it’s clear you’re open-minded and willing to listen to reasoned argument here, so let me offer you an analogy:
A county has a practice of bringing every killing in front of a grand jury. That is, if you kill someone, the grand jury must look at the facts and decide if you committed murder.
Now, this is obviously a good rule when you’re dealing with murders, and it even makes sense when the case appears to be self-defense. By this inflexible rule, the public can have a degree of self-assuredness that there’s an independent review of the death, and whatever claim of self-defense that’s made is a good one, not a thinly-veiled excuse for murder.
That’s all that’s happening here. Because the vast majority of abortions are not permissible, the church’s law imposes an automatic penalty on anyone who assists at one. But because there are circumstances, like this one, where abortion is permissible under church law, there is a process to remove that automatic penalty.
Does the self-defense killer “beg forgiveness” from the grand jury?
No. He tells the grand jury the facts, and they return a “no true bill,” clearing him.
Does the nun here beg for forgiveness? No. She tells her confessor the facts, and since they do not establish any sinful action on her part, the automatic excommunication is lifted.
If you want to slam the Church for being against birth control, or abortion, or female priests, or for sheltering molestors – go ahead. Those are all fair statements of fact. The Church IS against abortion. If you accuse the Church of being against abortion I’ll defend the idea, but won’t deny the fact. If you accuse the Church of a massive breach of her duty when molestors were sheltered, I won’t deny the fact or defend the action.
But on this particular issue, this nun, you’re accusing the Church of facts that aren’t true.
Probably, you think, I should just shut up. Since the Church is so manifestly guilty on other grounds, do they really deserve any defense on this ground?
Well… yes. As does Idi Amin, if you claim he was a cannibal. There are plenty of valid criticisms of Idi Amin, but he wasn’t a cannibal. And if you post that he was, I’m going to correct you, thus ‘defending’ Idi Amin.