# Friends don't let friends wear short sleeve shirts with a tie

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 18, 2011, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287 "2011-05-18T04:30:38Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Munch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/munch/32/5281_2.png) [@Munch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Munch)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/41 "2011-05-19T01:10:58Z")

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I agree with the OP, with the sole exception being made for people making [movies about NASA in the 1960s](http://www.farthestreaches.com/images/syclinta.jpg).

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**Author:** ![gotpasswords](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@gotpasswords](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gotpasswords)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/42 "2011-05-19T03:49:06Z")

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[QUOTE=EvilTOJ]  
Here’s two good reasons to wear short sleeve shirts with ties.

1. You work at IBM. In 1955.

2. You’re in a movie called Falling Down.  
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3. You’re the manager at the local Radio Shack.

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**Author:** ![Lamar\_Mundane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/85f322/32.png) [@Lamar\_Mundane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lamar_Mundane)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/43 "2011-05-19T03:53:41Z")

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I agree with the OP.

Half of the male population of Washington, D.C. does not.

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**Author:** ![Koxinga](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/4af34b/32.png) [@Koxinga](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Koxinga)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 3:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/44 "2011-05-19T03:57:08Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> You can pry my ties from my cold, dead neck. I take pride in my ties.
> 
> Serious question: What about a long-sleeve shirt and a tie, sleeves rolled up?

You can roll that way if you happen to be [Professor Badass](http://motivateurself.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/professor-badass.jpg).

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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 3:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/45 "2011-05-19T03:58:59Z")

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> [@Cubsfan](#):
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> It’s never acceptable.
> 
> Ever.

Asinine proclamation. Really. What are you, fashion challenged? Don’t want to give up your dog eared circa 80’s copy of “Dressed For Success”?

A pressed short sleeve white or blue button down shirt with the right tie, maybe even a hand tied silk bowtie, can be a great look if you are in decent shape. If you are really thin or fat not so much, but if you have normal to athletic build there all kinds of way to make that combo rock.

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**Author:** ![Cunctator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/43a26b/32.png) [@Cunctator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cunctator)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/46 "2011-05-19T04:46:11Z")

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> [@Cubsfan](#):
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> It’s never acceptable.
> 
> Ever.

It was the standard summer school uniform when I was a child. And still is for most schools. Of course it’s acceptable.

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**Author:** ![Runs\_With\_Scissors](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/278dde/32.png) [@Runs\_With\_Scissors](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Runs_With_Scissors)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/47 "2011-05-19T04:54:01Z")

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Ties are so fucking ridiculous and serve no purpose to begin with…I can’t imagine it makes much difference.

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**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 6:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/48 "2011-05-19T06:46:59Z")

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[These guys](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Mission_Control_celebrates_successful_splashdown_of_Apollo_13.jpg) pull off that look just fine.

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**Author:** ![threemae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5f9b8f/32.png) [@threemae](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/threemae)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 6:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/49 "2011-05-19T06:56:07Z")

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The tie says, “you can take me seriously,” and the sleeves say," but I’m ready to party."

What’s to object to?

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**Author:** ![PlainJain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@PlainJain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PlainJain)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 7:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/50 "2011-05-19T07:12:32Z")

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> [@Cubsfan](#):
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> It’s never acceptable.
> 
> Ever.

You must be loads of fun at parties. Seriously, I don’t get people who care so much about what other people wear, what difference does it make. It’s just clothing. Of course it’s OK sometimes. Styles change, get over it. DJ made it look good [here](http://www.cinemovies.fr/images/data/photos/1467/hot-spot-1991-1467-1784203046.jpg), IMHO.

Lighten up Francis.

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**Author:** ![Ludovic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@Ludovic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludovic)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/51 "2011-05-19T12:55:17Z")

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> [@threemae](#):
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> The tie says, “you can take me seriously,” and the sleeves say," but I’m ready to party."
> 
> What’s to object to?

But ironically it would look pretty bad on a guy with a mullet.

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**Author:** ![Muffin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muffin/32/4341_2.png) [@Muffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muffin)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/52 "2011-05-19T13:03:20Z")

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> [@Ludovic](#):
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> But ironically it would look pretty bad on a guy with a mullet.

Anything looks bad on a guy with a mullet.

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**Author:** ![Cubsfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Cubsfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cubsfan)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/53 "2011-05-19T14:16:36Z")

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> [@astro](#):
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> Asinine proclamation. Really. What are you, fashion challenged? Don’t want to give up your dog eared circa 80’s copy of “Dressed For Success”?
> 
> A pressed short sleeve white or blue button down shirt with the right tie, maybe even a hand tied silk bowtie, can be a great look if you are in decent shape. If you are really thin or fat not so much, but if you have normal to athletic build there all kinds of way to make that combo rock.

I guess if hipster douchebag is the look you’re trying to achieve you’re right. Just don’t forget the buddy holly glasses and fauxhawk to finish the look.

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**Author:** ![cards](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecd19e/32.png) [@cards](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cards)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/54 "2011-05-19T18:51:36Z")

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Uh oh, looks like you’re swimming against the tide:

> **[Stylish Guys Steal Short Sleeves From Nerds](https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748703421204576331413096197244)**
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> Designer labels and retailers are attempting to revive the men's short-sleeve button-down shirt, transforming it from nerdy to chic.

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/55 "2011-05-19T18:59:47Z")

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> [@cards](#):
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> Uh oh, looks like you’re swimming against the tide:
> 
> [http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703421204576331413096197244.html?mod=WSJ\_hpp\_sections\_lifestyle](http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703421204576331413096197244.html?mod=WSJ_hpp_sections_lifestyle)

It appears that is about casual short sleeve button-ups. Not dress shirts. But I just looked at the picture.

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**Author:** ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/56 "2011-05-19T19:24:57Z")

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I’m not sure when you would ever have to wear a tie when you didn’t have to wear a jacket. For me, it’s either “suit and tie” (court) or Jeans and T-shirt (not court). There are a few occasions I have to (not really “have to” but am more comfortable) wearing a nicer shirt with my jeans, (or heaven forbid, khakis) but in those circumstances I don’t see the need for a tie. Nevertheless, I don’t care what other people wear and I wouldn’t tell someone not to do it. I don’t think it’s “unacceptable.”

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**Author:** ![SciFiSam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/47e85d/32.png) [@SciFiSam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SciFiSam)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/57 "2011-05-19T19:39:06Z")

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> [@Cunctator](#):
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> It was the standard summer school uniform when I was a child. And still is for most schools. Of course it’s acceptable.

It is here too. The ties are functional - they show what school the kid goes to (there are three secondary schools on our quite small road and a dozen others that the neighbourhood kids might go to), and within the school my daughter’s tie shows what year she’s in. They wear them quite loosely so they’re not counteracting the cooling effect of short sleeves either.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/58 "2011-05-19T21:13:32Z")

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Next you’ll be telling us a woman shouldn’t wear a party dress with combat boots. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Baal\_Houtham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/baal_houtham/32/13604_2.png) [@Baal\_Houtham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baal_Houtham)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/59 "2011-05-19T21:23:04Z")

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If you’re a guy and can’t be bothered to wear a powdered wig when you go out… well, I’m not bothering with you.

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**Author:** ![MrSquishy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MrSquishy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrSquishy)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/friends-dont-let-friends-wear-short-sleeve-shirts-with-a-tie/582287/60 "2011-05-19T21:27:24Z")

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Also, the Beatles suck and never put ketchup on a hot dog! I have spoken.

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