

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**Author:** ![muldoonthief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muldoonthief/32/3188_2.png) [@muldoonthief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/muldoonthief)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/28 "2011-05-18T14:56:23Z")

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> [@Double\_Foolscap](#):
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> But Sipowicz does it!

If Detective Sipowicz jumped off a cliff, would you do that too?

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/29 "2011-05-18T14:58:52Z")

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> [@silenus](#):
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> Ties with short sleeves are great. It helps me identify the missionaries and Amway salesmen.

Oh yeah! Mormon missionaries. Forgot about them. Necktie, white short-sleeve shirt and bicycle helmet.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/30 "2011-05-18T15:12:55Z")

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> [@Cubsfan](#):
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> It’s never acceptable.
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> Ever.

Acceptable to whom?

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**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/31 "2011-05-18T15:16:20Z")

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What about [this guy](http://www.flickr.com/photos/gregadams/195349486/)?

For me personally, I agree with the OP.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/32 "2011-05-18T15:18:09Z")

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> [@BetsQ](#):
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> Perfectly fine, _if_ the tie is also loosened.

Fine, the sleeves are now down and buttoned.

Damn fashion Nazis. ☹

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/33 "2011-05-18T15:19:39Z")

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> [@Double\_Foolscap](#):
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> But Sipowicz does it!

With an ass like that, he can get away with almost anything.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/34 "2011-05-18T15:40:13Z")

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I know everyone is bothered by different things but this hardly pings on my radar. I like ties on a man, though.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/35 "2011-05-18T15:50:32Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> I know everyone is bothered by different things but this hardly pings on my radar. I like ties on a man, though.

Can I interest you in the Book of Mormon, ma’am?

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**Author:** ![Small\_Clanger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc348/32.png) [@Small\_Clanger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Small_Clanger)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/36 "2011-05-18T15:53:24Z")

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But Dilbert wears…

OK then.

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**Author:** ![Double\_Foolscap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/85e7bf/32.png) [@Double\_Foolscap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Double_Foolscap)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/37 "2011-05-18T16:13:57Z")

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> [@muldoonthief](#):
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> If Detective Sipowicz jumped off a cliff, would you do that too?

Awww, I wish I was Sipowicz…

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**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 9:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/38 "2011-05-18T21:01:33Z")

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I think I see my next strident Facebook “repost if you agree” status!

FTR, I agree about the ties.

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**Author:** ![Lightlystarched](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Lightlystarched](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lightlystarched)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 9:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/39 "2011-05-18T21:42:52Z")

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Agree with the OP 100%.

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**Author:** ![classyladyhp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b5ac83/32.png) [@classyladyhp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/classyladyhp)\
**Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/40 "2011-05-18T21:58:44Z")

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> [@Cubsfan](#):
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> It’s never acceptable.
> 
> Ever.
> 
> I don’t care how old you are.
> 
> I don’t care what profession you are in.
> 
> I don’t care how common it is in your office or what your coworkers wear.
> 
> I don’t care how nice the tie or shirt is.
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> Don’t care how hot it is.
> 
> Even in uniforms where it may be authorized (military). Just because it’s authorized doesn’t mean its a good choice.
> 
> Guys running around in short sleeve shirts with ties on look ridiculous and are almost impossible to take seriously. If I can’t trust you to make the most basic decisions when dressing yourself how can I trust your opinion on important topics in the workplace?
> 
> The old men running around out there doing it. Where are their families? Please. Help your elders.
> 
> (I think I may have forgotten the ONLY time it’s okay to wear a short sleeve shirt with at tie. That’s when you are wearing a jacket over the top so people can’t see the short sleeves but you want to keep a little cool. If you take the coat off you BETTER take off the tie too.)

Who the heck are you? The fashion police:rolleyes:

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