# Fuck You, Girlfriend's Brother

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [December 30, 2012, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586 "2012-12-30T19:17:55Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![woodstockbirdybird](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/woodstockbirdybird/32/7905_2.png) [@woodstockbirdybird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/woodstockbirdybird)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/381 "2013-01-04T21:06:39Z")

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To have a place where people can insult each other. Any other questions?

ETA: In response to Clueless Joe.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/382 "2013-01-04T21:07:21Z")

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Who was that guy who got banned about a year ago for making threats when he felt his wife and kids were being threatened? You’re starting to remind me of him, **al27052**.

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**Author:** ![EmAnJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/d2c977/32.png) [@EmAnJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmAnJ)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/383 "2013-01-04T21:07:29Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> Maybe. I figure them out in the long run, though.
> 
> I STILL don’t get why the Pit exists. what’s the point of creating a place for people to insult one another?

Are you reading any of the other Pit threads? If so, you would see that the majority of them are about things OTHER than people on SDMB. But go ahead and keep living in your own little bubble there, buddy.

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**Author:** ![spinky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/59ef9b/32.png) [@spinky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spinky)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/384 "2013-01-04T21:08:06Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> What I don’t get it is why he’s STILL got his personal email, with his REAL NAME in it, posted on his public profile.

WTF? I just checked his profile and there’s a real name and email address there, but it’s not his name and email, it’s **mine**. What the hell are you trying to pull, **Bob Ducca**?

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**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/385 "2013-01-04T21:08:21Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> Guess who just changed their email address in their profile?

Yep.

I’ve never had an issue letting other members contact me, and I’ve never felt a need to hide my real name until some rando nutjob started directly threatening me.

Fortunately, unlike you, I keep my Facebook profile locked down with privacy settings. Which, if you’ll go back upthread, was the whole point of me pointing this out to you in the first place. I was gently teasing you about calling yourself a hacker even though you can’t even turn on FB privacy settings… and now this? Jesus man, get a grip.

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**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/386 "2013-01-04T21:12:49Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> I STILL don’t get why the Pit exists. what’s the point of creating a place for people to insult one another?

To attract top notch posters like yourself.

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**Author:** ![billfish678](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7bcc69/32.png) [@billfish678](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/billfish678)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/387 "2013-01-04T21:13:26Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Who was that guy who got banned about a year ago for making threats when he felt his wife and kids were being threatened? You’re starting to remind me of him, **al27052**.

Al27052 need to note that. Go batshit crazy here or cross some line regarding threats or lawsuits and he will get his ass banned toot sweet, with no second chances.

Al need to take a break and step back IMO.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/388 "2013-01-04T21:15:40Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> Who was that guy who got banned about a year ago for making threats when he felt his wife and kids were being threatened? You’re starting to remind me of him, **al27052**.

Reminds me of Mr. Rhonda Tiger of the IMDb boards.

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**Author:** ![al27052](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/41988e/32.png) [@al27052](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/al27052)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/389 "2013-01-04T21:16:41Z")

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> [@Bob Ducca](#):
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> Yep.
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> I’ve never had an issue letting other members contact me, and I’ve never felt a need to hide my real name until some rando nutjob started directly threatening me.
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> Fortunately, unlike you, I keep my Facebook profile locked down with privacy settings. Which, if you’ll go back upthread, was the whole point of me pointing this out to you in the first place. I was gently teasing you about calling yourself a hacker even though you can’t even turn on FB privacy settings… and now this? Jesus man, get a grip.

I’m not a hacker. My POINT was that there ARE some unhinged people OUT there. In addition, there are the 4chan types, who, while sane, are not to be messed with. I’ve not personally seen cases where people have had to deal with repercussions from online trolling, but it happens.

You scared the shit out of me. i thought you were about to post my facebook profile for everybody to see here.

And, dude, your email address was google-able. VERY. If you’d like to maybe make peace, feel free to email me. I’m reasonable. Try me.

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**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/390 "2013-01-04T21:18:57Z")

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Why don’t you try not being a dipshit, instead?

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/391 "2013-01-04T21:19:37Z")

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You will be comforted, I hope, by the fact that nobody gives a shit about your fucking Facebook profile.

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**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/392 "2013-01-04T21:20:13Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> Maybe. I figure them out in the long run, though.
> 
> I STILL don’t get why the Pit exists. what’s the point of creating a place for people to insult one another?

If you don’t like the Pit, don’t visit it. Who cares?

What I’m interested in is this ‘threat’ that you say Bob has leveled against you. Where is it? Specifically.

Are you talking about something that happened outside of the SDMB?

Finding out ‘who’ someone is, because they have their email address linked to their profile, is not a ‘threat’.

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**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/393 "2013-01-04T21:20:24Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> And, dude, your email address was google-able. VERY. If you’d like to maybe make peace, feel free to email me. I’m reasonable. Try me.

I’m sure it was. I’ve done some things in the public eye and don’t really hide who I am. That’s different than keeping my FB locked up though.

Also, I honestly don’t have any programs to fund or university donors to worry about or whatever - so hopefully you’re not ruining some guy’s life just because he and I share the same name.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/394 "2013-01-04T21:22:52Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> I’m not a hacker. My POINT was that there ARE some unhinged people OUT there. \<snip\>

Out _there_, you say?

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**Author:** ![Euphonious\_Polemic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/euphonious_polemic/32/3002_2.png) [@Euphonious\_Polemic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Euphonious_Polemic)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/395 "2013-01-04T21:23:40Z")

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> [@al27052](#):
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> You scared the shit out of me. i thought you were about to post my facebook profile for everybody to see here.

Ya, I can see why you’d think that  
From post #307:

> [@](#):
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> Don’t worry, I’d never post your personal details here. Just pointing out that you’re kind of a retard.

Oh wait, no. I don’t see why you’d think that.

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**Author:** ![JackieLikesVariety](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackielikesvariety/32/296_2.png) [@JackieLikesVariety](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JackieLikesVariety)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/396 "2013-01-04T21:29:30Z")

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> [@](#):
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> If you’d like to maybe make peace, feel free to email me. I’m reasonable. Try me.

be nice if you apologized for threatening him.

which we all saw you do, after claiming he threatened you.

which we all saw him not do.

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**Author:** ![The\_Dord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3be4f8/32.png) [@The\_Dord](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Dord)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/397 "2013-01-04T21:36:09Z")

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This thread’s gonna end well. Popcorn anyone? 😃

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**Author:** ![half-elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ac91a4/32.png) [@half-elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/half-elf)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/398 "2013-01-04T21:39:16Z")

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Anyway, what about **BudgetPlayerCadet**?  
If I don’t misremember, he never did give his feedback on all the advice he got in this thread (albeit heated and sometimes rather snarky).

**BPC** , do you see how you might bear some responsibility for the events which caused you to post your rant in the first place?  
Also, why on earth did you show this thread to the girl?? (you did mention that in one of the earlier posts didn’t you?) You realize that it’s quite possible for her to search your past posts where all your previous “achievements” are posted, don’t you?

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/399 "2013-01-04T21:41:10Z")

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Bwahahahahaha! Crazy, clueless, whiteknighting Internet tough guy has CONTACTED THE FBI !! Lock yer doors, hide the silver and don’t let grandma answer the phone. It’s gettin’ downright scary in here.

\< hides \>

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2013, 9:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-girlfriends-brother/645586/400 "2013-01-04T21:42:57Z")

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> [@The\_Dord](#):
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> This thread’s gonna end well.

I dunno. It could very well end with the banning of a certain poster.

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