I said what I meant and I meant what I said. That’s not a nitpick, it’s been a major point of contention.
In any other situation, a person is allowed to defend themselves from another person who is causing them harm or is undeniably about to cause them harm.
If you’re pointing a gun at me and threatening to kill me, I can shoot you without any repercussions. I don’t have to wait for you to shoot me first before I can defend myself.
If you have a seizure while driving and become unconscious, I can run you off the road if that’s what I have to do to keep you from accidentally killing me with your car.
In all cases, self-defense is an acceptable reason to kill someone. There is the concept of “least necessary force”, which means that I can’t kill you if I could stop you with lesser means.
But I don’t think there’s a principal that says I can’t kill you because you’re not going to kill me, you’re only going to chop off my legs.
If you are harming me, my family, or even my property, I can kill you in self-defense, according to Church principles.
EXCEPT when a pregnancy is harming a woman. Suddenly that fertilized egg/zygote/glob of cells/blastula/embryo/fetus/baby becomes all important.
An ectopic pregnancy, with no chance of survival for either party unless something is done? Can’t just kill the egg, have to carve up the woman and destroy her health so that we can pretend we didn’t kill the egg, we just waited passively for it to die.
The aforementioned pregnant 9 year old? Her health and life don’t matter, the only thing that’s important is what’s in her womb.
The woman in the OP, whose fetus was going to kill her if she didn’t terminate the pregnancy? Too bad, so sad. It’s fine if you die, you’re just a woman. What’s really, really important is that no one harms that fetus, even if it’s going to die anyway.
These situations are a consistent and ongoing result of Church policy that women are less important than the contents of their wombs.
And that’s exactly what a large portion of this umpteen-page thread has been about, so trying to pawn off your argument by assertion as a “nitpick” is quite precious.
The other point of the thread, of course, being that the Church claims they have the moral authority to make these sorts of decisions, while at the same time running a systematic cover-up protecting and supporting child molesters.