# Fuck YOU, Daddy..Maybe you should have loved me more... **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [February 20, 2013, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896 "2013-02-20T19:55:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Euphonious\_Polemic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/euphonious_polemic/32/3002_2.png) [@Euphonious\_Polemic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Euphonious_Polemic)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2013, 10:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/41 "2013-02-22T22:33:03Z")
Glad you feel better. And in a pit thread no less! Congrats to all. ---
**Author:** ![April\_R](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@April\_R](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/April_R)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2013, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/42 "2013-02-22T23:55:59Z")
> [@Euphonious\_Polemic](#): > > Glad you feel better. > > And in a pit thread no less! Congrats to all. One for the history books! ---
**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2013, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/43 "2013-02-23T00:19:14Z")
You are not alone. My dad is a terrible bigot, and in general is not a nice person. He doesn’t like women, especially single or divorced women who refuse to straighten up and get married and do what their husbands tell them. He spent my whole life telling me that abused women “enjoy that kind of thing” and that rape victims make “that stuff up” to explain away pregnancy or STDs. He’s a peach. So he doesn’t like me, because I’m a single divorced mother (or as he would say, “saddled with kids”.) My advice: Cut him loose. He is doing you no good and is causing you nothing but grief. Why waste your energy? You have a good life with someone who loves you, and no one needs to be continually exposed to that kind of behavior. Good luck and take good care. ---
**Author:** ![usedtobe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ec9cab/32.png) [@usedtobe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/usedtobe)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2013, 7:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/44 "2013-02-24T07:16:29Z")
> [@curlcoat](#): > > No, there’s a word that covers when someone believes a fairytale because everyone around them tells them it’s true. > > English sucks… :mad: Indoctrination? ---
**Author:** ![curlcoat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@curlcoat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/curlcoat)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2013, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/45 "2013-02-24T16:46:15Z")
> [@usedtobe](#): > > Indoctrination? That’s a good word too! Probably closer to what I was trying to come up with than myth. ---
**Author:** ![SteveG1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bb73d2/32.png) [@SteveG1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SteveG1)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2013, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/46 "2013-02-25T22:32:48Z")
> [@Tee](#): > > No you don’t. You’re a grown woman desperately seeking Daddy’s approval and this is clouding your judgement. This. Enough is ENOUGH. You will never be “good enough”. You will always be “a disappointment”. Some people are just mean and selfish and deserve to be all alone in the world. > [@papergirl](#): > > My advice: Cut him loose. He is doing you no good and is causing you nothing but grief. Why waste your energy? You have a good life with someone who loves you, and no one needs to be continually exposed to that kind of behavior. Good luck and take good care ---
**Author:** ![sisu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@sisu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sisu)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2013, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/47 "2013-02-26T03:42:11Z")
He’s not gunna change so accept him as he is or fuck him off. ---
**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2013, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896/48 "2013-02-28T05:33:24Z")
> [@Askthepizzaguy](#): > > I have members of my family who are now old and have always been what I consider racist. > > I consider it racist. Probably most everyone behaved and believed the way they did back in the days when their opinions fucking mattered. > > The only damage they can cause at this point is that they can still vote. Fortunately, old age kicks them in the shins and their health eventually fails. > > On the one hand, I care about my flesh and blood and I want only the best for them. At the same time, if they can’t get with the program and stop using the word Negro or betraying their racist beliefs then I don’t want to have anything more to do with them. > > Eventually the grim scythe of Death will take care of the problem. I’ll mourn the loss of the person, but not the loss of the ignorant ideas they held. Oh, my gosh, I’m in the same family with a pizza guy! W00t! Can you bring an extra-large Veggie Supreme to the next reunion? But my mom _has_ progressed from “coloreds” or “pickaninnies” (I kid you not!) to “Negro or buh-_lack_ or what_ever_ ‘they’ want to be called these days…” [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-daddy-maybe-you-should-have-loved-me-more/650896.md?page=2)