# Fuck you, Diogenes, you were ignorant and rude.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [February 14, 2006, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505 "2006-02-14T18:53:48Z")\
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**Author:** ![Ensign\_Edison](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ab992/32.png) [@Ensign\_Edison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ensign_Edison)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/61 "2006-02-15T01:40:03Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> In spite of all your bullshit attempts to suggest otherwise, I never made any attempt to “pry” or get information out of Lilairen at all. I said “I’m guessing…” I never expected an answer but (I thought) she had implied one anyway from some of the other things she said.

If you have the time to bitch about my implication that you’re a nosy fucker, surely you have the time to address some of the points made in this thread about your behavior?

How about some of the points in my OP? You got any kind of real defense? How about that admission that you didn’t know what the fuck you were talking about? Anything to offer besides attacks on my involvement? I will answer that one, though: You made it my fucking business when you pissed it all over GD. You insulted me, my friends, and my intelligence, and now you’re insulting everybody in this thread who’s trying to actually take you seriously enough to speak to you about your problem.

If you don’t want people to get hard-ons for you don’t pose in the pages of Modern Jackass Monthly with your idiot hanging out.

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**Author:** ![Lilairen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lilairen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lilairen)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/62 "2006-02-15T01:42:57Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> No I did NOT “harp” on them. I made generic statements about people with trauma histories. You kept projecting yourself into every statement I made.

“Polygamous women are unhealthy” is a statement about all polygamous women.

It is not a statement about “polygamous women other than the ones that I actually have to deal with right here and now”.

And given that you _started_ your responses to me with speculations about having been abused, and referred back to me several times (including the “ **Lilairen** all but admitted I was right” in post #93"), I don’t think I’m projecting all that damn far.

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**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/63 "2006-02-15T01:46:05Z")

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> [@cthiax](#):
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> If you have the time to bitch about my implication that you’re a nosy fucker, surely you have the time to address some of the points made in this thread about your behavior?
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> How about some of the points in my OP? You got any kind of real defense? How about that admission that you didn’t know what the fuck you were talking about? Anything to offer besides attacks on my involvement? I will answer that one, though: You made it my fucking business when you pissed it all over GD. You insulted me, my friends, and my intelligence, and now you’re insulting everybody in this thread who’s trying to actually take you seriously enough to speak to you about your problem.
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> If you don’t want people to get hard-ons for you don’t pose in the pages of Modern Jackass Monthly with your idiot hanging out.

As far as I’m concerned, none of this discussion is any of your business, I don’t owe you a fucking thing and your accusations of “nosiness” are complete bullshit.

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**Author:** ![Lilairen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lilairen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lilairen)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/64 "2006-02-15T01:49:34Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> I guess that was a moment of pile-on exhaustion. My exchanges with **kalhoun** had started in the other thread and mostly pertained the Tom Green brand of polygamy. That was some tired reading on my part, I guess. I don’t rembember relating that question to you in my mind. I was talking about the creepy guys with harems, not all poly paradigms.

Is this intended to be an apology for insulting the men I love?

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**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/65 "2006-02-15T02:02:10Z")

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> [@Lilairen](#):
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> Is this intended to be an apology for insulting the men I love?

Does it matter?

For what it’s worth, I apologize for _unintentionally_ insulting the men you love. I was tracking a quail and shot without looking. I really didn’t mean to insult them and I really am sorry.

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**Author:** ![Lilairen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lilairen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lilairen)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/66 "2006-02-15T02:04:45Z")

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Thank you.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/67 "2006-02-15T02:08:01Z")

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> [@Trunk](#):
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> Maybe after reading this. . .

Maybe she feels it’s none of your goddamned business, ever think of that?

:rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![duffer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duffer/32/1026_2.png) [@duffer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/duffer)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/68 "2006-02-15T02:19:21Z")

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> [@Diogenes](#):
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> Why do you have such a hard on about this? What the fuck business is it of yours?

> [@cthiax](#):
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> That’s a fine fucking question coming from you!

Well, you did start the thread. :rolleyes:

Christ! Do you not understand how message boards work?!? People are going to offer opinions on any matter that is presented. If you want a “safe place” where you won’t encounter people that don’t see the world as you do, go to a fucking board that will masturbate over every fucking thought and opinion you have.

There is enough to be pissed off about in the world. This shit is bugging you? Fuck it. I’m off to the strip club to pick up my second wife.

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**Author:** ![Malacandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Malacandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malacandra)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 9:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/69 "2006-02-15T09:27:04Z")

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> [@cthiax](#):
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> If you have the time to bitch about my implication that you’re a nosy fucker, surely you have the time to address some of the points made in this thread about your behavior?
> 
> How about some of the points in my OP? You got any kind of real defense? How about that admission that you didn’t know what the fuck you were talking about? Anything to offer besides attacks on my involvement? I will answer that one, though: You made it my fucking business when you pissed it all over GD. You insulted me, my friends, and my intelligence, and now you’re insulting everybody in this thread who’s trying to actually take you seriously enough to speak to you about your problem.
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> If you don’t want people to get hard-ons for you don’t pose in the pages of Modern Jackass Monthly with your idiot hanging out.

This thread is Sig Line Central, isn’t it? 😃

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**Author:** ![Waverly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/57b2e6/32.png) [@Waverly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waverly)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 10:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/70 "2006-02-15T10:54:53Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> I sent an apology to **Lilairen** yesterday via email.

If you have a private apology to make, you should keep it private. Announcing a private apology rather than just making a public one strikes me as odd.

> [@](#):
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> so that’s all I’ll have to say in this thread.

Well now, that turned out not to be true. Who’d have guessed?

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**Author:** ![jali](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecae2f/32.png) [@jali](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jali)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/71 "2006-02-15T13:17:38Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> so that’s all I’ll have to say in this thread.

Untruth!!!

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**Author:** ![jali](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ecae2f/32.png) [@jali](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jali)\
**Post date:** [February 15, 2006, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/72 "2006-02-15T13:18:42Z")

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Waverly,

I didn’t read your post before I made mine. I’ve seen the same line used in other threads - never true.

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**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2006, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/73 "2006-02-16T02:13:38Z")

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> [@clairobscur](#):
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> I can’t understand why a generally rational poster has such an irrational way of thinking…

We all have our blind spots.

Dio just broadcasts his at a comically high volume.

[sub]generally rational… that’s a mite generous[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [February 16, 2006, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/74 "2006-02-16T02:23:17Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> As far as I’m concerned, none of this discussion is any of your business, I don’t owe you a fucking thing and your accusations of “nosiness” are complete bullshit.

It’s a public message board, dumbfuck. You don’t want it to be a matter for public discussion, don’t post it here.

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**Author:** ![Waverly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/57b2e6/32.png) [@Waverly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Waverly)\
**Post date:** [February 17, 2006, 3:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-diogenes-you-were-ignorant-and-rude/344505/75 "2006-02-17T15:21:59Z")

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I just want to point out that the google ads now advertise “Waverly & more”

I don’t know what that “more” is, but I’m officially intrigued.

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